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    Default De-Armouring Vagina AKA Resensitizing

    I know there have to be women who can relate to this being that we are in the adult business. Before I entered the industry, I was a horny lil slut. I could cum within minutes having oral, I would enjoy sex much more...I was actually horny and could get aroused very easily. Granted I was much younger and hormones were at play.

    I am now 35 years old, I get horny only right before my period. I do not get aroused easily. My libido is non existent. I enjoy sex, but it is not the same. I literally need a jackhammer on my clit to get anywhere near close to cumming. I do not get very wet at all and it makes sex uncomfortable without lube. I do not cum from penetration, never have been able to easily. If I do it involves a lot of clit play with fingers or vibe. I love receiving oral but even then have a difficult time. I have the finest dude who has oral skills that cannot be described with mere words between my legs (that I fantasized about for months) and still can't cum.....and it gets frustrating!

    I have read about sexual dysfunction and even this term makes me feel inadequate. I know if I saw a doc they would perscribe RX like xanas (so I could relax) and when I do take a xannie it does come easier, no pun intended, or some type of mood stabilizer. This does not get to the root cause of the problem...so I dug deeper.

    I have been reading a lot of articles about tantra. To me sex was always just a physical and if attached emotional experience, hardly ever experienced sex on a spiritual level. In my research I have come across what is known as De-Armouring your vagina. I have also read similar articles on resensitizing your vagina.

    According to these articles, the vagina can develop a thicker skin and spots kind of like pressure points. This happens due to being entered when the vagina is not technically ready, when you are penetrated without being fully aroused, etc. In sex work this is a daily occurrence. I have shut myself off for years. This can also happen because of sexual assault, etc. In the de-armouring process you massage the walls of your vagina, find any tense or painful spots, apply pressure and let out any emotions. The vag also stores emotions and like pressure points, you can massage and apply pressure to sensitive spots to let out these stored emotions.

    According to the women who have de-armoured their vagina, the vagina becomes wetter, softer and regains sensitivity. Their libido is on fire. They can experience orgasms like g spot, cervical orgasms that they have never experienced before. Clit play is not the only way to cum after de-armouring. Orgasm can be reached just by penetration. Yes, it sounds too good to be true. Yes, it will take time...but in all my years researching this I am intrigued.

    I am going to attempt to do this myself, I do not really want to use toys just yet but I can only get so far back there without one. There are special yoni wands that can be purchased to help in the process, often made of stone. There are a few different ways I can go about this but I am only going to use fingers and then work up to a dildo or yoni wand.

    I am going to combine two articles. First, I will insert a finger into the vag only when it is ready. I will honor my no. I am to leave the finger in for up to 10 mins at a time. Eventually, this will leave me feeling very aroused. Then, I will begin massaging the vagina in a circular pattern, starting at the base and going deeper. If I reach any spots that are painful, I will gently press the vagina and express the emotions that were stored within. I am going to do the finger only method for a few days, then work my way into the massage. I in the end will massage the cervix, but as of right now find that very uncomfortable with a toy.

    I am curious if any other ladies out there have done this and or with the help of a professional. Unfortunately here in the USA I know a yoni aka vaginal massage is not legal. I wouldn't mind seeing an expert in tantra eventually but they still cannot perform the actual yoni massage.

    I am posting a few of the articles I have read about this. These articles pretty much sum up the way I feel, and what has been going on with my vag in recent years.

    https://www.blissrunner.com/reawaken...l-sensitivity/

    https://www.dearmour.com/de-armouring

    http://tarao.com.au/tip-de-armouring-vagina/

    https://www.elephantjournal.com/2016...-orgasm-adult/

    There are many more where this came from! I have not honored my no in the past and mostly due to being in the industry and doing toy shows, hence why I prefer not to use a toy in this process.. I was also in a very long term relationship and pretty much ended up going thru the motions and not really enjoying sex. I am looking forward to this process, reconnecting with myself and will update my progress.

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    Default Re: De-Armouring Vagina AKA Resensitizing

    ^^^ really interesting. I have lichen sclerosus, an autoimmune disease that causes thickening/scarring, plaques and atrophy of the vulva/vagina. So far I've been treating it with Western medicine. But I wonder if there's an emotional component, too. Going to try de-armouring; thanks for bringing it up!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winged Dinghy View Post
    ^^^ really interesting. I have lichen sclerosus, an autoimmune disease that causes thickening/scarring, plaques and atrophy of the vulva/vagina. So far I've been treating it with Western medicine. But I wonder if there's an emotional component, too. Going to try de-armouring; thanks for bringing it up!
    May I ask what kind of treatments u are currently using? I know there are a few supplements that can increase libido, and I have been very interested in the weed lube, but still on a quest to awaken my va jay jay.

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    I'm prescribed clobetasol (a steroid cream) and premarin (an estrogen cream). I'm also doing CO2 fractional laser treatments (the Mona Lisa Touch), which have brought more improvements than any other treatment. The clobetasol addressed the itching and burning but not the atrophy, fissuring and tearing during sex. The Mona Lisa seems to have strengthened the tissue and reduced the white patches.

    I've tried a million supplements for lichen sclerosus*--maca root, vitex, ashwagandha tea, rosea root. None made much difference. I also have a CBD salve which doesn't help the LS but does work well as a lip gloss.

    *also, for people who don't know about LS, Roo Morgue made a good video about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6dAJnUzX8w AND she's a camgirl!
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    Default Re: De-Armouring Vagina AKA Resensitizing

    Never heard of it but I could see where it would be beneficial.

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    Default Re: De-Armouring Vagina AKA Resensitizing

    At 35, you could be going perimenopausal and it is a hormone levels affecting it.
    https://www.medicinenet.com/menopause/article.htm

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    At 35, you could be going perimenopausal and it is a hormone levels affecting it.
    https://www.medicinenet.com/menopause/article.htm
    Totally. I started breaking out a few years ago, and had no idea why. I tried everything...then it hit me after many nights of research: hormones.

    I stopped eating dairy and started taking berberine which helps with excess testosterone in the body. If I eat too much dairy, the breakouts start again and I feel so bloated and generally icky.

    My sex drive tanked years before this, I want to say as early as 27ish. I knew for a while it was a side effect from the industry: I have done porn etc, and then started camming and shutting myself off during shows, etc. I used to have no hang ups about sex and was so very free. I still enjoy sex but it is not the same. It is also about acceptance, for a long time I could not forgive myself for certain things I have done in the business and grew jaded and resentful. This all took a toll on me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Winged Dinghy View Post
    I'm prescribed clobetasol (a steroid cream) and premarin (an estrogen cream). I'm also doing CO2 fractional laser treatments (the Mona Lisa Touch), which have brought more improvements than any other treatment. The clobetasol addressed the itching and burning but not the atrophy, fissuring and tearing during sex. The Mona Lisa seems to have strengthened the tissue and reduced the white patches.

    I've tried a million supplements for lichen sclerosus*--maca root, vitex, ashwagandha tea, rosea root. None made much difference. I also have a CBD salve which doesn't help the LS but does work well as a lip gloss.

    *also, for people who don't know about LS, Roo Morgue made a good video about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6dAJnUzX8w AND she's a camgirl!
    Thank you so much for being so open about your journey. I appreciate it so much and knowing that I am not alone is very comforting.

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    Thanks for bringing up a topic that doesn't get discussed enough! Sexual dysfunction affects a lot of women, for sure. It's a relief to talk about it.

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    Your welcome!

    So for the first few nights I just did the insertion of a finger method mentioned in one of the articles, no massaging. while I did this I listened to a self love meditation. The article states to keep your finger in for 10 mins at a time minimum and eventually you will feel energies building....

    After a few nights of doing this...meh.

    I will not give up though and will start performing the massages after a few more sessions of the finger technique lol.

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    I will definitely be following this thread!
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    I will be back in here later. Thanks for posting this!

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    Any Updates?
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    OK I admit I have not been doing this as much as I have planned. It is really hard to find time for me-time. I guess my pussy is not a top priority. I went out of town for a week and a half my first week in on the de-armouring process as well so really didn't have the peace and quiet or privacy to really do this.

    This week I have a guest staying with me for a bit and then AVN is coming up lol. Damn I really need to learn to prioritize the pussy!

    After a week of the finger only method, I will admit I definitely feel hornier and wetter though! I wake up super horny, have had more sexual dreams, and get much wetter when I am getting intimate. The interesting take away is that I realize now that making myself and my pleasure a priority is very important. I would not have realized this if I did not post about de-armouring to begin with so this is a good thing! Although de-armouring has not become a daily or weekly practice for me I have had a few realizations around these lines that have been a part of my re-awakening!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cyberstripper View Post
    OK I admit I have not been doing this as much as I have planned. It is really hard to find time for me-time. I guess my pussy is not a top priority. I went out of town for a week and a half my first week in on the de-armouring process as well so really didn't have the peace and quiet or privacy to really do this.

    This week I have a guest staying with me for a bit and then AVN is coming up lol. Damn I really need to learn to prioritize the pussy!

    After a week of the finger only method, I will admit I definitely feel hornier and wetter though! I wake up super horny, have had more sexual dreams, and get much wetter when I am getting intimate. The interesting take away is that I realize now that making myself and my pleasure a priority is very important. I would not have realized this if I did not post about de-armouring to begin with so this is a good thing! Although de-armouring has not become a daily or weekly practice for me I have had a few realizations around these lines that have been a part of my re-awakening!
    Well that's much better than when you started this thread!!! Keep us posted, please. I think I may look into this soon as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cyberstripper View Post
    I have been reading a lot of articles about tantra. To me sex was always just a physical and if attached emotional experience, hardly ever experienced sex on a spiritual level.
    I find that when I practice yoga regularly, my sex drive comes back. Once I had a spontaneous orgasm just lying in savasana after practicing, and have been close several other times.
    Hip and pelvic opening poses release a lot of stored emotions and trauma.

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