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    Default Helping someone deal with the emotional toll

    So I've been seeing a dancer I met at a club in NYC. Lately she has been talking a lot about how the job / grabby customers are affecting her emotionally, how she's feeling like she doesn't want anyone to touch her, feeling empty. I genuinely care about her and I'd like to at least try to steer her towards some way to get help dealing with this. Any advice?

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    Default Re: Helping someone deal with the emotional toll

    Yeah give her a link to this site and then leave her alone about it unless she brings it up to you.

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    Default Re: Helping someone deal with the emotional toll

    She is venting, so let her.
    Listen & dont give any advise, a sympathetic ear is what she needs most.

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    Default Re: Helping someone deal with the emotional toll

    I agree with letting her vent and lending an ear, but at the same time, it's likely she doesn't know about this site and would find the info invaluable.

    Stripping really can be mentally, emotionally, and physically exhaustive if you don't approach it with the right mentality. Hopefully somehow, someway, she stumbles upon the following thread because I know it was a lifesaver for me:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...cal-Well-Being

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    Default Re: Helping someone deal with the emotional toll

    just don't be one of those guys? and what everyone else said.

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