BUT WHY??
okay im gonna ask the questions at the top and then if you feel like reading more and why im asking and hopefully have some sort of advice and wanna see if u can understand why im asking such silly questions-DETAILS BELOW. i will warn im very detailed and its kinda alot. i so appreciate it though. So...
1.Why do girls GO OUT OF THEIR WAY to LIE and start drama JUST BECAUSE im pretty, have a brain and personality, and i FOLLOW THE RULES?
2.How do you table dance without feeling goofy?
3.What are things you do and say during a lapdance that way it doesnt seem like your just dry humping and aggressively dry humping someones lap or leg-i fkn CRINGE and try my best to not do this-recently got yelled at and lost money to the house for NOT being sexy enough by not dry humping violently by my boss for her friend-UGH WTF?
4.what cities do blondes with morals, big tits, not much ass-yet, soon to be decent dancing skills, a dirty sense of humor, and a very friendly positive personality usually do decent in? i wanna travel a little bit after superbowl. and dancing gives me more an excuse to hit all 50.
5. How do you start or direct the conversation to where he will not turn down a lap dance? or at least be where he has a harder time turning it down? what do u say? sounds stupid or maybe its cuz there is alcohol and he really just tryina get a free show? i know i aint showin S**t til i see money but maybe thats where im going wrong?
6.How do you bring up being paid for time, or offer to bring up VIP even if he just wants to talk? or a tip? im struggling all a sudden.
Okay so ill admit i straight STALK this forum in my free time for HOURS at a time, and i wanna say first of all THANK EVERY SINGLE PERSON THAT HAS EVER COMMENTED HERE OR POSTED ABOUT ANYTHING! wow u guys are my heros, seriously. ive only been doing this four months and WOW what ive gone through to only be the beginning yet SW is my manual/bible i swear.
so since last post, i finally grew a pair and auditioned at a club in Wisconsin, (LAST NIGHT to be exact) and LOL i am so glad i got thru it. with flying colors, or something because i literally remember rolling around on the floor, stretching, and closing my eyes while smiling from laughing at how stupid i could imagine myself looking LOL. i am so glad i got it because once that was over, the rest of the night the other girls spent teaching me things on stage all night, which i am so thankful for cuz now i feel like PRACTICE REALLY DOES MAKE-IMPROVEMENTS? LOL anyways.
now the week prior, i had went to centerfolds in superior to work because i guess they NEEDED girls there, and my close friend is a bartender. so she talked to her boss and the boss told me to drive up that night and work thru the 17th. TOTALLY DIFFERENT HUSTLE + TOPLESS AND THERE WAS BOOSE!! worked out financially (kind of) the best ive done yet so far, and also i was usually the ONLY dancer. however i guess they recently fired every single other dancer except 3 girls? anyway, and with the help of this forum, and lessons i learned in the past i knew better than to be friendly or even speak to these girls other than smile and mind my own and keep to myself. THANK GOD! but not even a week, girls were setting me up, trying to get me fired and i AM SO SICK OF THAT INSECURE HATER S**T i figured why not audition down closer to home it couldnt hurt if i passed or failed. was gonna go back up there if i had to. Couple things;
Why do girls GO OUT OF THEIR WAY to LIE and start drama JUST BECAUSE im pretty, have a brain and personality, and i FOLLOW THE RULES? i know im hurting their money but i mean come onnn, STEP YOUR GAME UP?? I would think i would if i had issues like that? what the hell is negativity gonna do? i personally dont have the time and energy for that but i guess to each their own right? thank god this new club im at has a ZERO BULLSHIT policy and the girls and staff and customers so far are very professional helpful and respectful. im praying this keeps up, now however its SLOW, and strict too.
strict i mean like im finding myself filtering my normal hustle, like meaning not so many aggressive dirty jokes and comments, not knowing how to ask or demand a dance (im usually really good at one liners and 9 times out of 10 i could get a dance if i asked) but in MPLS, but in a club that serves boose im finding it to be harder, PLUS this new one is $10 table dances, which is NO CONTACT PERIOD. im not sure how to air dance yet since ive worked at 2 heavy contact clubs. im dying to learn because im travelling to the northern soon, and i wanna dance all over the US. also need to know what areas and states and cities do the best for being white, blue eyes, big REAL DD boobs, fairly skinny, and a big outgoing friendly personality with a strong flirty and sick sense of humor. i am a VERY GOOD TALKER, but now im struggling with how to take the conversation to the point where if he doesnt ask for the dance then i do. im getting turned down and maybe its cuz these guys come to drink and dont ever intend on spending money or maybe im talking to much or WHO KHOWS but im doing something wrong and i need expert advice. LOL im also finding it difficult to ask for a tip, AND I REALLY NEED HELP figuring out what to say or how to ask to be paid for talking to them, or how do i convince them to go in the back if they just wanna talk? HOW DO I WORD THIS STUFF? or how do i tell them i need money for the time i wasted on their cheap ass if thats the case? lol i know that maybe thats not always the case but in my head thats what im thinking.
i have many many questions im starting to write them down and when i get home i always think of asking them here but i get so busy reading all the threads in hustle hut, or where ever, i forget to sit down and type because im balls deep into the forums researching FOR HOURS on end hoping i find an answer. these are some that im finding harder to come across.
anything is appreciated and sorry for the long post.



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