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    Quote Originally Posted by dragonflyy View Post
    By that do you mean you're going to stalk me around the forums?
    "If someone is really in this industry"? Please explain.
    Edit - actually, don't. Just please take your meds and leave me be! Lol.
    Everyone knows who I am & if you don't just go ask your boyfriend.
    You have made the accusation that I am on medications and attacking my mental capacity.

    So you are not able to defend racist statement & instead attack a moderator & one of the most thanked posters on this site. Careful, your white privilege slip is showing.

    Me leave, no. Not going to leave this site or let you intimidate me with slanderous statements of mental instability.

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    Thats enough ladies. Move along please.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dragonflyy View Post
    Wow, alrightly, got hopped on by a crazy already! Have fun babe. I'm sure it's lovely, thinking the world (including the Russians! LOL) is out to get you. All I ask is that you kindly don't start trouble with me. I'm not interested in issues, just here to socialize and chat with other sex workers. Thanks for the lovely company, lol.
    Socializing with other sex workers isn't your agenda when you defend obvious offensive racist propaganda.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Me leave, no. Not going to leave this site or let you intimidate me with slanderous statements of mental instability.
    "Leave ME be"
    I am asking that you leave me alone, please. That is all. I wish for no further issue.

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    Ew racist white scum. NEXT UGH. This is why I personally couldn't Escort along with the fact I have a short and thinning temper to keep it cute and Classy... And it's just so funny how I came on here and non colored folk are telling black People what is and what isn't racism. Please, be gone!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dragonflyy View Post
    Ah, yay, demonizing those who see something differently from you.

    What, exactly, about it is racist? The mention of different races in terms that would be rude if used in any sort of seriousness? Rhetorical question, really, because I don't care enough about some random joke on the internet to seriously debate whether or not we should get all offended over it.
    Then why even respond. You clearly care enough to tell someone how they should feel.

    Anyway surprise surprise. Racist tricks. And they be the ones with a passport full of stamps. All those world travels and they still remain the most ignorant and uncultured. Tee hee.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dragonflyy View Post
    "Leave ME be"
    I am asking that you leave me alone, please. That is all. I wish for no further issue.
    wahhhhh.

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    Back on topic some tricks get an extra thrill off of race fetish or frankly racially abusing women. Sorry it is what it is. Sex for compensation is usury....not true love & respect.

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    TER is such a plague to the escort community. The majority of men are such trash on there.

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    i have to agree with this


    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    TER is such a plague to the escort community. The majority of men are such trash on there.
    Wolves may lurk in every guise / Now as then, 'tis simple truth / Sweetest tongue has sharpest tooth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    Honestly I could care less if its in jest, poor taste or dead on serious as a heart attack. Whenever I see someone post something like that I will call it out for what it is. Racism. I will call it out each and every time. I have no patience for it or those who try to dismiss it.
    I usually try to avoid topics like this for obvious reasons but if you say you are fair and call it out every time you see it...

    Where was your "call out" for post #2 in this thread?

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...music-festival

    ETA I have read a lot of your posts and you are usually very fair and even handed. This in no way is a judgement of you. More so a judgement of that post, that I chose not to address to the person who posted it at the time because, well wrong time wrong place.

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    If you look at post #6 and post #30 in this thread I think it can show the ignorance / seemingly non stop changing of vocabulary that leads to more attacks than are unnecessary when it comes to the way people speak. Some people actually think that they are caught up on what is acceptable and they just aren't. It isn't that they don't want to be, they are just behind the times and misinformed on what is currently pc. I admit I myself am often worried about terms I use for fear of offending not because I want to but because I might not be current.

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    Oh yeah and the original thing from TER that started this is racist as hell. I can't see anyone defending that it isn't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbleHead View Post
    I usually try to avoid topics like this for obvious reasons but if you say you are fair and call it out every time you see it...

    Where was your "call out" for post #2 in this thread?

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...music-festival

    ETA I have read a lot of your posts and you are usually very fair and even handed. This in no way is a judgement of you. More so a judgement of that post, that I chose not to address to the person who posted it at the time because, well wrong time wrong place.
    If you have a problem with that post then report it. Or why not ask the moderator who posted it why he said it? In fact you can STILL go to that thread and ask them what they meant by it or show your distaste for it. But for some reason you're coming after me for something I didn't even realize until you brought it up here in a different thread? That's interesting, especially since you're calling me out on the topic of fairness. I'm not really sure what he meant by that. It does seem like a pretty racist thing to say. You should let THAT person know how you feel and ask them to clarify.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbleHead View Post
    I usually try to avoid topics like this for obvious reasons but if you say you are fair and call it out every time you see it...

    Where was your "call out" for post #2 in this thread?

    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...music-festival

    ETA I have read a lot of your posts and you are usually very fair and even handed. This in no way is a judgement of you. More so a judgement of that post, that I chose not to address to the person who posted it at the time because, well wrong time wrong place.
    Um they indirectly did when I post (in rebutal on post #10) that sometimes mass serial killers can be black or whatever race (and no one/the moderator didnt rebute or delete my post). But statistically speaking mass serial killers are white males.

    Plus you are bring a topic to a thread that has nothing to do with TER so you should keep your grievances about the remark of that thread on THAT thread or message the moderator directly. From what I know of her she is fairly objective but again moderators are human and not everything is going to be 100 percent fair on this forum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    If you have a problem with that post then report it. Or why not ask the moderator who posted it why he said it? In fact you can STILL go to that thread and ask them what they meant by it or show your distaste for it. But for some reason you're coming after me for something I didn't even realize until you brought it up here in a different thread? That's interesting, especially since you're calling me out on the topic of fairness. I'm not really sure what he meant by that. It does seem like a pretty racist thing to say. You should let THAT person know how you feel and ask them to clarify.
    As I said, the post itself seemed to be outside of the spirit of the thread already so I didn't want to add to it going in that direction.

    I also did not realize until you said it that it was posted by a moderator. Wow.

    As for why I addressed it here with you it was due to the fact that you said you call those things out when you see them and replied in that thread (so I assumed you saw that post) but did not call it out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbleHead View Post
    As I said, the post itself seemed to be outside of the spirit of the thread already so I didn't want to add to it going in that direction.

    As for why I addressed it here with you it was due to the fact that you said you call those things out when you see them and replied in that thread (so I assumed you saw that post) but did not call it out.
    It wasn't the time or place? But yet it's perfectly fine in your book to enter a thread that's already gone off the rails to question me on fairness? But yet the person who offended you gets a pass because you don't want to change the spirit of that thread? The irony in this situation is just simply mind boggling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Um they indirectly did when I post (in rebutal on post #10) that sometimes mass serial killers can be black or whatever race (and no one/the moderator didnt rebute or delete my post). But statistically speaking mass serial killers are white males.

    Plus you are bring a topic to a thread that has nothing to do with TER so you should keep your grievances about the remark of that thread on THAT thread or message the moderator directly. From what I know of her she is fairly objective but again moderators are human and not everything is going to be 100 percent fair on this forum.
    I chose to bring it up here because race was the topic and PGD mentioned calling out racism.

    I chose not to bring it up there because to do so would have derailed a thread that should not have been due to the gravity of its topic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    It wasn't the time or place? But yet it's perfectly fine in your book to enter a thread that's already gone off the rails to question me on fairness? But yet the person who offended you gets a pass because you don't want to change the spirit of that thread? The irony in this situation is just simply mind boggling.
    It was in this thread that you said you call it out whenever you see it. So it was in this thread that I addressed that. If you're saying you didn't see that, cool.

    There really is no irony though. This thread was about racism. I continued the discussion. The other thread was about a horrific attack that had nothing to do with race so I chose not to address it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    Um they indirectly did when I post (in rebutal on post #10) that sometimes mass serial killers can be black or whatever race (and no one/the moderator didnt rebute or delete my post). But statistically speaking mass serial killers are white males.

    Plus you are bring a topic to a thread that has nothing to do with TER so you should keep your grievances about the remark of that thread on THAT thread or message the moderator directly. From what I know of her she is fairly objective but again moderators are human and not everything is going to be 100 percent fair on this forum.
    Thank you for realizing that we're human beings. I really do try to moderate with a certain level of integrity. I know I won't make everyone happy. Oh well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    Thank you for realizing that we're human beings. I really do try to moderate with a certain level of integrity. I know I won't make everyone happy. Oh well.
    It was a one off situation. You are very fair and I unfortunately (unfairly?) jumped on the one off situation to make point. I apologize and you do a great job on these boards.

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    ^^BH man, you have no idea how hard PGD works to keep this board cool and positive. 10 times more behind the scenes, and of course all for free. I'm glad you stepped up and apologized.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post
    ^^BH man, you have no idea how hard PGD works to keep this board cool and positive. 10 times more behind the scenes, and of course all for free. I'm glad you stepped up and apologized.
    No worries. It was never a question of her quality or fairness as a moderator. When I asked about it (and that's all I did) I was asking her as a member of this board and an individual, not a moderator, why she didn't call that post out since she also posted in that thread. She explained that she didn't see (realize) it and further agreed it was a racist comment. Post called out, end of story.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BobbleHead View Post
    No worries. It was never a question of her quality or fairness as a moderator. When I asked about it (and that's all I did) I was asking her as a member of this board and an individual, not a moderator, why she didn't call that post out since she also posted in that thread. She explained that she didn't see (realize) it and further agreed it was a racist comment. Post called out, end of story.
    As much as I appreciate your willingness to aplologize there is still a major issue that I have to address. You felt more comfortable confronting me, a person who speaks out against all forms of bigotry instead of the person who originally offended you. It appears as though you were more offended by my speaking up at all and because I didn't do it to the extent of pleasing you, you still have not addressed the person with your concerns. Ive had time to think about this and had a few thoughtful discussions with some people, not exactly about this situation. But along the topic anyways. The problem for me is you had no issue bringing your gripes with another person and displacing it on me. Even now its almost as if you've absolved that person of all accountability because I agreed that it was offensive. Ive read your explanation as to why you felt I was a more appropriate target. I don't mind people letting me know when they disagree or drop the ball but this feels very different. I'm not adking you to go after another mod on this board. Not at all. But I am wondering why they havent gotten a spotlight placed on them instead of me. Even now. The end of the story should have been when YOU stood up and called THEM out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PhatGirlDynomite!!! View Post
    As much as I appreciate your willingness to aplologize there is still a major issue that I have to address. You felt more comfortable confronting me, a person who speaks out against all forms of bigotry instead of the person who originally offended you. It appears as though you were more offended by my speaking up at all and because I didn't do it to the extent of pleasing you, you still have not addressed the person with your concerns. Ive had time to think about this and had a few thoughtful discussions with some people, not exactly about this situation. But along the topic anyways. The problem for me is you had no issue bringing your gripes with another person and displacing it on me. Even now its almost as if you've absolved that person of all accountability because I agreed that it was offensive. Ive read your explanation as to why you felt I was a more appropriate target. I don't mind people letting me know when they disagree or drop the ball but this feels very different. I'm not adking you to go after another mod on this board. Not at all. But I am wondering why they havent gotten a spotlight placed on them instead of me. Even now. The end of the story should have been when YOU stood up and called THEM out.
    But *I* wasn't the one who said that *I* call out racism whenever *I* see it. YOU were. The racism in the post was obvious and I didn't care to call it out for reasons stated. However, when I see someone state emphatically as you did in this thread that you call it out "every time" you see it I asked why you didn't in that instance. You said you didn't realize it so that explained it and my question was answered.

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