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    I.. I don't think they're being serious. Lol.

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    I.. I don't think they're being serious. Lol.
    No their being racist lol

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    People who still call Black women "colored" and "negro" in 2017...WOW.....
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    or asians referred to as "oriental".....
    or women's races/cultures as "colors"

    Like bruh this is 2017 not 1800's

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    No their being racist lol
    Nah that's very obviously in jest. Also in poor taste, sure, but not in seriousness.

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    You can't take these guys seriously.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dragonflyy View Post
    Nah that's very obviously in jest. Also in poor taste, sure, but not in seriousness.
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    You can't take these guys seriously.
    Honestly I could care less if its in jest, poor taste or dead on serious as a heart attack. Whenever I see someone post something like that I will call it out for what it is. Racism. I will call it out each and every time. I have no patience for it or those who try to dismiss it.

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    Yeah.....

    I have a very politically incorrect sense of humor and I'm one of those people who thinks everyone takes everything way too seriously these days, and even *I* am gonna have to say that that's really racist. Even if they're joking, you'd only joke like that if you're a serious racist.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    Honestly I could care less if its in jest, poor taste or dead on serious as a heart attack. Whenever I see someone post something like that I will call it out for what it is. Racism. I will call it out each and every time. I have no patience for it or those who try to dismiss it.
    Ah, yay, demonizing those who see something differently from you.

    What, exactly, about it is racist? The mention of different races in terms that would be rude if used in any sort of seriousness? Rhetorical question, really, because I don't care enough about some random joke on the internet to seriously debate whether or not we should get all offended over it.

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    Ah, yay, demonizing those who see something differently from you.

    What, exactly, about it is racist? The mention of different races in terms that would be rude if used in any sort of seriousness? Rhetorical question, really, because I don't care enough about some random joke on the internet to seriously debate whether or not we should get all offended over it.
    You don't get to tell me what's offensive or should be taken as a joke. So knock that off right now. Also YOU are the one that's being demonized? If you can't see what's racist about those statements then you must be trolling or apart of the problem. And why waste your time if you don't care? I actually do care, hence the reason I'm responding. If you don't think this is serious enough to care about why some would think that it's racist, then you should move along. "I don't care enough about some random joke on the internet" Good for you and thank you so much for your honesty and showing your lack of empathy towards people who post on this board.

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    Such jokes are meant to do harm & dehumanize in order to make it okay to discriminate & commit crimes upon and society looks the other way.

    It isn't funny.
    It isn't just in bad taste.

    They on purposely used terms that are ancient to reinforce the racism in that statement. If you think it is funny or just in bad taste then the KKK agenda is working. Congrats the KKK leads you around by the nose, or should I say by the pillow covers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    You don't get to tell me what's offensive or should be taken as a joke. So knock that off right now. Also YOU are the one that's being demonized? If you can't see what's racist about those statements then you must be trolling or apart of the problem. And why waste your time if you don't care? I actually do care, hence the reason I'm responding. If you don't think this is serious enough to care about why some would think that it's racist, then you should move along. "I don't care enough about some random joke on the internet" Good for you and thank you so much for your honesty and showing your lack of empathy towards people who post on this board.
    I'm not sure why you're losing control and getting emotional? I simply stated my view of things, you fired back with "I have no patience for you", essentially, and when I mentioned that that seems pretty rude and demonizing, evidently I'm now "apart" of what you believe to be a problem. My lack of concern over a pointless, dumb joke on some widely unknown site has zero to do with empathy.
    I'd have thought that a mod would have a little more tact and self-control. I have no issue here; it'd rock if you wouldn't incite one. I was simply sharing my viewpoint; not really looking to have someone blow up in my face. If you're angry again in your reply, I'll just leave it - you may be looking for a pissy argument or something, but I'm certainly not.

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    So an relevantly new account pretends or maybe real & post a racist joke from another board insulting women. The OP never comes back but immediate another acct rarely used comes to give it a bump & then defends it.

    Leads me to think it was all a set up to spread further racist propaganda by the Russians all over the web.

    Racist jokes are not funny they are cruel. Determining those who are on purposely being target don't dare be offended is total bullshit & the Russian White racist propaganda handbook chapter 1.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    So an relevantly new account pretends or maybe real & post a racist joke from another board insulting women. The OP never comes back but immediate another acct rarely used comes to give it a bump & then defends it.

    Leads me to think it was all a set up to spread further racist propaganda by the Russians all over the web.

    Racist jokes are not funny they are cruel. Determining those who are on purposely being target don't dare be offended is total bullshit & the Russian White racist propaganda handbook chapter 1.
    Lol I assure you that that far fetched conspiracy theory isn't accurate. I just found it and shared a viewpoint, which I'm now having to watch be turned into an emotional issue instead of simply a sharing of views. Shame we couldn't let a discussion be a discussion, avoid getting #offended, or just let it be..

    "Rarely used" certainly is a strange term for an account with several posts a day for a good while!

    But hey, I'll be elsewhere - I don't think it would be fair for me to try to discuss someone with the apparent paranoia and various issues you seem to be having.

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    I'm not sure why you're losing control and getting emotional? I simply stated my view of things, you fired back with "I have no patience for you", essentially, and when I mentioned that that seems pretty rude and demonizing, evidently I'm now "apart" of what you believe to be a problem. My lack of concern over a pointless, dumb joke on some widely unknown site has zero to do with empathy.
    I'd have thought that a mod would have a little more tact and self-control. I have no issue here; it'd rock if you wouldn't incite one. I was simply sharing my viewpoint; not really looking to have someone blow up in my face. If you're angry again in your reply, I'll just leave it - you may be looking for a pissy argument or something, but I'm certainly not.

    Oh, her response isn't losing control or getting emotional. The classic misogynist come back to devalue a females voice when standing up. Then you go onto to tell write that she isn't qualified to be a moderator. You being new & zero credibility are now playing the boss aka entitled.

    Out of all the people who post on this site Phatdynomite is the calmest fairest of them all.
    Me, well, I don't have that kind of patience with racist who are trying to cause Kaos.

    You are an anonymous account with no credibility to prove you are a female or in this industry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dragonflyy View Post
    I'm not sure why you're losing control and getting emotional? I simply stated my view of things, you fired back with "I have no patience for you", essentially, and when I mentioned that that seems pretty rude and demonizing, evidently I'm now "apart" of what you believe to be a problem. My lack of concern over a pointless, dumb joke on some widely unknown site has zero to do with empathy.
    I'd have thought that a mod would have a little more tact and self-control. I have no issue here; it'd rock if you wouldn't incite one. I was simply sharing my viewpoint; not really looking to have someone blow up in my face. If you're angry again in your reply, I'll just leave it - you may be looking for a pissy argument or something, but I'm certainly not.
    I don't have patience for people who continuously dismiss racism. Your lack of concern should have moved you beyond this thread by now. Also I've already told you to move along especially sense you don't seem to care or want to understand why several people here in this thread find racist comments offensive. I truly don't care how you perceive my mental or emotional state in regards to the way I'm handling this. Your viewpoint is telling people that this isn't racist and that it shouldn't matter. That's an incredibly insensitive stance to take even now after it's been explained to you. Racism is upsetting. People who try to brush it under the rug and show a lack of concern for those who are living it is upsetting. Take my words for anger, emotional or completely out of control. But please don't make this all about you and your feelings without taking a moment to understand where this is coming from. Again you should move along especially since you've already said that you don't care.

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    Lol I assure you that that far fetched conspiracy theory isn't accurate. I just found it and shared a viewpoint, which I'm now having to watch be turned into an emotional issue instead of simply a sharing of views.

    "Rarely used" certainly is a strange term for an account with several posts a day for a good while!

    I don't get emotional. Nope, I will simply haunt every post & point out the facts & what you are really doing. Have plenty of practice in determining if someone is really in this industry or not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    I don't get emotional. Nope, I will simply haunt every post & point out the facts & what you are really doing. Have plenty of practice in determining if someone is really in this industry or not.
    By that do you mean you're going to stalk me around the forums?
    "If someone is really in this industry"? Please explain.
    Edit - actually, don't. Just please take your meds and leave me be! Lol.

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    Oh, her response isn't losing control or getting emotional. The classic misogynist come back to devalue a females voice when standing up. Then you go onto to tell write that she isn't qualified to be a moderator. You being new & zero credibility are now playing the boss aka entitled.

    Out of all the people who post on this site Phatdynomite is the calmest fairest of them all.
    Me, well, I don't have that kind of patience with racist who are trying to cause Kaos.

    You are an anonymous account with no credibility to prove you are a female or in this industry.
    Ohh, that's what you mean. Besides my posts about working, the photo I've posted, etc. Gotcha. Please do continue to play the victim, re: "devalue a female's voice when standing up." I don't care about your gender, I simply disagree with what you're saying. No need to pull the gender card.

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    Oh, her response isn't losing control or getting emotional. The classic misogynist come back to devalue a females voice when standing up. Then you go onto to tell write that she isn't qualified to be a moderator. You being new & zero credibility are now playing the boss aka entitled.

    Out of all the people who post on this site Phatdynomite is the calmest fairest of them all.
    Me, well, I don't have that kind of patience with racist who are trying to cause Kaos.

    You are an anonymous account with no credibility to prove you are a female or in this industry.
    Thank you Sam. I really do try to stay balanced and fair. A moderator is a title that I do take seriously and genuinely enjoy. Even when people intentionally try to test my patience. But at the end of the day, I'm a human being. Mediating conflicts and offering support on a message board doesn't change that.

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    Wow, alrightly, got hopped on by a crazy already! Have fun babe. I'm sure it's lovely, thinking the world (including the Russians! LOL) is out to get you. All I ask is that you kindly don't start trouble with me. I'm not interested in issues, just here to socialize and chat with other sex workers. Thanks for the lovely company, lol.

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    I don't have patience for people who continuously dismiss racism. Your lack of concern should have moved you beyond this thread by now. Also I've already told you to move along especially sense you don't seem to care or want to understand why several people here in this thread find racist comments offensive. I truly don't care how you perceive my mental or emotional state in regards to the way I'm handling this. Your viewpoint is telling people that this isn't racist and that it shouldn't matter. That's an incredibly insensitive stance to take even now after it's been explained to you. Racism is upsetting. People who try to brush it under the rug and show a lack of concern for those who are living it is upsetting. Take my words for anger, emotional or completely out of control. But please don't make this all about you and your feelings without taking a moment to understand where this is coming from. Again you should move along especially since you've already said that you don't care.
    I appreciate the balanced response. It let me take pause, and perhaps you have a point on the more general issue.
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