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    YOLO Tell her you love her and want to try to make a relationship with her, but you understand if she isn't into that. You might have to stop seeing her if she says no, though.

    She might appreciate that you didn't fuck her while she was extremely vulnerable.

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    PinkPopcorn.....Actually she was upset that I didn't......
    In recollection she might appreciate it. Hell, she might not. Either way, I say tell her how you feel.

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    are you paying her for these GFE party dates?

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    If this is indeed a true story.... TBH it is none of your business who Andrew is, unless you think he is some kind of danger to her- even then, not really your business. She is a dancer and you are a customer. She is not your girlfriend. If you want to have a different relationship with her than that is a conversation you need to have with her and not with us.

    If she does agree to date you, be aware you are probably not going to be able to make her quit dancing; unless you are prepared to pay all of her bills and give her spending money as well for at least 6 months or so while she figures out her next move.
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    also, how do you know this "andrew" guy isn't her boyfriend? i used to have a regular like this... he did pay me a lot of money but i genuinely like the guy. we partied all the time, sometimes he paid me and sometimes he didn’t. I was single and just having fun. But then I started seeing someone and basically had to choose between the two. The younger bf guy would call me like a million times when I was with the customer guy and both were just pissed. At first I told the older guy I didn’t have a boyfriend but couldn’t lie anymore.

    this may or may not be the case with you.. but FWIW i didn't think any less of him for professing his feelings to me, in fact we still keep in contact years later despite me moving to another state.

    if you and the ATF are this close i can't imagine she'd react badly either. you should definitely have a talk with her and tell her how you feel. maybe something can happen in the future, if not now. who knows. i know in my case i sometimes wish i had dated the older guy because the young "andrew" i was dating at the time turned out to be a controlling little shithead who cost me a lot of money and cheated on me. i wasn't attracted to the other guy but at least he would have been loyal and financially supportive, plus he really cared about me. seems pretty common for strippers to choose "love" with a cute guy their age over an older more stable customer type who would actually be a better boyfriend. even if the younger guy is broke, cheats on them, is controlling, etc

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    Gia.....She does potentially seem to be in danger based on the conversarion her and her friend had. I care a lot about her which is why it does concern me. I want to tell her that I love her but don't know how she'll react.

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    Girl Anachronism.......She broke up with her baby daddy over a year ago. She told me that she's single but that wouldn't be her first and only lie I suppose. She once told me that she wouldn't OTC if she was in a relationship. There's not a huge age difference between us. We're only about a 1 1/2 apart in age. If she's in a relationship then why do we usually hang out im her neighborhood?....Very close to her house?....If she had bf then wouldn't that be a bad idea?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SebastianCobb View Post
    Girl Anachronism.......She broke up with her baby daddy over a year ago. She told me that she's single but that wouldn't be her first and only lie I suppose. She once told me that she wouldn't OTC if she was in a relationship. There's not a huge age difference between us. We're only about a 1 1/2 apart in age. If she's in a relationship then why do we usually hang out im her neighborhood?....Very close to her house?....If she had bf then wouldn't that be a bad idea?
    that's why i asked if you're paying her. it was a bad idea when i did it but i took the risk because $500 a day to party with someone i enjoy chilling with is hard to pass up. i needed money and it was easy.. not to mention i could call him in when the club was slow $

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    that's why i asked if you're paying her. it was a bad idea when i did it but i took the risk because $500 a day to party with someone i enjoy chilling with is hard to pass up. i needed money and it was easy.. not to mention i could call him in when the club was slow $
    Yeah but It's way less than $500

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    it's also possible the dude knows about you and that's the cause of the drama

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    Quote Originally Posted by SebastianCobb View Post
    Yeah but It's way less than $500
    money is still money, i don't know her situation. sounds like she might really need whatever money you are paying her

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    it's also possible the dude knows about you and that's the cause of the drama
    Whoever he is....He seems to be mistreating her..

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    Quote Originally Posted by SebastianCobb View Post
    Whoever he is....He seems to be mistreating her..
    you keep saying that.. but you don't say what proof you have of that. did she say something? how do you know? could just be relationship problems.

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    Find someone else.

    Do not do business with someone who causes problems.

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    Default Re: Galls / Guys / Everyone Need Your Help on This One!!!

    You see, I have a different take of this thread based on you starting this thread below:

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...ou-girls-do-it


    Personally, I doubt that you ready love this dancer due several factors. 1. You blantly asked if "If a guy offered you $1,000 for BBFS would you do it?"...I know that you asked your dancer friend that and that is why she calls when she needs to make money. It is only obvious that you are pretending to be a "nice guy" to use her. I doubt that you are completely gentlemanly towards her as well.She knows this and plays on your "emotions" to gain more money out of you. Your emotional attachment equals more $$$ for her. 2. You fail to seem yourself as an client3. Why should you care who Andrew is? This chick is not your wife and she does not belong you. You guys have an business relationship. 4. I find it odd that most customers like yourself who are alleging in love with sex workers come on forums to brag.


    My 2 cents:

    Just leave her alone and you would not have these problems.
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    None of us know her or the exact situation other than what you've told us. Andrew could be anyone, a boyfriend, an obsessive stalker strip club client, an ex boyfriend, a pimp, who knows. People can do dangerous things in desperate situations(ie. meeting up with you in public or somewhere were you could possibly run into a bf, etc) so it is possible that Andrew is her boyfriend and he's suspecting her of being up to something with the OTC meets with you. Stripper bf's can be the worst to deal with, as they often seem to have jealousy and control issues. I don't know what her situation is but don't delude yourself into thinking that what you have is a personal relationship. It is more of a business relationship and continues to be so, so long as money is exchanging hands. It is the nature of the stripper game for some, to sell you the girlfriend fantasy without actually being in a serious relationship with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SebastianCobb View Post
    The fact that she was crying her eyes out when talking about this issue. The keywords mentioned by the friend "safety", "think about your kid/family", "does this guy have issues", "weirdo"........
    so how do you know she wasn't referring to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    so how do you know she wasn't referring to you.
    I don't which also bothers me because that has never been an issue with my ATF. 3 out of our last OTCs 4 were set up by her....Im sure that she doesn't see me that way. And what was it that made her emotionally break down I also wonder...

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    A summary of advice from your post on TUSCL:

    * Run, this isn't a healthy relationship you're in

    * As long as you pay money to this girl, you are a customer and shouldn't assume otherwise

    * Offer to meet without paying her, such as a dinner date

    * Take a break from her

    * Stop spending time with her friend or being around her when the friend is around

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    Quote Originally Posted by SebastianCobb View Post
    I don't which also bothers me because that has never been an issue with my ATF. 3 out of our last OTCs 4 were set up by her....Im sure that she doesn't see me that way. And what was it that made her emotionally break down I also wonder...
    well gee i wonder why. she needed money and knew you'd come through which you did. seems like there's a reason her friend doesn't like you...

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