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    Default I may never get married

    I swear on the Seven Sacred Sandwiches I have no idea what to think of this institution anymore. Tool of patriarchy, check, doesn't make women happy, check, half end in misery, check. The women come to me crying during the marriage. The men come to me crying after the marriage.

    There aren't really any sound alternatives. My single friends keep trying to date and marry 22-28 year olds. How's that going to go?

    Are the Facebook photos and Christmas morning worth all this? Haha this is why I throw myself into my work.
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    What are the 7 sacred sandwhiches? But seriously dont be a kleenex. People will suck your energy dry if you let them. You might be taking care of too many other people causibg you to miss out on blessings. You're a good dude, I can tell.

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    I feel ya dude.

    The thought of marrying what I thought was the right person (yes people change and show their true colors after they done locked you in) then having to suffer and be stuck for life with that motherfucker make me want to cry just thinking about it.

    I recently started a thread asking the women "would you date a divorced dude" and it was about 60% no / 40% yes. To me I see, most not all, divorced men as damaged goods who have been financially sucked dry and rendered useless by Bertha the ex wife. And don't let that motherfucker have kids with a Bertha because then you are marrying not only the dude and his extended family but his psycho Bertha ex wife (who will be forever lurking in the background) and them bebe's kids too.

    I bet the percentage of amicable divorces, with either no kids or well adjusted respectful self sufficient kids, and a man who learns from a divorce and bounces back (or is better off) financially is probably like less than 10%

    If you do marry make sure it is the right person cause half them shits end in divorce.

    Or just say fuck it and be like Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell.

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    I don't know, maybe I am in the minority but I was happily married for 27 years to the most amazing woman. Her passing almost killed me. It has taken me 6 years to get on my feet again but I don't want to marry now. Everything would pale in comparison. I just prefer not to be in a relationship now and I don't think that will change. I hope others can experience the joy I had but I realize many do not. It is easy to attack marriage as a negative but if it is right there is nothing like it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post
    There aren't really any sound alternatives. My single friends keep trying to date and marry 22-28 year olds. How's that going to go?
    *cough* sugar daddies *cough*

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    Are the Facebook photos and Christmas morning worth all this? Haha this is why I throw myself into my work.
    Facebook is an illusion. Just hire some adult and child and puppy models to pose as your family. No one on fb will know the difference.

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    Gotta love our Ms P!
    Hey, I'm out w/my 'babies' (my plants )
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    Awww Love ya too honz

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    50% of marriages in the US ending in divorce is no longer true. I use to believe that as well ubtil I did some research. This is a really great read. Check it out.

    https://mobile.nytimes.com/2014/12/0...-lives-on.html

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    Just saw an itty bitty bird, adopted him/her too. So there's that.


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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post



    Facebook is an illusion. Just hire some adult and child and puppy models to pose as your family. No one on fb will know the difference.
    LOL!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by RUTROH View Post
    I don't know, maybe I am in the minority but I was happily married for 27 years to the most amazing woman. Her passing almost killed me. It has taken me 6 years to get on my feet again but I don't want to marry now. Everything would pale in comparison. I just prefer not to be in a relationship now and I don't think that will change. I hope others can experience the joy I had but I realize many do not. It is easy to attack marriage as a negative but if it is right there is nothing like it.
    Sorry for your loss man. I hope it doesn't seem like I'm attacking marriage. I'm just wondering if it isn't right for me. Just seems like so many marriages I know of that seem happy on FB, if you know the real story....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post
    Sorry for your loss man. I hope it doesn't seem like I'm attacking marriage. I'm just wondering if it isn't right for me. Just seems like so many marriages I know of that seem happy on FB, if you know the real story....
    Last year I put up a family photo album for my in-laws. Something to keep them happy because of the distance. Meanwhile their son, my beloved husband posted pics that told the truth. Lmao the pretty gold Christmas candles that I posted on my page.. showed up as wax all over the dogs nose on his page WITH the christmas tree tipped over in the background. There's two sides to every story.

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    I don't put anything on facebook. Anything. Zero.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Raziel View Post
    I don't put anything on facebook. Anything. Zero.
    Me either!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post
    Sorry for your loss man. I hope it doesn't seem like I'm attacking marriage. I'm just wondering if it isn't right for me. Just seems like so many marriages I know of that seem happy on FB, if you know the real story....
    No need to apologize. I was lucky and I know it. Just keep your eyes open, Love is unexpected if nothing else. If I had looked for my wife I never would have asked her out as she was SOOOOOOO far out of my league it isn't funny. She liked that I made her laugh and we were a great team. Peace and love to you.

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    Aww, that's beautiful AND inspiring!


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    I want to know about the 7 Sacred Sanwiches tho


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    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Same here. Google didnt have anything.

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    I made that up! I was going to use the seven sacred sandwiches of San Francisco but it was too long. Swearing without impugning anyone's religion was my goal.
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