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    When someone is a stripper and/or gold digger, do you ladies have regular guys you don’t expect them to necessarily take you shopping, buy you expensive things, take you on nice dinners, vacations like do you categorize between sugar daddies and normal guys you actually like and would consider dating but don’t have money? Or are all guys the same to you and expect every guy to buy you things?

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    Unless they were a platonic friend I expected them to pay for stuff. Different girls do different things do what makes you happy. There are a lot of girls I met who would be paying for everything for their boyfriends I never understood this. each to their own.
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    I don’t really understand the basis of your question
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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    I'm not sure I'm understanding your question correctly, but I do expect boyfriends in my personal life to treat me well as in taking me on nice dates, taking me on trips, buying me gifts and no, I don't pay for anything. Not everyone expects the same out of their boyfriends, but I don't want to bother with a man if he can't treat me the way I deserve to be treated. Never will I date a guy who drives a Honda Civic, works a dead end job (or is unemployed), and expects to go Dutch on dates, and I believe every woman deserves more than that.

    The difference between a boyfriend and a sugar daddy is that I don't expect exclusivity with a sugar daddy. I don't mind if he's married. I don't expect to regularly see each other, and I don't mind working around a hectic schedule. I expect to receive an "allowance" as in an agreed upon cash sum every month. I will never introduce a sugar daddy to my family. I don't expect to eventually marry and have kids with a sugar daddy. I don't expect sugar daddy relationships to be longterm.

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    My rule is if I am fucking a guy with no conventional LTR I expect compensation.

    I recently bungled up a potential Sugar Daddy situation because I was too nice to the guy & he obviously felt mis- led. You don't give away your "candy store" for free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stacy222 View Post
    When someone is a stripper and/or gold digger, do you ladies have regular guys you don’t expect them to necessarily take you shopping, buy you expensive things, take you on nice dinners, vacations like do you categorize between sugar daddies and normal guys you actually like and would consider dating but don’t have money? Or are all guys the same to you and expect every guy to buy you things?

    Are you a man with a pink ribbon?

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    Which one of y'all ladies finessed her man???? 😂😂

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    I see what she is saying... Yes there is a different category for the normal dudes. Most of us date 'regular' guys and don't expect them to buy us a Louis or something. The line comes down to "Would I hang out with this guy normally? If no, then he needs to be compensating me". And since most of us don't want to hang out with 50+ year olds...
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    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    Never will I date a guy who drives a Honda Civic, works a dead end job (or is unemployed), and expects to go Dutch on dates, and I believe every woman deserves more than that. .
    Whereas, I appreciate a man who sees fancy cars as an investment that instantly depreciates! And I think the new Civic is nice compared to the one my mom had. Literally every stripper is different. We're highly motivated women with a lot of body confidence. That's what we all have in common. Beyond that we're all stripes.

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    Although hell to the no with going Dutch or not being employed. That's sad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    Although hell to the no with going Dutch or not being employed. That's sad.
    NO woman should be with a man like that. Stripper or not.

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    Normal guy = young, i like him for him as in his personality/looks, must have a good job but it does not have to be a super super money job , I expect him to pay for ALL dates, and nice gifts for my bday and special occasions, sex is not a chore, etc.

    SD= prob older, not that good looking, prob not that fun to be around, What's in it for me?, I would want compensation and gifts year around.

    So no, I don't treat my regular bf's like I do a SD but I know girls that do. If their bf doesn't get them x $2000 bag for no reason they lose their minds because they have blurred the lines between regular guy/bf and married older wealthy SD.

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    When I was stripping, I had the hardest time having any meaningful relationships. :-(

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    One wants to build a family & future with you. He isn't just with you because of how hot you are, using you as an ego boost and for sex.

    What is sad is that you don't know the difference between a person who is supposed to appreciate you as a person & another one as a sex object & giving you nothing back mentally or emotionally.

    Both are supposed to treat you well. Men own 90% of the wealth in this world and since they are holding onto it by preventing females in all income & educational levels from success & higher pay. YES!!!!! They all should pay for EVERYTHING!

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    Normal guy = young, i like him for him as in his personality/looks, must have a good job but it does not have to be a super super money job , I expect him to pay for ALL dates, and nice gifts for my bday and special occasions, sex is not a chore, etc.

    SD= prob older, not that good looking, prob not that fun to be around, What's in it for me?, I would want compensation and gifts year around.

    So no, I don't treat my regular bf's like I do a SD but I know girls that do. If their bf doesn't get them x $2000 bag for no reason they lose their minds because they have blurred the lines between regular guy/bf and married older wealthy SD.
    This exactly. I dont share my money with guys and I wont pay on a date but other than that I just want to date a guy who is FUN and attractive to me thats the most important thing. The whole rich older man thing is work for me I dont want that in my personal life.

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    Sugar daddy: has major money and spoils you financially with allowance and nice gifts. could be good looking but usually isn't

    boyfriend: i'm sexually attracted/in love, but expect to be wined and dined and given gifts, cause let's face it, they know we can get a SD

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    There is no line.....

    Especially if you are young beautiful and trying to have an easier time getting ahead in life.

    All dudes must come with that paper, must be ambitious, must be fiscally wise and generous .....

    Because if/when the relationship ends, you gone need something to show for it besides a wet ass and miles on your pussy (not to mention some of these men have personality quirks that should not have to be dealt with for free, especially if they expecting pussy along with that).

    I expect the same from "regular" dudes as I would sugar daddies, etc.

    Nothing is "free" in life except air and water (and even that costs)
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    Quote Originally Posted by trustfundkiller View Post
    Never will I date a guy who drives a Honda Civic....
    LOLOL!!! Not even that fully loaded 2018?!?

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    I have not had a relationship with any man I met while working. Especially when I could see over their shoulder that the ATM had declined their withdrawal after I told them I only take payment for dances up front. My man is unemployed and looking for work. He loves to spoil me when he's got the money, and I love to spoil him, and have been the one doing it more as of late. I like having the money to take us out on a lot of fun and lavish things. He's going half with me on a rental car for a vacation we're taking soon, and I'm very happy with our dynamic. I've never seen a sugar daddy that doesn't expect sex, so I probably wouldn't ever engage with a SD.

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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    Yes the lines got blurry for me and I started to question what was even real or not but I’d rather have money than love at least for now

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    There is no line.....

    Especially if you are young beautiful and trying to have an easier time getting ahead in life.

    All dudes must come with that paper, must be ambitious, must be fiscally wise and generous .....

    Because if/when the relationship ends, you gone need something to show for it besides a wet ass and miles on your pussy (not to mention some of these men have personality quirks that should not have to be dealt with for free, especially if they expecting pussy along with that).

    I expect the same from "regular" dudes as I would sugar daddies, etc.

    Nothing is "free" in life except air and water (and even that costs)

    I agree! Thank you for the advice!

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    Whereas, I appreciate a man who sees fancy cars as an investment that instantly depreciates! And I think the new Civic is nice compared to the one my mom had. Literally every stripper is different. We're highly motivated women with a lot of body confidence. That's what we all have in common. Beyond that we're all stripes.
    Also men with mediocre jobs can lease expensive Mercedes and BMW...not really the best indicator of wealth honestly.
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    Default Re: When to draw the line? Super confused.

    I don't expect anything from guys I date like dinners and gifts and crap, but I do have certain standards. If a guy asks ME on a date and then asks me to split the bill I'm definitely not going out with him again.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    My rule is if I am fucking a guy with no conventional LTR I expect compensation.

    I recently bungled up a potential Sugar Daddy situation because I was too nice to the guy & he obviously felt mis- led. You don't give away your "candy store" for free.
    Thats a good way to put it. That's were Im at with my dating life right now... I am to that point were, there are NO MORE FREE F*CKS. Period.
    And dinner doesn't count because Im vegan and don't/hardly ever drink so my dinners are like $30 MAX...


    So yah, I feel ya on that. However I can't emotionally deal with a sugar daddy, i've tried to dabble in this but it never goes anywhere because I get annoyed at their neediness and i don't know any sugar daddies wanting to pay me 50k a month to put up with their ass.. lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zofia View Post
    When I was stripping, I had the hardest time having any meaningful relationships. :-(
    Seems to just come with the job. I feel like this is more than normal (not including girls that just date losers), except for those girls that got married or have been in long term serious relationships before they started dancing, they seem to do the best emotionally speaking at remaining balanced and keep work as work. For those of us who are alone most of the time, it's hard to keep those work/personal life lines drawn firmly. Tho they should be, cuz guys at the strip club be cray cray.

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