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    Mind Blowing How best to turn away girls?

    I don't want to be a typical jerk!

    How best to sensitively turn away girls who I am not interested in, for whatever reason?

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    Just say you aren't buying dances.

    Don't do the "maybe later/not right now" thing, don't wait till she's talked to you for 15 mins to say you aren't interested, and don't say "you're really attractive etc blah blah". A straightforward no is appreciated.

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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    "Sorry, but no."

    It's your money. You decide who you spend it on. Why waste either your or her time pussyfooting around. For you, it's nothing. For her, it's her paycheck. Let her spend that time on someone more productive. You don't have to be a dick about it, just say no.
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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    Say you're waiting on somebody already, or looking for someone in particular.

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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    I guess he banned, so.


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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    I guess he banned, so.
    Shame he didn't seem too obscene or confrontational.

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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    I don't like any of that "maybe later, not now, waiting for someone" trying to spare a dancer's feelings crap.

    A simple and friendly "No thanks" is enough in my book.

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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    Shut her down immediately with a friendly, straightforward "no, thanks". Don't talk to her for 20 mins to be "nice" because ultimately wasting her time/money isn't nice. Don't say "maybe later" if you have zero intentions of spending on her because chances are she will actually check on you later which goes back into wasting her time.

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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    I guess he banned, so.
    Quote Originally Posted by Liwet View Post
    Shame he didn't seem too obscene or confrontational.
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    LOL. I noticed that too.
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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    Even though he is banned other men may wonder.
    Hand them $5 and say not interested, here is a tip & good luck with the next guy.

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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    It is easy with the dancers that ask before they sit down with you. I appreciate it when they do that. I say politely, "No, thank you."

    It is harder when the dancers just sits without asking, like she knows you, and she chats you up for 20 minutes before asking if you want to buy a dance. It feels rude to interrupt her and ask her to leave before she has even asked you to buy anything, but, on the other hand, you feel bad turning down a dance after the dancer has given you 20 minutes of her precious time. This is a psychological trick - like when the Hare Krishnas give you a "free" gift, and then, ask for a donation. You feel an obligation to give back after someone has given you something valuable for free. The way I have learned to deal with this is - when she sits down uninvited and without asking, I say something like, "I'm sorry, I have already invited someone else to sit with me." or "Sorry, I'm getting ready to leave."
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    Default Re: How best to turn away girls?

    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    It is harder when the dancers just sits without asking, like she knows you, and she chats you up for 20 minutes before asking if you want to buy a dance. It feels rude to interrupt her and ask her to leave before she has even asked you to buy anything, but, on the other hand, you feel bad turning down a dance after the dancer has given you 20 minutes of her precious time. This is a psychological trick - like when the Hare Krishnas give you a "free" gift, and then, ask for a donation. You feel an obligation to give back after someone has given you something valuable for free. The way I have learned to deal with this is - when she sits down uninvited and without asking, I say something like, "I'm sorry, I have already invited someone else to sit with me." or "Sorry, I'm getting ready to leave."
    In the old days I used to struggle with this too, but not for some years now. My time is valuable too and I don't want to waste it on girls I have no interest in. If a girl sits down and I am simply not attracted to her, she isn't there long. I have no qualms about interrupting her and letting her know that I'm not buying anything from her. I try to do it as nicely as possible, telling her that I just want to be honest and not waste her time, but I'm sure that it puts me on the a-hole list of some of them. C'est la vie. Three people benefit from that: me for the obvious reason, her because she's not burning her time on a non-sale and the next girl who I will give money to, because now the seat next to me is open for her.

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