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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
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    LOL! "I can't figure out how to give a woman an orgasm. Therefore, it's impossible."

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    Well...with all my partners I have had pretty good sex lives, and I think it is because of communication. Mostly because me, as a man, was willing to take instruction during sex. For the women that I have been with who have orgasmed vaginally, it's been because they had given themselves vaginal orgasms in the past, and knew how to guide me there, at least to start out. I guess what I am saying is I can't give any pointers because everybody experiences sex differently. I will say that the only relationship where I have ever regretted us breaking up is one where everything was great except in the bedroom, and instead of communicating, we were simply too embarrassed to talk about it. If the problem is that, just not knowing how to bring it up, I would say something like "I want to show you how to make me feel good," during foreplay, and then sensually guide him through something you like, or have an honest conversation beforehand, where you suggest a couple of things, especially if you're both stressing. He might even be into some things that turn you on or have been successful for you in the past that you didn't even think about. Anyway, I hope that helps.

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    Wow. These are all great tips.

    And also wendi you make a good point about orgasms and location.

    During my earlier moments I had no clue what orgasm was nor how to achieve it or even assist a partner in assisting me. So no clit or vaginal orgasms but oddly I could experience boob/nipple - gasms. So it does seem, at least in my experience, like orgasms can possibly be achieved in various erogenous zones as well (in addition to or in lieu of the traditional areas). The mind is a powerful thing and the mind/body connection is undeniable.

    And also the communication thing too....That's important. I think communicating beforehand (even during if necessary) could increase the chances of mutual satisfaction
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    Women are all different, so saying this works or doesn't is pointless. The old trope that a mans orgasm happens between his legs and a woman's happens between her ears is, IMHO, true. Part of the job is convincing a woman that you want her to come. I think, once you have done that, the rest is easy. I try to pay attention, run my hands over her entire body, see what makes her squirm and sigh......one of my favorite things is when a women looks at me shocked and says 'How the hell did you do that?' I smile and shrug, because, of course, I have no idea, I was just following what your body told me. Which I guess is part of my point. Don't ask a woman what gets her off, ask her body.

    I'm a bit saddened when the conversation turns to rules, I mean, you should be dating guys you want to fuck, so why rules? I can imagine hours[or err, minutes] spent staring at the ceiling under clueless self involved jerks can make one jaded, but once you view sex as something you 'give' rather than something you do together, you have really stacked the odds against yourself, mentally.

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    I did not read all the other posts, but, here is my opinion:

    (A) With an experienced woman who knows what she wants - Communication is key. There are so many variations of what a woman may prefer - clit orgasm vs. g-spot orgasm, rough vs. sensual, plain vanilla vs. kinky, etc., and a woman's preference might even change from day to day. A man cannot be expected to know exactly what buttons to press and in what combination, but, on the other hand, a woman does not like giving a guy instructions every minute. So, the guy needs to receive some guidance from the woman, but, he needs to pick up quickly and be able to read her signals/body language. If she likes him to take control, the guy needs to act like he is in full control, even though he is actually reading her subtle signals and taking his cue from her.

    (B) With a woman that has little experience and doesn't know what she wants, yet - It is about being playful and exploring many different things together, until you both discover that thing that gets her off the most. It could be the clit, vagina, anus or a combination thereof. Maybe she likes a back massage or maybe she likes to be spanked like a brat. It's all about being playful and MAKING HER FEEL COMFORTABLE AND SAFE with you.

    One key hurdle a guy needs to overcome to be a good lover is his male ego. I've use all kinds of toys with girls (bondage, dildo, vibrator, penis sleeves and extenders, clit teasers, etc.) and I don't feel insecure if a girl cums harder with a toy, my fingers or my tongue than she does with my dick. I've learned that girls often cannot cum with penetration alone. The worst male lover is the guy who feels that his dick alone should get the girl to cum, and he will get frustrated, disappointed and depressed if this doesn't happen.
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    Black Amex card always turns me on & helps bring lots of orgasms while shopping.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Raziel View Post
    Ans the men are silent... Quiet... Shhhhhhhhhh...
    Probably some shyness. The guys who are great at giving orgasms will just sound boastful if they show off and the rest might be too intimidated.

    This is a great thread. Ladies, share more please.

    I will say that in my experience, some women will make sure they will come and when I knew less than I do now, they took charge and made it happen. They knew there were gonna come no matter what. As a guy, unless you're an absolute idiot, you will do whatever she wants to make her cum.

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    I've always found that Cunnilingus works.
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