I've been dancing for almost three years, started when I was 23, am 26 now, have never done any "dirty" dancing/gone home with anyone, etc. But lately I've just been feeling gross/dirty in the middle of dances. And, like, "objectified." I used think "objectified" was just a made up term men used to discourage women from stripping. But now I like know what they mean.
Can anyone explain this to me?? I have no idea what's going on, how do I stop this, how do I go back to loving every moment of my career?!?!



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the good news is boundaries are enforceabie , just this week this guy was pushing limits and I'd been chatting with him and new he was a teacher, i was like you're being a bad kid, do you want me to punish you , don't you want to be the teachers pet? He definitely got it, when they get too horny many many men forget you're a fucking person. It's sad ! It's a stripper's job to constantly remind the customer of this while arousing him that she's a hot professional doing a private show with limits and some men don't want that at a certain point they're like why aren't you a whore though... seriously our job is so hard when people think we just go get money it's so funny to me it hurts.

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