Escort Screening - They think I'm ridiculous

[KyliePaige]

I'm advertising on a hobbyist forum at the moment. Started screening (or asking screening information) and the men seem to think that their presence on Eccie and reviews they've posted there is sufficient enough. Am I crazy? Is that a standard that most girls accept?
Just curious on how much I should let these guys get away with in terms of avoiding screening. Thank you!

I've been searching the forum here for as much info as possible, but haven't found any information on this. Is it standard for men to not want to provide information? I feel like I'm missing out on potential here. Not booking anyone who won't meet my screening criteria by the way.

[sarabimaraj]

Everyone is different with their screening practices, but when I screen for ladies I always check their references. Even if they have left reviews for ladies I still always contact those ladies. People write fake reviews all the time. The references can be no older than 6 months. I also only accept references from reputable ladies meaning they have to be active on the scene. Some ladies I assist do not like references from other ladies and prefer work verification which most don't like offering but some do. It all depends. Google the emails and names guys give you for their references. Some guys give references that aren't actual escorts. They usually are LE.

Don't book anyone who doesn't meet your screening standards. If they don't want to offer their information, move on to the next. There are men out there who will follow your screening practices with no problem. In fact some appreciate the precautions you take in order to remain safe.

[CandySora]

You're not crazy. Men on these boards are the worst. What you can do is to read through their reviews and reach out to reputable escorts they've recently reviewed, so kind of like asking for references that way. Be sure you talk to the girls beforehand because guys write fake reviews all the time. There's a rapist in my city who goes around giving girls his TER handle with fake reviews, so escorts just see that he's reviewed escorts before and just see him that way without checking, assuming he's actually seen them. Not blaming anyone for their rape but I was the only one in my incall share group who didn't get attacked by this guy because I always, always check whether a guy's actually seen the escorts he's reviewed.

[KyliePaige]

You're not crazy. Men on these boards are the worst. What you can do is to read through their reviews and reach out to reputable escorts they've recently reviewed, so kind of like asking for references that way. Be sure you talk to the girls beforehand because guys write fake reviews all the time. There's a rapist in my city who goes around giving girls his TER handle with fake reviews, so escorts just see that he's reviewed escorts before and just see him that way without checking, assuming he's actually seen them. Not blaming anyone for their rape but I was the only one in my incall share group who didn't get attacked by this guy because I always, always check whether a guy's actually seen the escorts he's reviewed.

That is completely the info that I was looking for. So many of them just want you to take their word for it. Yeah freaking right. Some reviews look faked. I'm starting to get a handle on turning these guys down nicely or making them wait for their references to follow through.

[Sam38g]

What they are doing is forcing you to lower your guard so the worst ones can harm or rip you off. They all work together the good ones & the bad ones, you know bro code.

They are training you to question yourself, to do what they want for less money. Do NOT trust any of them.

[KyliePaige]

What they are doing is forcing you to lower your guard so the worst ones can harm or rip you off. They all work together the good ones & the bad ones, you know bro code.

They are training you to question yourself, to do what they want for less money. Do NOT trust any of them.

Sheesh. Eye opening for sure. Glad I haven't been trusting them and sticking with my gut. You all are the best and total lifesavers. I hope other girls in the future can find this post and learn some things from it as well.
Just as they've got their bro code. We got our hoe code �� jk but serious.

[CandySora]

Oh yeah and it's a good idea to ask the guy to message you on the forum to confirm that it really is the guy behind the handle asking for the appointment, if you conduct most of your bookings through email or text. Some guys just give you other random guys' handles they see off the website. I also wonder if there are other places in your local area where you can advertise to a non-hobbyist audience. I know Eccie is big in Texas but hobbyists that dwell on these boards are just the worst.

[slowpoke]

Tell them if they don't like your screening, they can buy an inflatable party sheep.

[Secret Shelly]

Do any of your use third party screeners? Are they trust worthy?

[Bahuba]

Please don't let anyone make you feel that your security is not important, or question your methods. Please screen exactly how you want to screen, and tell these boys to follow the program or get lost. I don't always agree with every screening requirement, but the client, who is an amateur and presumably unschooled in security or screening procedures, does not get a say.

[Sam38g]

Do any of your use third party screeners? Are they trust worthy?

Trust no one, at anytime they can be compromised.
All those boards have been infiltrated by the LE. They are allowed to stay up & operate so that they can bust more girls. In the recent bust in Houston they rounded up 100 men, it was planned.

Trust your instincts. Those who get upset or mad about your screening process are the very ones you should watch out for. Your safety & health are at risk. When they say they don't want to give you over their real information because they don't know what you will do with it. Like stalk them, as if you are going to chase them down to have sex with them at their houses or offices on a whim.

If they have you trouble, just say this won't work do not contact me again. If they contact you again and are very persistent with you. Tell them to Cease & desist, any further communication will be seen as aggressive & hostile. You will have to notify the police of harassment & maybe get a restraining order. How all emails, text or recorded messages will be turned over when you file a report.

[Eric Stoner]

1. Ask for references.
2. Check their references.

The fact that he might have reviews is effectively irrelevant. If he is Whitelisted that is different. But I would check with AT LEAST one gal who Whitelisted him anyway.

[LiudwigXIX]

Each person has their own evaluation criteria, but it seems to me that it is impossible to evaluate someone without seeing at least his photo. I've never understood why some people write fake reviews. What for? What benefits will they get from this?? That is why I try to look for services that , especially if it is an escort Agency. When I view reviews, I read each review and then just form an overall rating, that is, if more reviews were positive, then I will make a choice in favor of this girl and I will not be confused by those 15% -20% negative reviews. I understand that due to the fact that I am new to this forum, you may not pay attention to this comment, but I just wanted to Express my opinion. Have a nice day!

[indiegirl]

Some men share accounts. Not everything is safe knowing who is gonna show up. I've had that happen once with a repeat customer under a handle and a completely different man showed up. I was thinking WTF is happening here? If you're sharing an account with someone of a completely different race....prolly best not to. One this year admitted to sharing an account with another man as well.

[SnuffleUffleGrass]

Tell them to get on P 411 dot com

Eccie isn't that great, to be honest......

[Shannon.]

Le sigh... Gaslighting: man’s favourite tool when subjugating women. You are not crazy, they’re trying to play games to get their way. It sounds like you’re new, and unfortunately, predators FLOCK to newbies who are still learning and thus, vulnerable. Blacklist these fools and call it day.

[CFMNH44]

Tell them to get on P 411 dot com.....

This from their website:

We are not currently accepting any new client members.

[Eric Stoner]

This from their website:

We are not currently accepting any new client members.

Hmmm. I wonder why ?

[SnuffleUffleGrass]

Hmmm. I wonder why ?

That is interesting.


Pro tip- any client who feels the need to complain much about being vetted properly is probably someone you do not want to deal with. Just saying.

[indiegirl]

This from their website:

We are not currently accepting any new client members.

Sesta/Fosta laws back when it started. That site is so careful with screening and take A LOT of personal information from everyone involved.