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    Default No return after going Findom?

    Been a while since I have posted on SW, but could use some ladies' perspectives.

    I danced for a short period and it was not for me. I have been a sugar baby since I was 18 years old and will be a life long sugar baby. I am currently engaged to my most current SD. But I can not stand not making my own money. He pays for everything in my life but I need something to do. I have a small vanilla business and its slowly coming along, have a bachelor's degree, I volunteer once a week, but I miss adult work. I would never do conventional porn but I am really interested in fetish, specifically Financial domination. I know I would kick ass in it too, as I believe in Findom wholeheartedly and it is now my fetish. I have been studying it for about a year and want to jump in on sites like NiteFlirt and IWC. I have no plans to be nude or performing sex acts in clips or pictures. But I have never attached my image to adult work on the internet so it still makes me nervous.

    Can Findom content affect a future career like nursing where they take your license away and you can't be an RN anymore like other adult jobs? Most of the girls I follow have made this their career and I wonder if they ever worry about the future. I can only think of a couple of successful findom girls that don't show their face, but they mainly do real time meetups, cash meets, etc.

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    Default Re: No return after going Findom?

    What an interesting question! I would say that the vanilla world can view fetish work in the same light as other adult work. However, a lot of people do not understand findom as fetish and might not think it is the same league at the rest of adult stuff. Now, I will address your interest in findom overall. Financial domination and the rest of the money fetishes can be done in a more down low way than most other fetishes. Why? Because many in the BDSM community do not like the financial fetishes and this can give you more lead way. Thus, you can do financial domination with an phone sex character on NF and be successful that way. You can also create an private social media account on Instagram, Twitter, and or Tumblr while scouting for findom piggies. I would suggest using more financial fetishes in your arsenal such as money fetish, ripoff, and rinising. Good luck
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    Default Re: No return after going Findom?

    In any conservative type job that is still going to be considered adult and could affect you in the future.


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    Default Re: No return after going Findom?

    Financial domination is a lot harder to get into now days, you have to be willing to sell findom without actually selling it straight forward to reach wider range of customers. Someone may not want to actually be drained but draining is actually possible if you continue to sell them their other fetish. Hope that makes sense, if you went the niteflirt route you'd probably market better if you did it that way while still kind of having a findom theme underlying.

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    Yeah I agree that some people do not think fetish work is as serious as other forms of adult work, but some bigoted people will try to take you down no matter what you do or don't do. I don't want to be afraid to live my authentic life, and I consider findom to be a part of my life now. From what I have seen and heard, fetish and findom stuff is less pirated than conventional porn so that is good.

    I wish there wasn't so much discrimination in this world but alas. There are contradicting reports on what can get someone fired from vanilla work, and people get fired for stupider reasons. Read one woman say she almost lost her nursing job because she was featured in an article in the local paper about a beer drinking event and in the picture she was wearing a t-shirt with hospital's logo, the picture wasn't even at the event! She was on a cross country run in the picture! lol So F it, I want to do it and who knows who will find it. Why are they looking at it to begin with? And in 20 years I'm sure my content will be buried under all of the other adult content waiting to be made.

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    Default Re: No return after going Findom?

    I agree with you. The highest performing findoms (at least in $) that I follow offer a lot of different findom related services/content, something for everyone. Just being a sexy, bratty woman brings them in and they find something they want from you even if they don't think they want to be drained. They want to be helpful in at least some way, they want attention.

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    This is something I also worry about.
    I FinDom more of as a hobby. But I recently made an IG to go along with my persona (and also try to market myself) and since I'm also working on my doctoral degree in a little afraid this may all come back to bite me in the ass one day.

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    Default Re: No return after going Findom?

    My two cents: I work at a day job that often deals directly with lawyers and politicians. Never been a problem, and I've been surprised that none of my coworkers have turned out to be kink customers (that I know of!). Then again, for someone to 'out' you as having a sex work history, they out themselves too. If someone wants to make a big deal out of your desire to make your own money with your built-in God-given resources, then of course you might not be able to get a particular employer to trust your judgment in the future. If you talk like it's a business, when pressed to clarify your background, it helps a LOT! Especially helpful that our economy stinks in some respects; most people will understand sex/kinks/stripping etc is a method of income just like any other job. I feel much more like a whore at my day job, and never in my sex work.

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    Default Re: No return after going Findom?

    Quote Originally Posted by GoldenChild View Post
    Been a while since I have posted on SW, but could use some ladies' perspectives.

    I danced for a short period and it was not for me. I have been a sugar baby since I was 18 years old and will be a life long sugar baby. I am currently engaged to my most current SD. But I can not stand not making my own money. He pays for everything in my life but I need something to do. I have a small vanilla business and its slowly coming along, have a bachelor's degree, I volunteer once a week, but I miss adult work. I would never do conventional porn but I am really interested in fetish, specifically Financial domination. I know I would kick ass in it too, as I believe in Findom wholeheartedly and it is now my fetish. I have been studying it for about a year and want to jump in on sites like NiteFlirt and IWC. I have no plans to be nude or performing sex acts in clips or pictures. But I have never attached my image to adult work on the internet so it still makes me nervous.

    Can Findom content affect a future career like nursing where they take your license away and you can't be an RN anymore like other adult jobs? Most of the girls I follow have made this their career and I wonder if they ever worry about the future. I can only think of a couple of successful findom girls that don't show their face, but they mainly do real time meetups, cash meets, etc.
    Unfortunately due to "deepfake" technology + human nature people can dig up old social media & try to blackball people over pretty much nothing. It's been a big topic in the press since the Internet has pretty much erased privacy.

    RNs on average have more to worry about in terms of work-specific drama that can get a License revoked than "past indescretions." It's a big thing in the press too as Nurses Unions have been fighting for Nurse Rights.

    I avoided FinDom because most of the kinds of guys who dig that tend to be "head game" players and I find that personality more taxing to tolerate than "SweatPants Boner Man" or a guy who wants a massage.

    Added note- a lot of the male consumers of fringe adult activity tend to be white collar and very straightlaced in real life. Most will not out you unless they're in a total downward spiral and have lost all sense of normal life.

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