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    Default I don't know how you do it.

    Seriously, how do you keep going to work because the money would have to be way awesome to make it worthwhile. I was in a new club for me on Tuesday and just listened to the BS and actions of the guys for a bit and I was amazed at the grace of the dancers in handling it. I understand the money can be good and the hours etc but the crap guys try to pull was amazing to me when I paid attention. From "C'mon honey, how 'bout a free private and then if you are good we can go to the CR." to this guy literally pulling a dancer to him by her bottoms and trying to put his finger in her right at the table. I went over to her and asked her to join me, tipped her a bit and left as the atmosphere was borderline rapey. The clubs I normally go to don't seem that weird but I am going to start paying attention. I mean we are all people and if you want sex go to an escort. I am lonely when I travel, am not in a relationship and enjoy talking to beautiful women and enjoy the fantasy that they like me but I know it is a fantasy they are selling. Some of this was just really crazy. I know clubs are about fantasy and it can go too far, and I know "extras" are offered by some dancers in some clubs, but the aggression was higher at this club than I have seen before. Why stay at such a club as a dancer? It also seems that it is worse now than it was a dozen years of so ago when I started traveling and going to clubs. I don't know, just kinda struck me and I was wondering if it is getting stranger now than it was?

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    Default Re: I don't know how you do it.

    i personally don't understand how girls tolerate this stuff in some areas. i assume it's all they know and are used to it. i tried working at a club like you described recently and paid to leave after an hour or so. if that was the norm where i lived i would either move or quit..

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    Default Re: I don't know how you do it.

    I have a friend who is a tutor. He loves the freedom, he feels he is compensated well, and he likes educating people. However, he used to hate driving, and he has to go to people's homes. He told me he convinced himself to like driving. He got a nice car, top of the line system, and just decided to like his time in the car.

    My admittedly amateur theory is the dancers that last more than a few months get really good at handling these jokers and are able to enjoy at least some aspect of the job.
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    Default Re: I don't know how you do it.

    It is very tough working at clubs like that. Yes, it has gotten worse now because there are so many customers who seem to think that strip clubs are brothels and the sad part(at least where I live) some of them pretty much are. You don't know what the dancers' situations are, that causes them to stick around. Some dancers work at such a club to support their drug habit. Some of us are single moms and are working to support ourselves and our kid(s). I was homeless living in a motel with a baby, working at a dumpy club just long enough to save up for my own place. Every day I wanted to quit but sometimes you tolerate all the bullshit like Mr. Grab Ass or Mr. Asshole, who seemed to make it his daily mission to come into the club and tell girls that they were ugly, too fat, too pale, etc. because it's about survival. I'll not set foot in any clubs in my area again because of how bad they've gotten.

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