What are your thoughts on these and do you do them??
Been a monthly regular with a dancer for over a year now, so she's gotten at least a sense of who I am. The thing is, as much as I enjoy seeing her in the club, it's getting a little redundant. By that I mean we talk about the same stuff over and over. I was thinking about asking her to dinner and a concert to expand the experience. I get it, it would be for payment of course. So a few questions...
1. First would you even consider a paid date?? I'm talking moreso a clean date, not trying to imply extras. But something where your comfort level is as clearly expressed and respected.
2. If so, would there be an ideal way to broach the subject?? I know some may want club life to stay strictly there and not bring anything to the outside world, but the only way is to ask. And trying to find suggestions to do so in the most respectful way possible
3. Maybe the most important. What would be a good compensation?? I think this would vary on too many factors, so I was thinking about offering the average of how much I spend on her in the club as a starting point. There would pros and cons to it for both of us. IE PROS: Hopefully, if I don't across as creepy, she actually has fun on the 'date' and gets paid, vs for me -let's be real, more time for less cost per hour. which leads to CONS:She would be making less per hour, since our 'date' would be longer than my typical visit vs visually/physically on my side would be less stimulating.
Hopefully this doesn't come across as offensive and wanted to see your thoughts.
Thanks



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