I feel like it's the worst day ever and I just want to be alone and cry


I feel like it's the worst day ever and I just want to be alone and cry


Or you could remind yourself that 71% of the world lives off less than $10 a day![]()

so be alone and cry then instead of coming on here to post a pointless thread that serves no purpose other than to make girls who regularly average $200 feel bad about it too
I'm not sure why you think that's bad. I'd be happy especially since winters are brutal here


You know what? I am not at all responsible for how others feel.Everyone has their own economical issues maybe if I was living in the south somewhere I would be happy too.I live in NYC the most expensive city in the world.And I'm just sharing my personal feelings which has nothing to do with anyone!!!!





If you live in NYC, I can understand. That’s about an average night where I’m from in the southwest, where the cost of living is cheaper.
I don’t have much advice to give, except that it helps to have multiple income sources in case your club gets slow.





I'm starting to think this girl (who knows if it's even a girl lol) is a troll with all the threads she starts.







Well, I dont think this is pointless. Im a camgirl and we have our goals too. For some its less then 200 for others it has to be more! It just has to!. So when its not, you feel bad and guilty. I can relate.
Nothing is pointless. There is value in everything that everyone says.


Okay then cool.... that's your opinion ....Then don't give the attention.And stop responding.And for the record I'm looking for support because as many people know you can't tell everyone you dance at a club. This is suppose to be a safe place but it's people like you who make it uncomfortable .







You are absolutely correct about that. Now when I look at your post history and all of the threads that you've created a common theme seems to run around you not being able to get along with the different people in the club. The dancers. The Dj. The house mom. The hostess. Not sure if you have a thread about the bouncers? You have two about wanting to be a stripper forever. Which that surprises me due to all the conflicts you're having?
Going forward lets try something different where you create fewer new threads and just add on to the ones that already exist. There are random thought threads, petty annoyances, whats on my mind etc. Try using one of those first. It will look less like trolling and more like someone who wants genuinely engage.





Depressingly enough $200 a shift or less is average in some regions/clubs. Ladies never get complacent about earnings.
There's nothing wrong with wanting more. If you know its possible to make more at your club or your city than by all means never settle for less and always strive to make as much as you can you don't have to be happy with 200 bucks. But I agree not everything needs its own thread. There are lots of threads like "my last shift" or something where you can vent about the smaller daily stuff like this.




it's hard not to give it attention when every other post on this forum lately has been some type of attention grabbing.
you joined in november 2017, i joined and contributed for many years. I would say it's pretty uncalled for to say i make people uncomfortable around here.
you just proved what everyone has suspected about you all along.. and don't worry I will make sure to ignore your various posts about nonsense in the future.
there's nothing wrong with wanting or striving for more i just really don't see the point of making an entire thread just for one sentence of useless rambling that isn't positive or helpful in any way. i will say that i was rubbed the wrong way at this time especially because even some of the top earners here have been leaving with 200 this past month. and who says the south is cheap? i'm in texas and the area i live in is comparable in pricing to where i used to live in orange county which isn't exactly known for being cheap. if you don't care what anyone thinks or feels then why post here?





If you want to improve on your earnings, than you need to invest in your hustle and attitude.You never talk about hustling and moving towards your money goals. Many of your threads are based on fighting hostesses,djs, and dancers. Invest in studying hustle hut and getting stripping programs such as dancerwealth. Just saying.
Wolves may lurk in every guise / Now as then, 'tis simple truth / Sweetest tongue has sharpest tooth.



It's ok to want more, but why even post this? It's all relative. If your cost of living is high and you make $200 all the time by all means either up your game or travel, depending on what is the right solution.
I like the suggestions for posting things like this more in Random thoughts, or Pissy annoyances over in Ladies only, or the My Last Shift thread right here in Stripping General. There's nothing wrong with wanting to make more in an expensive city, but this thread, like many others, leaves other readers scratching their heads about what exactly you're looking for. You aren't really asking a question or looking for advice. If this is a pattern that you want specific hustle tips on, you could ask for advice on things in Hustle Hut, if you are just bummed about your finances in general and seeking advice, there is Life Support or Dollar Den. But just wanting to vent for a moment, when the thread doesn't really lend itself to others joining in, could go in one of the already-created rant threads that were mentioned.
I'm sorry you feel like you're struggling with some bad nights. Check out some threads in Hustle Hut about keeping your energy up during/after a bad night/bad streak. Try to keep starting new threads to specific, answerable questions, and things that others could join in on discussing. We all need to rant sometimes - that's why those other threads exist.
Last edited by Aurora_Sunset; 01-04-2018 at 09:46 AM.
Don't try to win over the haters. You are not the Jerk Whisperer.
Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.





The thing is money is energy, so one night is $200, thank you universe you can go back in another night and try again, or you have enough to put some into savings, and handle some groceries.
Some people don't even make anything in a night and still have to figure out house fees.
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I think if you knew your cost of living is high it would have been important to add that tidbit into your first post. intentionally or accidentally leaving that out makes it seem odd when you complain about making 200.
Anyways, Dona and Minnie have a good point. If you have a bad attitude and a sense of entitlement (like I should just roll out of bed and dudes should throw tons of money at me) then you're missing a key element of the business and that is mindset as well as sales skills. It is important to show gratitude for what you do earn while at the same time striving to achieve/earn even more. Also this could be a test for you - do you know how to manage the money you do have? Are you living above your means? If you allegedly live in NY then is this the right city/club for you?

$200 a night right after the holiday season especially if you live in an infamously crappy state for money isn't bad. It's been near average here in Florida, at least at my club.
I'm not currently dancing, but I remember very clearly during a much different time in New York City, at the top clubs during the hayday, when some nights I would make $200, and other nights I would make much much more. You have to grin and bear it and just take the good with the bad. Not every night is bad, not every night is good, and of course we always go in with the hopes of making the most we can, but we never have control over that. The only thing we have control of is our attitude about everything and our energy to go out and get it when we are presented with the right opportunities.





I'm oh so glad you and other members are saying it. When we get to banning these people who come on here to troll in very insidious ways, many of you turn on the Mods, you join in with them, and lose perspective that these people are shit starters.
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