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    Hi everyone,

    I have become a regular at a strip club I have frequented for the past 3 Months and I have become ‘friends’ with one of the dancers. I am sure this a question you deal with all time and I apologies for making another thread about it. However, I am not too sure what to think about this and I’d thought see what the forum members opinion is on this. For starters, I just want to be friends with her, I have no interest in dating her and she also prefers the company of women. I am friends with her on Facebook, I don’t spend big money on her and she hangs out with me in club when she isn’t busy. Keep in mind, I do know the rules with dancers meeting customers outside of the club. I have raised my concerns about this with her, and she said that she wouldn’t give out her Facebook out to me if didn't consider me a friend. She also mentioned because of the small amount of money I spend on her, she wouldn't spend as much time with others if they did the same. However, I am not too sure what to think?

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    Default Re: Am I really a friend or is she just hustling me?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustARegular View Post
    For starters, I just want to be friends with her, I have no interest in dating her
    Are you being honest with yourself here?

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    Default Re: Am I really a friend or is she just hustling me?

    Probably a little column A, little column B?

    Like, I have escort regulars that I consider "friends" on a certain level. But I still wouldn't be hanging out with them for free all the time if they stopped spending any money for professional time with me. There is a small gray area where a sex worker could genuinely enjoy someone's company and bend the rules a little bit for them, but still, at its core, it started as a transactional relationship. Not all customers/clients are cretins that I couldn't find anything good about. But, ya know, don't abuse the fact that you're in her place of work and that's what started your dynamic.
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    Default Re: Am I really a friend or is she just hustling me?

    Perhaps You are both hustling each other.
    Last edited by miss.a.p1600; 10-08-2017 at 11:27 AM.

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    You're a prey item.
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    Default Re: Am I really a friend or is she just hustling me?

    He goes to a strip club to be friend zoned by a lesbian stripper?

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    Default Re: Am I really a friend or is she just hustling me?

    Well, let's look at this from a different perspective. How likely is it that you'll be: Getting an invitation to her wedding; or named the Godfather of her next kid; or that the invitation to the next family barbecue or birthday party is just a moment away from hitting your inbox; or that you'll be asked to join her and her family or non-stripper friends for a cozy get together; or...?

    There are real friends and there are those of a more transitory nature. The real friends are the ones who participate in her life in a meaningful and acknowledged way. The other type are often friends of convenience, not really that important and usually gone before long (especially once they've served a purpose). I'll let you figure out which category you fall into...

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    As another user cleverly put it in another thread, you are simply a wallet with legs my friend.

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    you wouldn't be asking this question here and in so many words if you really just wanted friendship and nothing else

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