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    Default Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himself

    • Corinne Hayes, 23, from Oldham, feared Brian Marshall was about to kill himself
    • Said she would hang herself at his flat in the belief he would find her in time
    • Sent him a text message saying: 'If you are going to do it, so am I. Meet you on the other side,' but he was too late getting back to save her





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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    Awful. I hope he does something good with the rest of his life.
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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    Tragic

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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    I don't understand why she'd even attempt to fake that but regardless, that is sad that that happened. :-/

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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    Shit, that is just stupid. She attempted suicide to teach him a lesson? Hoping he would get there in time to save her. It is the most idiotic thing I have ever heard in my life. Natural selection at it's best.

    She could have called the police & had them put him on suicide watch. She could have left suicide hotlines post it's all over his place. Hanging yourself & giving another person 5 minutes to get their to save you.......

    Can't muster up any sympathy for someone that stupid.

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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    Well, that's a cruel thing to say, no of course it wasn't the smartest thing to do.

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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    I thought she was a teenager at first. She had to have been going through some things to do something like that. That relationship was unhealthy for her (to the point she met her own demise) and this is a good example for ladies to leave relationships that serve no purpose - let your partner get mental help from trained professionals then maybe discuss having a relationship.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    I thought she was a teenager at first. She had to have been going through some things to do something like that. That relationship was unhealthy for her (to the point she met her own demise) and this is a good example for ladies to leave relationships that serve no purpose - let your partner get mental help from trained professionals then maybe discuss having a relationship.
    He needed professional help. IT was NOT her job to save him. Toxic people can fuck your own life up, you have to be willing to love yourself enough not to go down a path with those bent on destruction.

    No matter what you have been through, killing yourself to prevent someone else from doing it is the dumbest thing ever. If anything, it will drive him further into a depression & make him more likely to do it himself. And it is not uncommon is one person does it to trigger several others in that community to do it too.

    Which I am seeing in my own part of the industry. This is a very raw subject for me at this time & point.

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    Yes. From that article sounded like He did need professional help - however she got caught up in his mess.

    This is common of what happens to victims of narcissistic abuse or other types of abuse from people who are mentally ill. Instead of the person who is mentally ill getting treatment the abuse victim ends up being the one needing/in therapy. They don't know how to cope with people who are mentally ill.

    If she was mentally healthy herself - she would not have stayed with him nor taken her own life......

    I'm not judging because I have personally experience what it is like to feel mentally and emotionally vulnerable, end up with the wrong type of dude/people, then make really unwise decisions as a result.

    I never said it was her job to "save" him because 1. she has no obligation to him/ no kids with him etc 2. She was not a trained psychological/psychiatric professional

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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    Really sad to hear this.

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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    Shit, that is just stupid. She attempted suicide to teach him a lesson? Hoping he would get there in time to save her. It is the most idiotic thing I have ever heard in my life. Natural selection at it's best.

    She could have called the police & had them put him on suicide watch. She could have left suicide hotlines post it's all over his place. Hanging yourself & giving another person 5 minutes to get their to save you.......

    Can't muster up any sympathy for someone that stupid.
    Stupidity? Wow. I guess you have never heard of mental illness. She was probably mentally unstable or had a really bad pass. I have made some bad decisions while being abused and mentally ill. But I guess I am just stupid...

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    Thank you!^
    I know I thanked you already, but a great post.
    The cruelty of that other comment..
    I had a relative, it's not known if she committed suicide or forgot the amount of meds taken..
    I myself had trouble remembering..
    Just no one really knows the whole story, except the person involved
    One of the truly saddest things for me is hearing about the really young children, 8 - 13 that commit suicide because of bullying

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    Default Re: Girl accidentally took her own life in attempt to stop her bf from killing himsel

    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    Thank you!^
    I know I thanked you already, but a great post.
    The cruelty of that other comment..
    I had a relative, it's not known if she committed suicide or forgot the amount of meds taken..
    I myself had trouble remembering..
    Just no one really knows the whole story, except the person involved
    One of the truly saddest things for me is hearing about the really young children, 8 - 13 that commit suicide because of bullying
    I'm so sorry to hear that

    I feel for anyone including the girl in this story. Suicide is so sad and there is still so much stigma (as seen on some of the comments) that people don't get help.

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