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    Default What is the first thing you want to know about a customer?

    Is it about money? Is it whether they're local? Something else?

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    Default Re: What is the first thing you want to know about a customer?

    What they do for a living.

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    If they're not gonna buy dances. Other than that I'll chat about anything. But don't waste girls' time if you have no intention of paying for it.

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    Default Re: What is the first thing you want to know about a customer?

    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    What they do for a living.
    I've been asked that before. It's a question I've heard a lot, actually. Is that mainly a conversation starter or is it something that's a make or break detail?

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    Quote Originally Posted by SuperJa View Post
    If they're not gonna buy dances. Other than that I'll chat about anything. But don't waste girls' time if you have no intention of paying for it.
    I can see that being important. Some dancers lead with a mention of dances, but others don't. Should the customer just come out and politely say they're not looking for dances upfront?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wall View Post
    I can see that being important. Some dancers lead with a mention of dances, but others don't. Should the customer just come out and politely say they're not looking for dances upfront?
    Yes, if you know you aren't interested in buying dancers just say something like, "just a heads up, i'd love to chat if you're free but i'm not interested in going for dances tonight/yet" depending on whether you're planning on them later or not at all.

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    "Ill ask them what his intrests are
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    He gone be there for a while......"

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    Couldn't resist.

    What type of money he's spending, is he strip club loyal (infatuated with me and not going to start petty ass drama being wishy washy/looking for the competition -> Bubbles and co.) or at the least going to spend most with me, is he regular material, is a going to behave like a gentleman/respect boundaries

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    No, I just want to know ball park their income level.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    "Ill ask them what his intrests are
    Who he be with
    Things that make him smile
    What number to dial
    He gone be there for a while......"

    -Biggie


    Just kidding


    Couldn't resist.

    What type of money he's spending, is he strip club loyal (infatuated with me and not going to start petty ass drama being wishy washy/looking for the competition -> Bubbles and co.) or at the least going to spend most with me, is he regular material, is a going to behave like a gentleman/respect boundaries
    Omg, miss a.p., the "Big Poppa" lyrics remake made me choke on my chai tea, laughing. Thanks.

    I'd mostly want to know if he's going to buy dances or not. Holidays seem to bring the lonely guys to the clubs who want to sit around and talk/flirt but not spend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post

    What type of money he's spending, is he strip club loyal (infatuated with me and not going to start petty ass drama being wishy washy/looking for the competition -> Bubbles and co.) or at the least going to spend most with me, is he regular material, is a going to behave like a gentleman/respect boundaries
    1. what type of money he's spending?
    2. is he strip club loyal?
    2. going to spend the most with me?
    4. is he regular material?
    5. going to behave like a gentlemen/respect boundaries?

    Strip club loyal. That's a great phrase. Infatuated and not wishy washy. Thanks. Are any of these a deal-breaker if the customer is willing to spend money the first time you meet them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post

    I'd mostly want to know if he's going to buy dances or not. Holidays seem to bring the lonely guys to the clubs who want to sit around and talk/flirt but not spend.
    That's two votes for buying dances or not, along with the two for how much money a guy's got available to spend. Thanks.

    And don't be that guy who sits around talking and flirting but doesn't want to spend. Is there mix in there that's a good ratio for talk v. spend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by wall View Post
    And don't be that guy who sits around talking and flirting but doesn't want to spend. Is there mix in there that's a good ratio for talk v. spend?
    Depending on the club/its hustle pace, I am totally fine with chatting for 2-4 songs before dances. If you know right off the bat you only want one dance though, please don't make the girl sit for 4 songs... I don't mind it when the guy gets multiple dances or a room, but it's really irritating to spend that long and get one $20 dance.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wall View Post
    1. what type of money he's spending?
    2. is he strip club loyal?
    2. going to spend the most with me?
    4. is he regular material?
    5. going to behave like a gentlemen/respect boundaries?

    Strip club loyal. That's a great phrase. Infatuated and not wishy washy. Thanks. Are any of these a deal-breaker if the customer is willing to spend money the first time you meet them?
    Definitely #5 is a dealbreaker for me. I cannot stand narcissist misogynist assholes, intoxicated assholes, sexual harasser assholes....no assholes lol

    I get not every dude is rich af but if a dude is willing to spend what he can that's more important than how much he spends. #2-#4 are more like preferences but not requirements because regulars who are also like "Im coming to see YOU" or they turn away other dancers that approach them and say "thanks Bubbles but I'm waiting for Miss" are like gold as far as making work more pleasant and easy.

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    Do you have a Black AMEX Card?
    What else matters?
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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    What they do for a living.
    This one is fun - I have a two word, one sentence, and one paragraph description of what my business does. You can see dancers narrowing their eyes and switching to phase two wealth assessment, which is why I have to wear nice shoes :-) . It was much easier in the days I could just say, "I work in finance."
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    I love that narrowing of eyes when the career pops up. You can see the assessment of income potential spinning in their heads. When the eyes widen again then it is time to consider how much of that money I have to spend on that dancer. Of course we all do this but it is an interesting moment.

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    idk i don't care what they do for a living. all i wanna know is what kind of experience they're looking for. want me to hang out and drink with you? want to have an intellectual conversation? just want boobs in your face? looking for an extras girl or drugs? help me out so i can either make money and give you a good time, or walk away and save myself the trouble if i'm not your type.


    job doesn't matter to me cuz in the past few months alone i've had a hot shot lawyer in nice clothes with big $ run out without paying for his dance (during which he tried to rip my boob off and asked me to fuck him).. then i had a 22 year old waiter wearing converse and a t-shirt spend $500 and was super respectful the whole time. a lot of the time guys with impressive sounding jobs are actually cheap assholes i've noticed. age doesn't matter either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bahuba View Post
    This one is fun - I have a two word, one sentence, and one paragraph description of what my business does. You can see dancers narrowing their eyes and switching to phase two wealth assessment, which is why I have to wear nice shoes :-) . It was much easier in the days I could just say, "I work in finance."
    Can't say that anymore. I want to know exactly what you do and who you work for. I'm an interrogating queen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    What they do for a living.
    This is the icebreaker question that I hear from easily half of the dancers I deal with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    This is the icebreaker question that I hear from easily half of the dancers I deal with.
    so weird, i feel like that question is so rude! i had no idea it was a normal thing to ask a customer. maybe i'll start though because i always want to ask but don't do it unless they ask a rude question first (ie: so what's your real job). the rude ones always seem to have boring mediocre jobs

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    so weird, i feel like that question is so rude! i had no idea it was a normal thing to ask a customer. maybe i'll start though because i always want to ask but don't do it unless they ask a rude question first (ie: so what's your real job). the rude ones always seem to have boring mediocre jobs
    I was actually just about to respond to your other post about how intriguing it was that you’re looking for how best to set the customer experience upfront (or cut bait). That’s a style I’ll often use when approaching dancers. I’m in the club by choice, and I’ve approached a dancer on my own, so I’ve already answered a few questions without saying a word. From there I’m looking at whether or not there’s a way to make it a positive experience for both of us.

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    idk i don't care what they do for a living. all i wanna know is what kind of experience they're looking for. want me to hang out and drink with you? want to have an intellectual conversation? just want boobs in your face? looking for an extras girl or drugs? help me out so i can either make money and give you a good time, or walk away and save myself the trouble if i'm not your type.
    I’m fine with being asked what I do for a living. There’s a simple and very natural sounding response that can take 10 seconds, 10 minutes, or however long it goes to discuss. But if I’m presented with a dancer who seems interested in understanding how best to enjoy the moment, that’s a gal I’d like to spend a little time with regardless of what she’s asking.

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    How big their nipples are..

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    I just have a hard time believing dudes will just voluntarily be like "Hey Bubbles nice to meet you. Oh you want to know my career? I am an investment banker, neurosurgeon, wall street hedge fund manager, head of law firm, etc....." unless they are either 1) narcissist looking for validation 2) okay with being aggressively hustled 3) or completely green n gullible

    I never ask this question (nothing against asking it though if its your thing) because like mentioned above 1) men in top dollar professions do not necessarily mean they will be financially generous and vice versa plus 2) some of these men lying through their teeth

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    I don't think it's rude. They know what we do for a living, why can't we know what they do for a living?
    Also, when you work in a club trying to sell rooms that cost as much as some of these rooms cost, you need to know who you're pitching to. I'll pitch to ANYONE because you just never know BUT I'll tailor the length of my pitch based on the customer's0 income level. Can he even afford to spend a G on a private room? We all have different goals and therefore different ways to hustle.

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