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    Default Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    How do you put up with the bullshit when people at the club try and give you "tips" on how to do your job. I always ignore the men, but it pisses me off when the women are saying the same shit. I basically get told I need to be more "friendly" aka more touching more nice for free than I am comfortable with losers (customers). Trust me I know exactly what they mean by friendly and they can keep their friendly to themselves no thank you. I am more of a verbal hustler than anything else and I do have "game" with my words but I feel like I have some really off days sometimes because girls at the clubs I work at will sit with these dudes like 30 min or like an hour or even hours for free hoping to get paid. At one of my clubs some people will tip you for your time but the other one I was at yesterday where the girls do that too NOBODY tips for time and every single penny is earned. Anyways I get pissed off especially when it's a woman telling me this "helpful" bullshit. Also they tell me to tease more blah blah blah don't take it all off too quick. Uh hello you must not have seen me on stage like ever I don't even go topless 9 times out of 10 because not enough money on stage to motivate me LOL. Also I happen to be one of the top earners most nights I walk in to either of my clubs so it just really fucking pisses me off when somebody sees me having a bad night and tries to "school me" what the fuck is this shit? I know the obvious solution is to walk away which is what I do but this kinda shit still pisses me off. Especially because every single woman that has ever tried to tell me the fuck to do is like 4, 5, or 6 out of 10 even in these small town dive bar parts and I am like a 9 in these parts (probably only a 6 or 7 somewhere like Dallas though lmao). Whenever I have a bad or horrible night pretty much everyone else is having a bad night too except girls with regulars or who do extras.

    I know I am being sensitive and all I just don't understand how you ladies deal with this bullshit when you know you are having a bad night and somebody pretends to "help" you by putting you down like that and telling u a whole lot of bullshit. I might add their "tips" on how to make money are complete and utter bullshit because the #1 reason I am a top earner most nights is because I am complete bitch and go for what I want which is money. The friendly girls are doing bad or average most nights as far as money goes. -shrug-

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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    Just ignore them and respond with something like "I think I got it, thanks!" and a big smile. "Sorry I don't do that". Etc. If they start saying you'll make more money, "I do pretty fantastic as it is, thanks though!"

    9/10 times they are some loser who wants to feel superior. Don't take it personally. You'll get used to dealing with them and the responses will become automatic.
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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    Yeah every time a female customer or even fellow dancer tries to give me tips on how to make more money at my job it's basically a guide on how to be a whore or a guide on how to show that I don't value my time LOL. I mean I expect this from the guys because something is in it for them, but coming from the females too? LOL

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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    I got about half way through the first paragraph before I stopped reading. IMO you are giving off an extremely negative vibe on this board, so I can only imagine how that is translating in the club. I am sorry, not trying to offend you, just being honest.

    You DO need to be "nice". Customers (or losers as you call them) are there to have fun or take their mind off of things. While once in every great while there is a dancer that can pull off that "bitchy" personality, they are few and far between. Also, a bitchy persona is not the same thing as someone who thinks the other dancers are "whores" (female misogyny on this site AGAIN- great!!) and the customers are "losers" and people trying to help them are "annoying".

    I am going to assume, based on what I did read that you started this thread because you are not doing so well? I would def. start with changing your attitude. You are lucky girls are even trying to help you at a club. They usually do not. Second. a dancer getting tipped for spending time with a customer IS money earned.
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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    Top earners don't let petty stuff like this distract them. They're too busy focused on their money and their hustle.
    I had to double check whose thread I was reading because the way you're throwing a tantrum, I almost mistook you for the Tweeter in Chief. You almost sound just like him.
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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    Firstly it really doesn't take much to be a top earner the places I work because 90% of the other girls don't understand the concept of not sitting with a guy too long. And I can tell judging by #s they throw out in DR and by the # of dances on the lists they keep at both clubs that I am doing well so thank you for assuming I do terribly.

    Secondly both the clubs I am at are full of whores and I distinguish between whores and strippers and I wouldn't say I am a misogynistic person because I consider a girl that fucks/sucks etc a guy in the private area for money to be a whore. There are also many girls that are known to go and fuck the guys otc for a price and it isn't just from other dancer's gossip that I hear that all the time.

    Thirdly my rant was about people pretending to help me and give out tips on days that I do bad which just so happen to be when the money is dry in the club for everyone except girls with regulars or girls that do extras.

    I realize I should have probably not posted my rant in the first place or been more thoughtful in how I typed it up. Maybe I let petty shit bother me because I am new and don't know better? You all really don't need to be attacking me because I am not attacking any of you.

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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    No one is attacking you. Just calling what we see.

    Any woman calling another woman a whore, especially a fellow sex worker is misogyny. While I can understand that other girls performing extras in your club is a nuisance to you, putting women down for their sexuality and buying into the belief that this somehow makes them some lesser member of society is the reason 1 in 5 women in the US is sexually assaulted before they turn 25 but only 1 in 1000 rapists ever see jail time. It is also the reason women get paid less money than men in most fields, and the reason we are seeing some famous/rich/powerful man getting outed every 15 mins for decades of sexual assault.

    They were getting away with it because the social stigma of being a "loose/un-chaste/not-pure" woman (thereby morally corrupt) was far worse than and more embarrassing and terrifying that what they had already endured. it is bullshit and it needs to stop. So, please for the love of all things holy can we at least stop it on the one place we should all feel safe???

    And as far as the advice at work- I would ignore the men and at least hear the other girls out, even if you do not take their advice.
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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    If you despise your coworkers go to a different venue or get a different job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    If you despise your coworkers go to a different venue or get a different job.
    Welp with Mueller handing down those indictments we can always replace a whiny orange baby with the OP and nobody will tell the difference.
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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    I definitely hear out or take their advice when they are in the position to give advice. It pisses me off when it is some like 18 year old that is severely overweight and does more than what I do if you know what I'm saying. Another recent one was an ex stripper that says she now makes more money as a secretary of all things than a stripper lol.
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    Geez just humor them and move on. Don't allow it to get to you.

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    Default Re: Women/men giving you bullshit "tips" on how to do your job

    A great hustler would't have time to listen to them. You smile, ignore & just move on.

    How someone else looks or hustle is none of your business. Considering you want them out of your business, you sure seem to be all up in their's and what they do.

    You are doing the exact same thing they are only you are doing it here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by random stripper View Post
    Yeah every time a female customer or even fellow dancer tries to give me tips on how to make more money at my job it's basically a guide on how to be a whore or a guide on how to show that I don't value my time LOL. I mean I expect this from the guys because something is in it for them, but coming from the females too? LOL
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