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    As weird or as bad as it sounds I think I want to be a stripper forever.My mind says no but my hear says yes.And guess who I listen to most of the time? My heart! Yes I'm going to school and I'm hoping to get a degree and be a social worker eventually but on the side I'm probably still gonna dance.Why?because I still want to live a comfortable life.And I am well aware that most professions just do not provide you enough to lead the kind of life style that I'm looking for.And I don't want to struggle.I guess I'm spoiled in a way.But is it bad that I want to stripping on the side my whole life? Do you ever feel this way?

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    You want to be a stripper when you're 60 years old? You say that now, but you will probably get tired of it. Your body will experience wear and tear. Your knees will go bad. Stripping is also psychologically exhausting, putting up with handsy men all night trying to cross your boundaries and sexually harass/ abuse you every night you work.

    Also, you have to take into account that the strip club world will not be the same in 10 years, or even 5 years from now. Everything is constantly changing. In my area, strip clubs have gone downhill. Business has slowed down significantly this year. I don't even want to imagine it in 5-10 years.

    There are other ways to make money. Investing, become a landlady, start your own business, etc.

    But hey, if you want to do this forever, go for it. I am willing to bet though that you will change your mind eventually.
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    Just be keep in mind about the consequences (pros and cons) and have an exit strategy just in case. I’m happier being a stripper than a CNA. I’m looking into being a personal trainer too.
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    I love seeing ladies seek sex work as a long term career, it's not easy like any other but it does feel nice and rewarding to be as free as a bird! Lol fuck 9-5 Jobs! Trust me I'm starting my direction in being a career hoe and wouldn't want it any other way. I'm going to school for a trade, which is massage so I do have something to fall back on when I get tired or drained from SW.

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    Hi!
    Check out the thread (body business) 50 - 70 tb a stripper,

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    There are burlesque performers who worked up until their 70s & such. Do what makes you happy.

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    Same, lol.

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    ive been thinking about this a lot lately. its pretty shit imo when someone tells me I cant strip/cam/etc forever. I feel like its invalidating the entire job and sex work in general. stripping doesn't have to be a layover on the way to "something better". some people just genuinely love their sw job. and they are very good at it. I have worked many different 9-5 jobs, and I cant picture ever going back. for me, stripping IS "something better". I feel that if I take care of myself physically and mentally, and take good care of my money, then I can keep some sort of job in sex work until I retire. And if I handle my money correctly, I will be retired much earlier than "60".

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    I used to feel like I wanted to be a stripper forever. But after 4 years, I realize I don't. But that's just me. For me, it's something to fall back on if I ever need to work a few nights to catch up on bills or whatever. But if other girls are legitimately passionate about it, that's awesome. My first post was negative. But I didn't want to sugarcoat anything. Truth is, I don't think I could ever do any one thing forever. I think switching it up every few years is good. Again, just my opinion. You do you, OP.
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    Quote Originally Posted by raakashock View Post
    ive been thinking about this a lot lately. its pretty shit imo when someone tells me I cant strip/cam/etc forever. I feel like its invalidating the entire job and sex work in general. stripping doesn't have to be a layover on the way to "something better". some people just genuinely love their sw job. and they are very good at it. I have worked many different 9-5 jobs, and I cant picture ever going back. for me, stripping IS "something better". I feel that if I take care of myself physically and mentally, and take good care of my money, then I can keep some sort of job in sex work until I retire. And if I handle my money correctly, I will be retired much earlier than "60".
    People are always going to tell you stuff to make you insecure so they can take advantage of you. Perfect your hustle, consider what you do an art form. Which is is a performance art.

    If you love it so much, practice and go for the stripper contest and such.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletKitten View Post
    I used to feel like I wanted to be a stripper forever. But after 4 years, I realize I don't. But that's just me. For me, it's something to fall back on if I ever need to work a few nights to catch up on bills or whatever. But if other girls are legitimately passionate about it, that's awesome. My first post was negative. But I didn't want to sugarcoat anything. Truth is, I don't think I could ever do any one thing forever. I think switching it up every few years is good. Again, just my opinion. You do you, OP.
    Always be upping your game & learning new skills. Never put all your eggs in one basket.

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    If you're whining about girls being mean to you you're not going to last a year, let alone a lifetime. This business isn't for the weak.
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    You are right. I need to change my attitude.

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    I feel you being in complete control of your money is addictive. Also being sexy & cute and knowing how to hustle your way through life getting everything you want... also very addictive

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    Ageism is everywhere. Surround yourself with positive people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ifyouseekamy View Post
    Ageism is everywhere. Surround yourself with positive people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Goldenx.Chiquis View Post
    I love seeing ladies seek sex work as a long term career, it's not easy like any other but it does feel nice and rewarding to be as free as a bird! Lol fuck 9-5 Jobs! Trust me I'm starting my direction in being a career hoe and wouldn't want it any other way. I'm going to school for a trade, which is massage so I do have something to fall back on when I get tired or drained from SW.
    Massage is also physically and emotionally draining, albeit not in the same way as SW. But the average burn out rate of an MT is 10 years. Also be very very careful of crossing the lines between SW and MT - therapists are super super sensitive of being mistaken for SW or propositioned by clients. Just some things to keep in mind <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by lexxirain View Post
    Massage is also physically and emotionally draining, albeit not in the same way as SW. But the average burn out rate of an MT is 10 years. Also be very very careful of crossing the lines between SW and MT - therapists are super super sensitive of being mistaken for SW or propositioned by clients. Just some things to keep in mind <3
    Thanks for the reply @lexxirain! I get a lot of SWer pals tell me that often! Even though I plan to move out of the States to either Canada or Australia to pursue Sex Work as a Domme. In one hand it could be a wonderful upsale strategy with clients from a business perspective, but on the other hand would it be ethical?(rhetorical question lol) I personally right now don't intend on mixing and crossing any form of SW with massage therapy. A Canadian SWer friend of mine told me that'd to be careful be cause MT's all over are trying to separate themselves from negative SW connotations like "masseuse, body rubs, or FBSM." So I may have to be low key when it comes to advertising or just work in a different providence/territory from where I do MT at.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anyaoscar123 View Post
    As weird or as bad as it sounds I think I want to be a stripper forever.My mind says no but my hear says yes.And guess who I listen to most of the time? My heart! Yes I'm going to school and I'm hoping to get a degree and be a social worker eventually but on the side I'm probably still gonna dance.Why?because I still want to live a comfortable life.And I am well aware that most professions just do not provide you enough to lead the kind of life style that I'm looking for.And I don't want to struggle.I guess I'm spoiled in a way.But is it bad that I want to stripping on the side my whole life? Do you ever feel this way?
    If you want to make this your lifestyle career, then you need to plan for it. It's very possible to have many careers for the rest of your life. If you are able to adapt to changes in the market place.

    So there is a big difference of the rest of your life, or the rest of your working life. There is going to be a time where you might not be able to work due to illness, sickness or life events. It just happens.

    Been a cam model/ adult entertainer going on 15 years and I can tell you poor planning is what I regret the most. Not only do I regret the poor planning I also regret the poor choices I've made that have cost me financially. as for working years I am still pretty young to fix things, but now I am just a little bit more cautious with how I spend my time, and my money.

    The older you get the less mistakes you can make where you just do not have the time or even energy to fix them.

    Emotionally wanting to do this is one thing but you need to be able to logically able to do this as well.
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