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    Default Drama with another dancer.... need advice

    Ladies,
    this story is very long so I'm just going to summarize:
    -met struggling baby stripper who had no car and no place
    -helped baby stripper get on her feet
    -teaches baby stripper game and hustle
    -cares and connects with baby stripper thinking there's a true strong friendship blooming
    -introduces baby stripper to a really good sugardaddy
    -gets serious with her SD and they both start making wild and false accusations to get me out of the picture. They both hella insulted me and disrespected me.
    -baby stripper gets her own place and has been out of the club for a while recovering from her boob job.
    -she's back at work and I haven't worked a shift with her yet and I really just don't want to see her face.... so awkward.

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    that was so sweet of you, babe. it sucks she played you!!! i'd say, don't lose sleep over it. god knows what she told the SD to make you look bad. just keep to yourself and learn the lesson to maybe not be so trusting. im sorry!!

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    Should I go to another club? Other dancers reassure me that I'm more well liked at the club than she ever will be and I have more respect from the dancers and staff. She's rude and burns bridges and most people know what she's done to me.

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    It sounds like you're doing well at your current club, I wouldn't inconvenience myself by changing clubs or give that chick the satisfaction of leaving. I would carry on with business as usual and ignore her. It's best to not to get involved with club politics. If she really is so rude and conniving, it's probably only a matter of time before she gets herself fired. It sucks that she stole your SD but it's unrelated to business at the club.

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    Default Re: Drama with another dancer.... need advice

    Quote Originally Posted by babygrrrl View Post
    Should I go to another club?
    Hell no. She already took your SD. Don't let her take your club too, especially if it's a good one that you like working at.

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    yeah, no, def don't leave your club. you were there first, the girls are on your side and the customers know you. it will pass eventually

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    Quote Originally Posted by shanna dior View Post
    Hell no. She already took your SD. Don't let her take your club too, especially if it's a good one that you like working at.
    She didn't take my SD. I was in a serious long term relationship and hooked her up with that SD. I was genuinely happy for them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    It sounds like you're doing well at your current club, I wouldn't inconvenience myself by changing clubs or give that chick the satisfaction of leaving. I would carry on with business as usual and ignore her. It's best to not to get involved with club politics. If she really is so rude and conniving, it's probably only a matter of time before she gets herself fired. It sucks that she stole your SD but it's unrelated to business at the club.

    Clarification, she didn't steal him. I had a boyfriend so I introduced them. She wasn't into him and I sorta convinced her to play along with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    It sounds like you're doing well at your current club, I wouldn't inconvenience myself by changing clubs or give that chick the satisfaction of leaving. I would carry on with business as usual and ignore her. It's best to not to get involved with club politics. If she really is so rude and conniving, it's probably only a matter of time before she gets herself fired. It sucks that she stole your SD but it's unrelated to business at the club.
    this. and i wouldn't tell people at your club about it anymore. the way she sounds she'll be fired sooner or later anyways.

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