
Originally Posted by
Sam38g
Why do you owe a child any explanation? Who is the adult here? Who is the person in charge?
Boundaries as in somethings are none of your child's business.
Why is he awake? and spying on you? You are an adult who can wear make up & sexy outfits anytime you like & don't owe anyone an explanation for it. You also could throw on a robe before leaving the bedroom.
Placed a fan, nightime music or left the tv on in his room for noise. My friends all did that with their kids so they could live life without worrying about having to be quiet so the kids could nap or sleep at night when they were working night time hours.
Instead of a robe, You could also wear sexy outfits or go naked more around the house. Know plenty of people NOT in the sex industry who think nudity is nothing. Kids growing up without shame about their bodies & covering up all the time helps promote being ashamed of your body.
All of their kids grew up and are now successful doctors, lawyers & such. Despite having strippers and both the Mom & Dad being one or porn stars.
My nephews & god children has questions. I simply told them NONE of their business tell they were 18 years of age. Until then what I do for a living was NONE of their business. It was a discussion their parents had & agreed upon when the kids were born. Thus no issues or problems ever arose.
Didn't you growing up ever hear your parents tell you "None of your business." I sure did. My parents established boundaries & didn't answer to kids.
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