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    Default Actually, i do have a question for the Dancers...

    ... but it's not for me. It's a hypothetical.

    Have any of you ever had a customer that literally just didn't have a chance with not just you, but any girl, to their minds, anyway. Say, they were deformed in some way. Or a SUPER nerd, not a regular one.
    Not so much what you felt, but rather how they behaved?

    I can kinda see this sort of thing as an outlet for people who can’t get it anywhere else, and those people exist. Are they any different from other customers in the way they act (Note: not in how you feel about them, as that’s a different bag of cats).

    I got this question from watching the SUPER weird Scarlett Johanson movie "Under the Skin."
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    Default Re: Actually, i do have a question for the Dancers...

    Oooh, Jim Jefferies spoke something about this. But to answer your question, I'm sure there's a stripper for everyone.


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    Default Re: Actually, i do have a question for the Dancers...

    Honestly, the closest it comes to that is guys in wheelchairs and with dwarfism.
    They make me terribly sad because what emanates off them is this sense of that they know they aren't attractive, they know they make people uncomfortable, and it's almost like they're ashamed to be there. Like... they know they are having to pay for it because of their appearance. Many of them run into the VIP room quickly so they aren't seen.

    On the other side of the coin, there's a very smelly guy with a terrible toupee that frequents my club, and he projects the same sort of thing (he knows he's never going to get a woman) but he tries to mask it with this false confidence. Like, he acts like the poor new girls who don't know better are chatting with him because he's wonderfully charming. Uses a lot of big words and flowery language. Talks about how he's helping his mom out & paying her bills. Etc.
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    Default Re: Actually, i do have a question for the Dancers...

    Yeah. I always feel really bad for the guys who seem like really decent people but something makes it basically impossible for them to have a "conventional" romantic or even just social life for some. Like i've danced for guys witj a stutter so bad they're basically impossible to understand, guys who are severely underweight and sick from some condition, guys with autism/aspergers that are very sweet and appreciative, but verbally deadpan. I also danced a few times for a guy who was very conventionally attractive and socially competent, but due to his fetish he had a belief that he"d never have the kind of relationship he really wanted. So all those guys were amazing customers (even though not all were financially able to be big spenders) and honestly you feel like you've made the world a little better after dancing for them. They're generally just so sweet and appreciative. And completely non-judgy, like they would spend time with any dancer, not just the "hottest" one or whatever.

    As Selina posted though there are guys who shoot themselves in the foot, like they aren't doomed to be single if they just did a better job with personal grooming etc, or stopped having ridiculous standards for civilian women. Lime sorry but if you're an overweight, middle aged guy with no hair and no charm, the only way you are spending time with a 22 year old model or whatever is for money. Whether in a club or sugar baby situation. But if they could settle for a woman who was similar in attractiveness to them they could totally have a real relationship and she'd probably think he was a total stud. So many mediocre guys out there are positive they are entitled to Barbie when they look nothing like Ken...
    It's also such a weird contrast between group 1 who would welcome a relationship with likely almost any woman, and group 2 who would only be interested in someone that checks off all the things on their build a gf list.

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    Default Re: Actually, i do have a question for the Dancers...

    ^^required reading

    Part one because despite all the ridiculous and false stereotypes you see dancers having compassion for people with real difficulties based solely on their appearance - something many of the people who judge dancers don't have. We'll all be old and infirm some day, and we'll need compassion too.

    Part 2 because there is a huge difference between love and the enjoyment of beauty and skill. A beautiful, skilled dancer is a pleasure to watch but you don't love her and she doesn't love you.

    OP I think a lot of those guys, their only outlet is professionals. As I've said before, I think we should be grateful they exist.
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    Default Re: Actually, i do have a question for the Dancers...

    I had a longtime quadraplegic customer who was in a wheelchair. He was very nice and intelligent but it would take a lot of work for a woman to be with him. He needed someone to care for and help him 24/7. There's a reason why his mom was his sole caregiver. That's a lot of work to take on. He was different in that he was trying to get me to replace his mom and become his caregiver. I think customers like that probably will only experience women through paid experiences(ie. strippers, escorts).

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    Default Re: Actually, i do have a question for the Dancers...

    Do you mean someone like one of "Sammie's Kids" ?

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