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    Default Is it possible to be too skinny

    I was always told on here it wasn't possible, but In your experience, is being very skinny/tiny aging, and can it ever adversely affect your career, depending on the club?
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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    It is absolutely possible to be too skinny to the point that it's aging and unattractive if it's an unhealthy skinny. I have a friend who once got down to under 90lbs, and even at only 5' tall, she looked scary. Her ass completely disappeared, her eyes and face seemed sunken in, and she just looked sickly. It made her look like she had aged at least 10 years. She wasn't a stripper, but I thought she looked pretty unappealing at that point, was super shocked when I saw her, and a lot of her guy friends came to me expressing concern over how she looked. Even she joked that she looked like an 11-year old boy cuz she had no "womanly" curves whatsoever. I can't imagine that that would be appealing in a club scenario for the majority of customers.

    I have seen other girls, taller girls, who are only 90 or so pounds, and they still look fine. But it's not like a certain weight is always going to look exactly the same on everyone, especially depending on why someone is the weight they are - are they just naturally super tiny, or are they sick/starving themselves/etc?
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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    It’s definitely possible to be too thin. Who wants a skeleton shaking what she ain’t got in front of them?

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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    Well, it depends. Attractiveness is purely subjective. What one man finds attractive, another might not. Some guys like tits. Others like ass. Then there's feet guys or other fetish guys. That being said, I've worked with a flat-chested, no butt, skeletal girl before, she still seemed to manage to make $. I think that it was her personality mostly. Different strokes for different folks.

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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    Well there is that saying that you can never be too rich or too thin.

    In the high fashion modeling industry - no you can never be too skinny.

    In the real world YES. You are too skinny if you are having health problems related to being underweight.

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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    I don’t mean that just because you’re flat chested or assed that you’re a skeleton. I’m talking about people who aren’t naturally thin.

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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    I'm 5'5 and 100 lbs. I think I look lanky if I'm not being careful to carry myself a certain way but no it hasn't really affected my earnings. Of course there's always guys that like skinny girls and guys that like thicker girls, but nobody's ever said worse beyond "eat a cheeseburger" and some pathetic attempts at negging.
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    Omg yes! It looks gross when you can see someone’s bones sticking out, yuck! (And I’m not being mean that’s just my opinion). Plus as mentioned before, being too skinny can make you look unhealthy, not feminine, and it can make you look older and frail. Or it can make you look boyish and pre-pubescent. If a girl is naturally thin and has a shape then it looks good, but abnormally thin is not healthy or attractive. Makes me think of all the crackhead skinny girls I have worked with lol

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    I'm around Selina's size (5'6 and around 105, 107 ). I'm definitely not unhealthy I don't think, I eat a good diet and I love exercise.
    But my bones do stick out a bit and I work in an urban club where the majority of the girls are thick to very overweight.
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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    I think that to make money in the strip club, the skinnier the better (up to a point). Thick girls can do too but high rollers seem to favor skinny girls, even butter faces. men unfortunately care about body more than face.

    My bones stick out when I am at 160 for 5,7" because I have a huge frame, but a lot of people wouldn't consider me skinny even then lol.

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    In a strip club, no. I've seen butt-ugly skinny girls with ugly faces, jacked up teeth, and zits/sores all over their faces get hired over girls who could stand to lose 10-20 pounds who are striking. Bodies matter way more than faces in strip clubs.

    In the real world-yes, definitely!






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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    Yeah in a strip club you pretty much have to be legitimately ill before it's too skinny for most custies.

    I've had weeks where i was running way more bony than i would like just cause working too much and not eating enough and i would get a ton of compliments. Kinda fucks with your head a bit tbh.
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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    Customer wise, I think being way too skinny can 100% hurt money (but at the same time I know unhealthy bone thin women who still make money) In terms of clubs, I've never seen a manager put a dancer on probation to gain weight.

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    Default Re: Is it possible to be too skinny

    Quote Originally Posted by blondhottie View Post
    In a strip club, no. I've seen butt-ugly skinny girls with ugly faces, jacked up teeth, and zits/sores all over their faces get hired over girls who could stand to lose 10-20 pounds who are striking. Bodies matter way more than faces in strip clubs.

    In the real world-yes, definitely!
    AMEN. skinny will always get you hired and I do see skinny do better in the club most of the time.sometimes i wonder if men don't see what women see. i think they don't even look at the stripper's faces sometimes lol.

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    Meth skinny can ruin your skin. I've seen some girls bounce back from eating disorder weight loss but when someone hits the pipe & is malnourished the damage can be permanent.

    Thankfully we're moving toward a healthy thicc being the norm.... versus the coke skinny model body of 2-3 decades ago.

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    Must be because I work in an urban club..cause my body is the "classic stripper" super skinny with c cup boobs (thanks breastfeeding!) but I'm getting turned down for being too skinny and not having a big ass.
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    I'm pretty sure i'm petite, weigh 95lbs on a good day and I'm 5'3", with A cup boobs and some bones that stick out... but people still call me hot and I get plenty of money and tips lol. Believe it or not some guys prefer skinny girls to thick girls. Just like some guys like girls on the bigger side. Everyone has their tastes.

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    Something you should discuss with your Doctor & over all health.

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    Skinny used to be it ( back home we would say a hot girl who got skinny fast went on "The Jenny Crank Diet") but with hip hop replacing rock as a prevailing popular culture....curves are hot. & That's better. Starving yourself to meet an unrealistic standard of beauty is stupid.

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    Of course you can be too skinny. But the thinner I was, the more money I made. When I was at a 17.5 BMI, I banked. Mind you, there were a few guys who thought I was too skinny and didn't like me, but the majority of guys love thin dancers. I wouldn't get thinner than 17.5 BMI though....otherwise I look sick.
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    I follow a lot of the urban clubs on Instagram, where they post photos of the women who work in the clubs, I say women, because now the bartenders are the dancers competition here in New York, and I would say nearly 100% that the women are thick and curvy, both the bartenders and the dancers. I really don't see that they hire skinny women in the urban clubs. I think there's a difference though between being thin and being skinny. Skinny just sounds underweight. Thin sounds in proportion. I have yet to see a skinny entertainer being promoted on the urban club Instagrams. And these women go to great lengths to attain the body they have. They get liposuction on their waist and have the fat transferred into their bottoms. And the bigger the better. Upscale Manhattan clubs, on the other hand, prefer a smaller physique, and generally not quite as voluptuous. I think regarding if you could ever be too skinny it depends on the type of club you're working in.

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    After having just lost 30 llbs I'd rather be told to eat a burger than put down the fork. As the Duchess of Windsor said "You can never be too rich or too thin." I've been hitting the gym 6x a week, sometimes 2 hours a day. I will NEVER let myself get fat again.
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    For sure you can be too skinny for a certain demographic or if you're "skinny fat" and you just look lanky and flabby and unhealthy you probably wont make a bunch of money but aside from urban clubs you will still find wayyyyyy more places that are willing to hire the underweight, unhealthy, crackhead look than someone who is overweight.

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    I have a friend who is naturally thin. I think she is like 5'3 and 90 pounds. But the look fits her frame and she looks healthy. As long as you are healthy, being "skinny" shouldn't be an issue.

    Here's my experience at both ends of the weight spectrum.

    I'm 5'7 and I have a large frame. When I first started in ny, i was super thick (200 lbs but if people had to guess they would say 160 lbs) and I made very good money. Then I dropped down to 150 but people guessed I was about 120 pounds because I looked lean due to my large frame. So i was in the tall, slim category. I danced at this weight at upscale clubs and banked super good. I hated how I looked though because unlike my naturally petite friend, I did not look good and I had a flat ass. Omg it was awful. Also I had to stop working urban clubs because i felt embarrassed going on stage with no ass. My customer base went from black and latino men to white and asian men. However, i really enjoyed how easy money came to me.

    Then I stayed in the "in between" phase where I wasn't super thick but I wasn't skinny. Around 180ish. And to be honest my money was eh. I had a flat stomach still but my ass, while not a pancake anymore, still wasnt spectacular and tbh looked kinda weird.

    Now I'm back to my super thick weight and I have a little stomach again which I'm not happy about. I feel sluggish and unhealthy and am not happy with how my outfits fit. But my ass looks crazy good and tbh money has been crazy good. But I am lucky to be at a club where thick is preferred.

    So those are my experiences at both ends of the spectrum. Even though I make good money super thick, I am not happy with how I feel healthwise. I actually prefer to be around 160/170 with muscle. When I dropped down to 150 it was all cardio which is why my body shape wasn't nice. Whether I'm thin or thick I've found that there's always someone who says they preferred me the oppsite weight so who cares. Do what's healthiest and best for you.

    I don't have any experience in the super skinny category, but in an upscale club i see that being a super advantage. Not so much in an urban club

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    Omg guys totally prefer the thinner look! I hate it! Let me eat a burger, grind on your dick, and live my life lol

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