I've been engaged since early this year to my Fiancé, and when I came back to my home club (I tend to work only 4-5 months a year, part time) I haven't made that a secret to the mgmt or staff members. I talk to one DJ, all the Mgrs and 2 bouncers more so than the rest, and only in the club...no social media, texting or calls. Wednesday night one of the bouncers asked me out on a date. I questioned if he knew I was engaged, and he said yes but then said it would be as friends and nothing more. I told him no, which he then went on to try and ask for my number..claiming he just wanted to chat as friends. I told him I didn't think it was a good idea, as my fiancé would find that disrespectful. He tried to act normal after that, but clearly was embarrassed. Now I'm worried that on the few nights I work things will be awkward, and the club is small so there's no avoiding him and idk what to do.



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