
Originally Posted by
NYC.Bianca
Yep stay away! I have found that if I find out their name I will general do some MASSIVE online investigation, like google them and look up their Facebook or instagrams. This might be creepy but frankly I've started doing this when I meet potential dating opportunities too. A lot of people true colors come out online and they don't even know it. Like them having multiple Facebook accounts, or IG's, or following 1000 girls on IG (insecure fuckboy), etc.etc. You can weed thru all the red flags really quickly if you do some investigation, also it really really helps you lose attraction to. Because you find out who they really are.
There is this host/cp guy at the club I work at who I totally have chemistry/sexual tension with, like I can tell he really likes me etc.; we've talked a few times and each time he's come to me. Anyhow, I found out his name cuz he's best friends with one of the bartenders, and I researched him online and just found out SO much crap like I would NEVER date him, ew, just no. So it's helped me just appreciate his pretty face and energy and go NO FURTHER than that.
A general rule of thumb I like to keep is to never date someone while dancing that I would date when I stop dancing. Like theres no way in hell id be in a strip club if I wasn't just at work, so no way Id date a guy their either. Keep your standards and dignity girl.
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