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    So this club I work at is known for extras, and this guy and his friend wanted me and this other girl to go into champagne with them. I hadn't talked to either of these guys except briefly at the bar when he got me a drink. I didn't know who the girl was but anyways we go back there, and she starts giving him head and then I think other stuff???

    I'm seriously so freaked out. I left to use the bathroom, came back and they were getting down and dirty. I stood there and drank champagne and just stood in the corner and danced, then gave the guy a normal lap dance.

    I don't want to go back to the club I work at, but I need money. I'm mortified and the champagne host doesn't care, neither does the manager.

    Please help, What do I do?


    Edit: I put this in the newbie board because I've only been dancing for 2 months.

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    I have a love/hate relationship with the CR. If you get the right people in there, it can be awesome. Then you have this scenario.

    Good for you for maintaining boundaries.

    Go back to work. You didn't do anything to be mortified over. I'm concerned about them not caring. She does that with the wrong guy and your club could get shut down by vice.

    Be careful who you do CRS with. Find someone fun. This one girl and I danced for each other while the guys watched. Then we did body shots and had a blast. No need to do extras.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LoveyDovey View Post
    I have a love/hate relationship with the CR. If you get the right people in there, it can be awesome. Then you have this scenario.

    Good for you for maintaining boundaries.

    Go back to work. You didn't do anything to be mortified over. I'm concerned about them not caring. She does that with the wrong guy and your club could get shut down by vice.

    Be careful who you do CRS with. Find someone fun. This one girl and I danced for each other while the guys watched. Then we did body shots and had a blast. No need to do extras.


    UGH thank you so much,

    I haven't been back for a week because I'm scared I have a bad reputation now. I've been literally sick to my stomach over what happened, I feel like I should've walked out or known better. I was given $600 (each) for the half hour, which I didn't count until I got back to my hotel room. I saw the guy handing the champagne host/bouncer a thing of twenties also. I just feel like an idiot.

    Also I love the idea of body shots! Did you use shot glasses or just off the body? Champagne or actual liquor?

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    That dancers work is beyond your boundaries so don't bend ! It's ok to go back, just stick to your own boundaries and don't do rooms with her anymore. Know she is high risk. Avoid so you don't get caught up in anything .

    ( written from someone who has also seen gross things in the CR and bounced back ok )
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    ugh, that sucks. at least you got paid and they didn't try to force anything on you. if it's an extras club then i wouldn't worry too much about your rep- i'm sure no one cares even if they do assume you're guilty by association. try not to think about it too much fuck what anyone thinks anyways. is there a reason you can't try other clubs?

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    That's dancers work is beyond your boundaries so don't bend ! It's ok to go back, just stick to your own boundaries and don't do rooms with her anymore. Know she is high risk. Avoid so you don't get caught up in anything .

    ( written from someone who has also seen gross things in the CR and bounced back ok )
    Thank you!!! So much love and support, glad I wrote this post.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    ugh, that sucks. at least you got paid and they didn't try to force anything on you. if it's an extras club then i wouldn't worry too much about your rep- i'm sure no one cares even if they do assume you're guilty by association. try not to think about it too much fuck what anyone thinks anyways. is there a reason you can't try other clubs?
    Thank you, you're right. This club is just SO easy going. No schedule, you don't have to go on stage (only pay $20 extra in house fees), you can work for an hour or 15 hours and that's none of their business. Also you make your own prices for everything, they don't take any money from dances or champagne rooms so most of the time I can make $500 on a Tuesday by selling 3 for $80 dances lol. It's so easy there...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ellexoxox3 View Post
    UGH thank you so much,

    I haven't been back for a week because I'm scared I have a bad reputation now. I've been literally sick to my stomach over what happened, I feel like I should've walked out or known better. I was given $600 (each) for the half hour, which I didn't count until I got back to my hotel room. I saw the guy handing the champagne host/bouncer a thing of twenties also. I just feel like an idiot.

    Also I love the idea of body shots! Did you use shot glasses or just off the body? Champagne or actual liquor?
    Well the good news is, you got paid and you didn't cross the line. Just be careful so you don't get caught up in any situations.

    My friend and I did both! I think she did tequila shots from a shot glass. She'd lick salt off me, then I'd put the lime in my mouth and pass it to her after her shot. We were/are friends , and I trust her to not cross a line with me, and she is totally respectful. The more fun you guys have, the more fun everyone else has, and then the customer buys another hour because you're all having so much fun. I think she sipped champagne from my belly button too. We had fun that day and each made 1000.

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    Have you been in that club for 2 months, or have you tried others too?

    Extras aside, that club sounds good. I would stick with it. The extras, well yeah... you're gonna see that in a lot of clubs unfortunately. Try to seperate your rooms, if you can.

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    ^^ don't overthink this. No need to feel sick. She is comfortable doing something you're not comfortable doing. You didn't know going in and you know now. It's a learning experience. While some clubs are cleaner than others in every club there are always going to be girls doing things for money you wouldn't do. Whether those things are physical grinding, rubbing tits in faces, etc.. Or psychological like making them pity you to give you cash, it's Christmas I need to buy my kids gifts. The good news is you're not responsible for others! Only yourself! You'll be ok go back to work and hold your head high and get money, no one is judging you because everyone in the whole club is that girls coworker and half them have been in your situation probably.

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    Thank you everyone xoxoxoxoxo I feel a ton better. It's none of my business if others do extras I just don't wanna get in trouble if they do.

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    A good rule of thumb is, if they're not in trouble for doing it you're not going to be in trouble for witnessing it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    ugh, that sucks. at least you got paid and they didn't try to force anything on you. if it's an extras club then i wouldn't worry too much about your rep- i'm sure no one cares even if they do assume you're guilty by association. try not to think about it too much fuck what anyone thinks anyways. is there a reason you can't try other clubs?
    my thoughts exactly. this could have ended worse.. and what a weirdo that girl is that she is doing all of that in front of you and your guy, when clearly she could have gotten away with just dancing...

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