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    Default What are the most important things a customer should know about exotic dancers?

    If there was a list with the most important things customers should know about you as a dancer (or dancers in general), what would be on it?



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    Dancers are at their workplace when they're working at the club. They are there to make money. Don't go to a strip club and waste her time if you're not going to buy a dance, tip, or anything. Dancers have rent, bills, groceries, car payments, gas money to pay, etc just like everybody else. Sometimes they're a single mom supporting a family, a student stripping to pay off college tuition, or someone who just enjoys the flexibility of dancing and being able to work whenever she wants. Also, don't go the club hoping to get a girlfriend. It's annoying when guys want to keep asking if she's single, for her personal phone number, and her real name. Just because someone is a dancer doesn't mean that you can do whatever you want. Her body, her rules. Don't touch without asking. Respect her boundaries and don't be the creepy guy in sweat pants who whips your dick out. That's all that comes to mind at the moment.

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    Don't resent the dancer for putting on a good show for you.

    Yes, she is only pretending that you are cute, handsome and sexy. That is part of her job. If she is very convincing at it and makes you feel warm and special, applaud her excellent acting talent. She is performing for you, giving you a sexy fantasy. Be appreciative of that.

    Do not get resentful and angry because YOU took her performance too seriously and wound up spending irresponsibly.

    Do not be one of the thousands of poor lovesick bastard that comes to this website to ask - Does she really like me?
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    It's a job. Respect us as you would any other person working in a place of business and pay us as such .
    It's really so simple, but I'd say 1% of customers seem to grasp such a basic concept
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    Quote Originally Posted by We had a rabbit like you View Post
    It's a job. Respect us as you would any other person working in a place of business and pay us as such .
    It's really so simple, but I'd say 1% of customers seem to grasp such a basic concept
    Thanks for your thoughts on this. What is it that contributes to the low number of customers who seemingly grasp the value of respecting dancers in their place of business as they would want to be treated in theirs? Is it lack of comprehension, lack of cooperation, or lust overriding their social skills? Not looking to explain the issue away, just wondering if your experience says that customer bad behavior tends to be willful disregard for dancer boundaries.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    Dancers are at their workplace when they're working at the club. They are there to make money. Don't go to a strip club and waste her time if you're not going to buy a dance, tip, or anything. Dancers have rent, bills, groceries, car payments, gas money to pay, etc just like everybody else. Sometimes they're a single mom supporting a family, a student stripping to pay off college tuition, or someone who just enjoys the flexibility of dancing and being able to work whenever she wants. Also, don't go the club hoping to get a girlfriend. It's annoying when guys want to keep asking if she's single, for her personal phone number, and her real name. Just because someone is a dancer doesn't mean that you can do whatever you want. Her body, her rules. Don't touch without asking. Respect her boundaries and don't be the creepy guy in sweat pants who whips your dick out. That's all that comes to mind at the moment.
    Thanks! It seemed like these items could be a list all on their own, so I copied them in the order written:

    1. Dancers are at their workplace when they're working at the club.
    2. They are there to make money.
    3. Don't go to a strip club and waste her time if you're not going to buy a dance, tip, or anything.
    4. Dancers have rent, bills, groceries, car payments, gas money to pay, etc just like everybody else.
    5. Sometimes they're a single mom supporting a family, a student stripping to pay off college tuition, or someone who just enjoys the flexibility of dancing and being able to work whenever she wants.
    6. don't go the club hoping to get a girlfriend. It's annoying when guys want to keep asking if she's single, for her personal phone number, and her real name.
    7. Just because someone is a dancer doesn't mean that you can do whatever you want.
    8. Her body, her rules. Don't touch without asking.
    9. Respect her boundaries
    10. don't be the creepy guy in sweat pants who whips your dick out.

    These seem pretty timeless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wall View Post
    Thanks for your thoughts on this. What is it that contributes to the low number of customers who seemingly grasp the value of respecting dancers in their place of business as they would want to be treated in theirs? Is it lack of comprehension, lack of cooperation, or lust overriding their social skills? Not looking to explain the issue away, just wondering if your experience says that customer bad behavior tends to be willful disregard for dancer boundaries.
    A societal problem of sexism, whorephobia and disrespect for both women and in particular sex workers. Entitledment to female sexual services. A belief that's is isn't a "real job" and a desire to believe these women really want them.
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    I think most customers are unable to grasp the concept of me being a respectable human being. Some customers think that just because I work in the sex industry that I must not have morals or ethics whatsoever. This is my job. I am here to make money, go home, and drink a Mojito.
    Customers also don't understand that this is a FANTASY. No, I am not supposed to go home with you just because you gave me 2 crumbled bills over the course of 2 hours. I don't need to be "saved" from this job. No I will not be dancing forever. I am a great people person, I love conversation, and it helps that the club is full of beautiful women.

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    Default Re: What are the most important things a customer should know about exotic dancers?

    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    don't be the creepy guy in sweat pants who whips your dick out.
    I actually joked with a dancer about the sweatpants bit recently. I wear Docker-type slacks or shorts - something that's comfortable for me to wear and for her to rub against (I actually rub the fabric on my cheek (face) to see if it feels "coarse"), and for when the occasion is appropriate, silky boxers. I said it just seemed a little too creepy to wear sweats, commando. She said some shameless dudes just show up in tiny little gym shorts even in January.

    In this particular situation, she had previously unzipped me, to have a little bit of fun with the silk... but was now turning around to give me the rear view.
    I offered to zip it back up so she wouldn't get all scratched by the zipper.
    Because even if I'm being a dirty boy, I still try to be a gentleman where it's appropriate.

    (I'd never whip it out. I have my rules, too.)

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