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    Just curious what you all use for a "stripper persona" (innocent schoolgirl, crazy bitch, enigmatic sexpot, etc) and how you came to that identity?

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    My tits are my persona and I came to them by a lot of fucking lap dances. The rest is history.
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    bubbly/crazy slut lol! but i tailor it according to my mood. when i'm sober it's 'angry spoiled bitch'.

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    Bubbly laughs a lot very flirtatious slutty but classy

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    Never had one, I'm me 24/7.

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    Depends who I was talking to, mostly party girl or counselor lol. whatever was needed.
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    Somewhere between Don Rickles & Mae West

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    There's no need for a persona. Just pretend you like the guy (or hate him, if that's what he's into). He'll drop stacks on that pussy.

    No offense, but if you need a persona for work, this probably isn't the job for you. If you are having to create an entirely different personality in order to make money, you are going to burn yourself out. That's way too much work for a job that requires a level head and a consistent work ethic in order to be successful like this one. If you aren't a "natural", fake it until you are. The only "persona" you should ever need as a stripper is the one where you know what the customer wants and you can sell it to them. That comes with experience. This isn't show business, this is sales. If you can't find a way sell your personality, you can't do this job. I think most new girls are confused by this. It's not a persona strippers put on. It's a hustle. It's sales. It's still us, just a selective, focused part of us. We aren't character acting, girls who do that are cheesy as fuck and make no money. This isn't burlesque. This isn't theatre.

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    Default Re: Your "persona"

    Gotcha. Just from reading some other posts on here I guess I got a different impression and was just curious how it all came into play.

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    slutty fun party girl/bimbo. kinda like "rock of love" meets "the girls next door" lol depending on the customer i'm either a wild slut from las vegas or a spoiled stuck up brat from newport beach. i grew up in both places so it works. when i travel dance though i play up the whole "texas/southern" thing even though i've only lived here for 2 years

    usually when i spend a lot of time with someone i relax and am just myself but it's fun playing around with different personas on busy nights. i feel like they're all "me" only different parts of myself exaggerated x10 .. if that makes sense?

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    Love it.
    Also, changing it up works

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    My persona? Someone who isnt actually repulsed by fat/old/socially awkward customers lol. Other than that im pretty much myself but at my best, my nicest, most bubbly, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Daniellaa View Post
    My persona? Someone who isnt actually repulsed by fat/old/socially awkward customers lol. Other than that im pretty much myself but at my best, my nicest, most bubbly, etc.
    Do you work at Fox News? LOL
    Pretty much describes every office I ever worked at too.

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    What about girls that copycat your ''persona'', while always up in your grill or looking at you work? And then they start making money because they've copied your techiniques and your image?

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    my persona : semi- nerdy sexy hipster from California haha. I started wearing my glasses full time and business has been booming ! I get a lot of compliments and def get custies just cuz they dig the whole glasses things . also I've never been a typical black chick - I have a very petite figure, while many black women r curvier ! I also have a different style and try to dance to "underground" music haha (well I'm at a new club so I settle on EDM). and they dig my Orange County accent. hahahah OKAY idk If this is really a persona cuz its really just me but a lot of guys recognize my uniqueness and it (t)WORKS for me oh yeah also I can twerk hehe. I'm also very sweet in my personality - never "scamming" guys , or talking down to them, and I'm not overly aggressive. I had to accept that bcuz I thought u had to be a "hardcore hustler" I guess. But now I see it works to my advantage cuz some guys dont wanna feel overly pressured . I'm just that genuinely nice girl, that still gives A+ lap dances .
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    ^^^^^^this is basically me except with a thick Midwestern accent instead of an O.C. accent. and Asian instead of Black.

    edit: this is also me outside the club too except w more clothes on mostly

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    Well, that happens in this industry more than you think. So, I would just alter my "persona" slightly to stand out if you have chicks copying you. Like wear different outfits and alter your music choices. I know that I had to slightly change my personas because of copying


    Quote Originally Posted by yaya_cash View Post
    What about girls that copycat your ''persona'', while always up in your grill or looking at you work? And then they start making money because they've copied your techiniques and your image?
    Wolves may lurk in every guise / Now as then, 'tis simple truth / Sweetest tongue has sharpest tooth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yaya_cash View Post
    What about girls that copycat your ''persona'', while always up in your grill or looking at you work? And then they start making money because they've copied your techiniques and your image?
    "Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery"

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    "Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery"
    Okay, I get it. I remember there was this entertainer I WAS amazed with. She probably caught me staring at her, and was annoyed by it. I was a little inflatuated with her appearance and how she sold rooms at 1,000 half an hour or whatever and a 60-dollar lap dance when others were selling their dance only for 20.

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    ^ I've only seen that with either feature dancers or girls with hella plastic surgery+hella regulars at that particular place so they "had a name" for themself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by random stripper View Post
    ^ I've only seen that with either feature dancers or girls with hella plastic surgery+hella regulars at that particular place so they "had a name" for themself.
    She was neither a feature dancer nor had plastic surgery or regulars. She didn't have the best body (and never did stage) either - just the best hair (extensions), dresses/skirt sets, while "everybody" wore onies or bikinis and her nails we're always done. And, she had a pretty face--

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    Quote Originally Posted by yaya_cash View Post
    She was neither a feature dancer nor had plastic surgery or regulars. She didn't have the best body (and never did stage) either - just the best hair (extensions), dresses/skirt sets, while "everybody" wore onies or bikinis and her nails we're always done. And, she had a pretty face--
    Imma be honest, if I c a girl charging 1000 an hour for 30 mins lapdances, I would assume she's doing more than dancing. That's just me. When I was a pretty new stripper, my manager (he was cool af guy) told me " Dont believe everything you see around here". That's what I relate it to. I worked at a very extras friendly club haha, so I'd wonder why so many of the not so cute girls were making sooooo much $. Then I looked back on that quote haha. Amongst other reasons, it became a clear determination that most of the girls in that place were doing extras. just food for thot.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ladycaxe View Post
    Imma be honest, if I c a girl charging 1000 an hour for 30 mins lapdances, I would assume she's doing more than dancing. That's just me. When I was a pretty new stripper, my manager (he was cool af guy) told me " Dont believe everything you see around here". That's what I relate it to. I worked at a very extras friendly club haha, so I'd wonder why so many of the not so cute girls were making sooooo much $. Then I looked back on that quote haha. Amongst other reasons, it became a clear determination that most of the girls in that place were doing extras. just food for thot.
    Still 1,000 for half an hour or an hour--there WERE and are, girls doing everything for 500 or 200. And a 60-dollar lapdance while others can and will do it for 20?

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    Quote Originally Posted by yaya_cash View Post
    Still 1,000 for half an hour or an hour, there WAS and are, girls doing everything for 500 or 200. And a 60-dollar dance while others can and will do it for 20?
    Yeah 1000 for half an hour is cool, and ?.... She's probably still doing more than just lap dancing. good on her for how much she's making but I just dont appreciate working around extras girls when I'm busting my ass ..... luckily at my new club, I dont really deal w that.

    W / the 60 dollar dances, that's cool , at my club I would be able to charge that bcuz we also set our own prices for floor dances.
    However I feel like 20 dollars is such an easy sell hahah
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ladycaxe View Post
    Yeah 1000 for half an hour is cool, and ?.... She's probably still doing more than just lap dancing. good on her for how much she's making but I just dont appreciate working around extras girls when I'm busting my ass ..... luckily at my new club, I dont really deal w that.

    W / the 60 dollar dances, that's cool , at my club I would be able to charge that bcuz we also set our own prices for floor dances.
    However I feel like 20 dollars is such an easy sell hahah
    And, I'm amazed or a little confused that men choose some of the most busted dancers to give 5, 000 or 10,000 to in VIP. But hey, when you can afford to pay that, I guess it doesn't matter much-- Or they're so sure a busted female would do ANYTHING. (So they weren't given that money; I'm sure they EARN it, by fulfilling whatever dark, twisted fantasy the rich man has.)

    And can you imagine what they're willing to give their girlfriend or wife, if they give THAT type of money to some busted female?

    -- So I see why management hires some ugly girls.

    And it's like some girls don't bother with their appearance because they know they're going to make money anyway-- By selling that busted look--- �� ��
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