I don't waste my time on any guy who isn't compensating me for it. I've been burned by too many guys and their bullshit games, the worst by someone who was a reg who managed to break my walls down and made me feel like I'd have hung up my heels for good and let him put a ring on it. In our line of work it's hard to figure out who is with us just for an ego boost to make the guy look good and feel better about himself because he got us. Even if we're an SB relationship, it's hard to decipher a man who is with us because they genuinely care about us as a person, accept and love us for who we are, despite our job title, want to grow with us as a couple, and are in it for the long haul. People can be so fake these days that it's hard to tell anymore.