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    Duh Ugh! The one time I’m ready to start working again..

    So I go all the way to Minneapolis to work at a club after I’ve called ahead of time to ask if they were hiring. They said yes and to bring an outfit, shoes, and my id. The club I was auditioning for was Spearmint rhino, and I’ve worked at 2 of their locations prior to coming out there. I get the “yes” for an audition thinking that I could start tonight considering the fact that I’ve been able to start the same night and the doormen made it as seem as if I could. The fact that I get dressed, touch up my makeup, and everything in between just for them to tell me to come back Monday irritated the hell out of me. I mean it’s cool since they said I would be hired but after a 5 hour drive just to get there in hopes I could start this weekend makes me not want to come back so soon. If I was hired tonight I would’ve worked thurs-Sunday every weekend.

    I dont know anything thing about the clubs in Minneapolis and I only chose Rhino considering I’ve worked at their other locations. It’s just so frustrating because I’ve been trying to get back into work for 2 weeks straight now and can’t get in anywhere. I’m damn near ready to go back to the urban clubs because the upscale clubs are giving me the run around. I would think I’m pretty attractive and I’ve attached my pics just so I can see is it me? Or is that these clubs are on bs??
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    You're gorgeous. How big is your butt? I ask because some of these white clubs don't want black girls with big butts because it makes the club "ghetto"..so stupid.

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    You are beautiful! Upscale clubs are insane to give you the runaround.

    Are they making you come back on a slow night to work? Wtf. I would still go but I sure hope they don't pull some shit with you then. I would raise hell if they did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    You're gorgeous. How big is your butt? I ask because some of these white clubs don't want black girls with big butts because it makes the club "ghetto"..so stupid.

    Thank you and my butt is pretty average. I’ve worked in plenty upscale clubs before and never had that problem. My butt is like big enough to work in the urban clubs but small enough to work in the upscale clubs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BarbieNYC View Post
    You are beautiful! Upscale clubs are insane to give you the runaround.

    Are they making you come back on a slow night to work? Wtf. I would still go but I sure hope they don't pull some shit with you then. I would raise hell if they did.

    Thank you!

    Yes! They want me to come back on a slow night which is what u can’t figure out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Graci_00 View Post
    So I go all the way to Minneapolis to work at a club after I’ve called ahead of time to ask if they were hiring. They said yes and to bring an outfit, shoes, and my id. The club I was auditioning for was Spearmint rhino, and I’ve worked at 2 of their locations prior to coming out there. I get the “yes” for an audition thinking that I could start tonight considering the fact that I’ve been able to start the same night and the doormen made it as seem as if I could. The fact that I get dressed, touch up my makeup, and everything in between just for them to tell me to come back Monday irritated the hell out of me. I mean it’s cool since they said I would be hired but after a 5 hour drive just to get there in hopes I could start this weekend makes me not want to come back so soon. If I was hired tonight I would’ve worked thurs-Sunday every weekend.

    I dont know anything thing about the clubs in Minneapolis and I only chose Rhino considering I’ve worked at their other locations. It’s just so frustrating because I’ve been trying to get back into work for 2 weeks straight now and can’t get in anywhere. I’m damn near ready to go back to the urban clubs because the upscale clubs are giving me the run around. I would think I’m pretty attractive and I’ve attached my pics just so I can see is it me? Or is that these clubs are on bs??
    Ive had that happen to me when travelling. What I usually do is just find a club that will let me work right away even if it's not ideal. Usually lower tier clubs will let you start right away, especially since you're beautiful. It's not idea but at least you'll be able to recuperate your travel costs. You can go work on the Monday and let them know you can only do Thurs-Sun and hope it all works out.

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    If they offered you a slow night, I would just take it . They may want to just see how you work / how good your hustle is before doing a busy night.

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    U are really pretty, exotic looking & have a great body from what I see


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    You look great. I would agree to work on Monday, but not for more than a week or two.

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    You look amazing hun!

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    A 5 hour drive and they told you to come back later?! OMG Girl, I would have been furious! You are seriously drop-dead gorgeous with a rockin' body. They should have let you work that night.

    If I were you, I wouldn't bother going back. Fuck them. Their loss. Did you tell them that you drove 5 hours? If you did and they still told you to come back later, to hell with that club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Randi Starr View Post
    You look amazing hun!

    Thanks love

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletKitten View Post
    A 5 hour drive and they told you to come back later?! OMG Girl, I would have been furious! You are seriously drop-dead gorgeous with a rockin' body. They should have let you work that night.

    If I were you, I wouldn't bother going back. Fuck them. Their loss. Did you tell them that you drove 5 hours? If you did and they still told you to come back later, to hell with that club.
    Thank you

    But yeah, I told them and they said that they do would rather do the paperwork on Monday, I guess. It wasn’t even busy

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    Thanks for the compliment loves. Depending on how I feel by Monday I may or may not go back. That drive!

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    Damn & I hate an 1hr long drive. I'd try some other clubs. I hate wasting my time & if you mentioned you drove 5hrs and they said they just don't feel like doing paperwork..... I'd just keep it moving.

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    Clubs in Montreal will not hire you to work that night but for the following week. Things work different in different cities and according to the standards here, you got hired. I don't think they meant you can work only Mondays but rather we will officially start you on Monday so you can work the next week.

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    Ima be honest with you not because I'm tryna down play you but coming from being a black dancer myself it's best if you go back to urban clubs you'll secure da Bag faster I'm saying this because white clubs wants you most of the time to be a black girl with white features dip in white and model skinny almost pre teen Esq,Girl you have big tities and probably a bubble booty just gone head and go to the urban clubs you'll bank!






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