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    I almost cried today at work I honestly don't know what to do .I'm not strong enough.First of all I try following all the rules but none of the other girls follow it.For example I don't go up to a costumer when the customer is with another girl....but when it comes to me there is one girl who doesn't care. I was sitting with a customer I came first and she comes up to him and starts talking to him when she sees he is asking me for a dance. anyway than she starts calling me a "thirsty bitch"in front of everyone when They call me on stage all the girl start to boo me I almost cried on stage today but I didn't want them to see that they get to me.I don't do anything to them I promise! I do however get more dances, but I follow the rules! I don't try to steal anyone's customers!.2 girls came to my face and started to scream at me.i was so scared I'm a very sensitive girl and I honestly don't want to hurt anyone I don't know why they hate me. I responded once to them when I was on stage I said " haters are gonna hate" because they were just saying really mean things like "take a shower" change your underwear "when I do I don't stick I shower and I asked the hostess just to be sure if I smell she was like " no they are just mean" is it okay to talk back at times ? Why do those girls hate me so much?

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    You can go to another club? They are very rude, and obviously not there to make their money or they would be busy focusing on working. I would tell you to just ignore them but if it’s to the point where they are harassing you everywhere you go, you need to tell management or simply leave, go somewhere better.

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    If you get more dances that means your a threat to them. You are making more and she is finding ways to intimidate you so you make less. Screw what they say, your there for $$$ not life long friends

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    Try a different club, go to management & see if they can just keep an eye out, or ride it out. When I first started dancing -I got made fun of, hazed, all sorts of horseshit for the first 6 months that I started dancing! Lol, then finally, one of the popular girls kinda took me under her wing whether the other girls liked it or not & things got better. Sometimes, just show em what your made of, doll. God luck
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    This sounds awful. I think the managers should do something at least for the girls booing you on stage. Is it a small club? It sounds like one.

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    The booing is straight up disrespectful. That would not fly in my club.

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    Does the manager know this?

    Also, do you like the club? I wouldn't let a few shitty cunts deter me from a club I like making money at. Fuck those whores.

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    The problem is not so much the bullying.its more goat now she gets really near my face, and I get scared because she seems like a really violent person and I don't want to come home with a black eye.the manager doesn't seem to be doing much about it.maybe I should site down and talk to him.Its just that I am only 1 person it's them against me.i like the money I just can't stand those girls because they are just plain evil and want to hurt me when I don't even talk to them or bother them.I hate them so much��I have work tomorrow and I have to deal with mean faces again.everytine I walk near them they pretend to vomit but if I answer even one they tell the manager.

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    You need to pull the manager aside when he is not super busy and tell him all of this. Like now.

    Eta - let him know you want to work there in peace. Start no trouble and your intention is not to fire anyone either. You just simply want to make money without this bullshit. Make sure to mention that it even happens in front of customers... watch him do something quicker about it.
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    ^^

    That's really tough, especially if management seems to be fine letting things slide.

    If you're making money there i would personally put up with it (especially since i think you said in another thread you had limited options for other clubs?). These girls are feeling threatened because you are making money in "their" watering hole. So clearly you ARE a good dancer and you are hot, despite the crap they say. Just keep your head down and keep hustling.

    I've worked with girls who pull shit like elbowing in at your table and generally the customer will say something or if I leave they'll end up tracking me down later because of the other girl being so rude.

    If there is another club in the area you can audition at i would give it a shot but only if you make more money there. If these girls always "win" anf drive new girls out they'll keep doing it. Once they see you aren't going anywhere they will have to give up.

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    They're trying to get you to leave because they see you are new and they don't want you to take "their" money. You are a threat! With that said, you need to talk to a manager ASAP about it.

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    You girls are amazing I love you so much.You gave me so much strength.I will definitely speak to the manager tomorrow...hopefully it won't be a "he"!"she"says type of situation.

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    That’s crazy. Don’t be afraid to get some mace or a taser and put in your bag. I wouldn’t threaten them with it, but be safe.

    The momma bear in me says to find a healthier work environment. You can’t change other people. Being around toxic people for too long will make you sick.

    I worked at a club like that. I moved to another state.

    The fish rots from the head. So if management allows that behavior then you need to find another club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anyaoscar123 View Post
    You girls are amazing I love you so much.You gave me so much strength.I will definitely speak to the manager tomorrow...hopefully it won't be a "he"!"she"says type of situation.
    He probably knows how they are, I'm sure..
    Good luck!

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    Def carry some mace and tazer as the poster above said. I also have a switchblade on me as well. Girls like that are whack just ignore and keep making your money but the minute one puts her hands on you it’s game on.
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