Seriously, how do you keep going to work because the money would have to be way awesome to make it worthwhile. I was in a new club for me on Tuesday and just listened to the BS and actions of the guys for a bit and I was amazed at the grace of the dancers in handling it. I understand the money can be good and the hours etc but the crap guys try to pull was amazing to me when I paid attention. From "C'mon honey, how 'bout a free private and then if you are good we can go to the CR." to this guy literally pulling a dancer to him by her bottoms and trying to put his finger in her right at the table. I went over to her and asked her to join me, tipped her a bit and left as the atmosphere was borderline rapey. The clubs I normally go to don't seem that weird but I am going to start paying attention. I mean we are all people and if you want sex go to an escort. I am lonely when I travel, am not in a relationship and enjoy talking to beautiful women and enjoy the fantasy that they like me but I know it is a fantasy they are selling. Some of this was just really crazy. I know clubs are about fantasy and it can go too far, and I know "extras" are offered by some dancers in some clubs, but the aggression was higher at this club than I have seen before. Why stay at such a club as a dancer? It also seems that it is worse now than it was a dozen years of so ago when I started traveling and going to clubs. I don't know, just kinda struck me and I was wondering if it is getting stranger now than it was?



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