Have any dancers here ever had a customer start crying during a lap dance? If so, I'd love to hear some stories and also how you felt about it.
Last month I went to a club and bought some dances from one of my favorites and got totally lost in the fantasy. She kissed me gently on the forehead, it was a very tender moment and before knew it I was crying. It lasted no more than a minute (One verse and chorus of Love Bites by Def Leppard. Very appropriate song to cry to during a lap dance, btw. Also, somewhat accurate description of how my marriage ended). When I stopped crying I apologized. She seemed to be thrown off a bit, but she handled it well. She said that had never happened before, which surprised me.
I want to go see her again, but I feel embarrassed. I imagine it's not a big deal for her, but it is for me. Would it be appropriate to bring it up with her, maybe over a drink before getting dances?
To be clear, this something I want to do for myself--not for her--so I can hopefully stop having that pang of embarrassment every time it pops into my head. What I would be doing for her is giving her money. ie: compensate her for her time either by spending a lot on dances, or tipping generously otherwise.
Also, what's up with kissing customers? I guess it's just part of the hustle, it always confuses me though. I think I just answered my own question.
Thanks.



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Seriously, though, I'm only half joking.


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