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    So the Dj I'm working with is being a little perv.I wanted to come up to him to give him a hug and just be friendly, and he started to talk about how much he wants to do me and started touching my boobs.I wonder sometimes why men feel that they have the right to touch me just because I'm a stripper.Being a stripper doesn't make me less of a person.Also other guys that work in the club hit on me it's really annoying.Im trying to look hot for costumes not for other employees.Did this ever happen to any of you if so how did you deal with it?

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    Simple. Tell him not to do it or slap the shit out of him.

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    tbh, judging by all your other posts, i feel like you're doing things that you're not telling us because you seem to attract a lot of drama and problems. it's hard to tell you how to solve them if we aren't getting the full story, like maybe you don't realize you're doing anything wrong but it seems like you must be asking for trouble somehow.


    definitely tell him not to touch you though and tell a manager if he does it again

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    Ask him for $40 every time he feels you up. Any time he walks up & tries to get a hug, tell him it is a $5 for it up front.

    So what if he wants to fuck you. Demand and be honest, that requires a fancy dinner date, a dozen roses & diamond jewelry.

    Dont tell me you don't know how to flirt & work this to your best advantage, to play princess that requires much more than just a man telling you want he wants, If he can be so honest & bold about what he wants from you then WHY Can't you be bold & demanding in what you want.

    Either he will step up to the plate & through your hoops or think you are too high maintenance to bother.
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    You need to up your game and learn how to flirt to turn these situations to your advantage. You are being way to friendly & assuming that men who work in these clubs are different from the customers.

    Come on, you don't know how to accidentally spill your tray with a cold glass of water down a man's pants when he gets out of hand?

    Everyone there is NOT your friend, why are you hugging strangers? You have NOT worked there long enough to be that friendly with the guys who work there. When you spill your personal life to your co-workers & such you are inviting them into your life a bit more & where they can use it to take advantage.

    What you are missing is the taking of clues form the older waitress who you think finds you a pest. Now, you know why she is that way. Instead of watching & seeing that she has wisdom & experience you came her to trash her.

    You need to learn how to resolve conflict at work & look at the situation more objectively instead of from your personal point of view.
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    He’s not your friend. You don’t need to hug him just greet him with a smile or wave. He’s probably reading the hug as you being into him.

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    Seriously tell him to fuck off and not ever touch you again... Never let anybody just feel you up....

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    No one hugs the DJ. At my job no one even chats with the DJ. You trying to be nice to him while you're wearing stripper clothes is making him horny so stop.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    No one hugs the DJ. At my job no one even chats with the DJ. You trying to be nice to him while you're wearing stripper clothes is making him horny so stop.
    LMAO I can not ever remember hugging any of the DJs at any of the clubs I danced at, OR the managers or the bartenders. Most were creepy & I did all I could to avoid them & focused on just making money.

    Too many times I'd find them in the bathroom fucking a dancer then I'd announcing loudly to the whole dressing room asking one dancer why her boyfriend was in the bathroom fucking another dancer.

    You don't flirt or date the DJ or any other male who works there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    You need to up your game and learn how to flirt to turn these situations to your advantage. You are being way to friendly & assuming that men who work in these clubs are different from the customers.

    Come on, you don't know how to accidentally spill your tray with a cold glass of water down a man's pants when he gets out of hand?

    Everyone there is NOT your friend, why are you hugging strangers? You have NOT worked there long enough to be that friendly with the guys who work there. When you spill your personal life to your co-workers & such you are inviting them into your life a bit more & where they can use it to take advantage.

    What you are missing is the taking of clues form the older waitress who you think finds you a pest. Now, you know why she is that way. Instead of watching & seeing that she has wisdom & experience you came her to trash her.

    You need to learn how to resolve conflict at work & look at the situation more objectively instead of from your personal point of view.
    You have me and this girl confused for each other. This would explain it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kittykatrina View Post
    You have me and this girl confused for each other. This would explain it.
    Also I never came here to "trash" a waitress. I find her awesome and wanted to know how to get on her good side because if it's anyone I'd want to be cool with it would be her....... but seriously you confused me with this original poster. I have never even met a dj.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Anyaoscar123 View Post
    So the Dj I'm working with is being a little perv.I wanted to come up to him to give him a hug and just be friendly, and he started to talk about how much he wants to do me and started touching my boobs.I wonder sometimes why men feel that they have the right to touch me just because I'm a stripper.Being a stripper doesn't make me less of a person.Also other guys that work in the club hit on me it's really annoying.Im trying to look hot for costumes not for other employees.Did this ever happen to any of you if so how did you deal with it?

    I would just be friendly but not friends. When you see them just wave, say hello and pretend as if you are busy or going somewhere in a hurry. If he talks to you in such a manner say you have a boyfriend... or just be straight up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    No one hugs the DJ. At my job no one even chats with the DJ. You trying to be nice to him while you're wearing stripper clothes is making him horny so stop.
    Depending on the club and who the DJ is, they can run the show on some nights. Especially when they have a following. Ive been to Montreal..never worked in a club there. Clearly the culture is different. Lots of people make friends with them because it helps in the long run. They're more likely to play a dancers favorite song during her stage time if they like you. That doesnt mean you need to let them grope you. But being cordial will take you far in alot of clubs. Some DJs have connections with high rollers. Again that depends on where you're at.

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    I'd consider unwanted touching etc as sexual harassment

    You could either wear this

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    Or report to management and demand a followup confirming he has been reprimanded


    If you are not into him then unfortunately you cannot be 'nice' to him as he will read into you being nice to him as being attracted to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    You need to up your game and learn how to flirt to turn these situations to your advantage. You are being way to friendly & assuming that men who work in these clubs are different from the customers.

    Come on, you don't know how to accidentally spill your tray with a cold glass of water down a man's pants when he gets out of hand?

    Everyone there is NOT your friend, why are you hugging strangers? You have NOT worked there long enough to be that friendly with the guys who work there. When you spill your personal life to your co-workers & such you are inviting them into your life a bit more & where they can use it to take advantage.

    What you are missing is the taking of clues form the older waitress who you think finds you a pest. Now, you know why she is that way. Instead of watching & seeing that she has wisdom & experience you came her to trash her.

    You need to learn how to resolve conflict at work & look at the situation more objectively instead of from your personal point of view.
    You are way smarter then me.I mean it.I wish I had your wisdom.I honestly didn't think about it.You are right the men I'm working with are just like any other men/clients and I need to treat them as such.Thank you Sam you are a goddess.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss.a.p1600 View Post
    I'd consider unwanted touching etc as sexual harassment

    You could either wear this

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    Or report to management and demand a followup confirming he has been reprimanded


    If you are not into him then unfortunately you cannot be 'nice' to him as he will read into you being nice to him as being attracted to him.
    Wow does it hurt when you touch it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vanessa_mtl View Post
    No one hugs the DJ. At my job no one even chats with the DJ. You trying to be nice to him while you're wearing stripper clothes is making him horny so stop.
    That's my problem.i felt like if I hug him I'm being friendly and he will respect that since I'm working with him.Men are something else

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    I’m friends with all the guys, but they KNOW I’m nice not flirting. It’s nice because he’s not a weirdo-ok he is a perv but he’s not a perv to me- good enough. Every club is different. More healthy clubs have more respectful employees. The fish rots from the head. If the owner is an asshole to the girls the bouncers and DJ won’t be any more respectful.

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    Learned this tip from another dancer, but it's always worked for me. Call/refer to all male staff members as "dude" or "bro" right off the bat. This lets them know they're in the "friend zone" and you think of them as like a brother, not someone you want to hook up with. Also talking them about things you would not talk to a customer about.

    Example:
    DJ: oh damn girl! You're looking on fire tonight with that sexy ass of yours come here and give me a hug!
    Baby Stripper: *while giving weak side hug* Thanks dude, my boyfriend actually picked this outfit out for me, but dude, it's like so uncomfortable!
    DJ: um yeah, it looks like it would be...so what music are you feeling like tonight?

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