Short post - jk, potentially longer post
The itch
This constant itch to revisit the male RedPill subreddit led me to this conclusion: RedPill, if it's reframed by replacing the words "Women" with "SDs and others," "Alpha" with "you, the hottest goddess in whatever city you're in atm," and remove all of the obscuring filler text and focus on the theory posts as "how to respect yourself and set boundaries, excluding any negative bias you have against the people who you want to give you things," it tells you how to keep yourself cool and confident as you are playing the dating game/ your game.
After realizing this, RedPill reminds me of The Power of Pussy - it's a game; never settle until you have found the game-changer.
*game-changer = the ultimate SD/lover that you want to keep forever.
Realization
In u/sockpuppet's Women are Children post, he states that women behave like children around men by following his lead (taking cues on how to act, which of his rules to follow) and by showing overt emotion (giggling, OMGing, being cutesy, sadface). When my mind puts the reversals in place, the people you manage (SDs, johns on speeddial lol) are, in some ways, stunted emotionally and they need you to help them enjoy themselves OR they follow your cues, knowing what is acceptable with you and eagerly trying to win your favor.
Yesterday, my SD-bf tried some stupid RedPill shit on me. This hasn't been the first time he's tested me.
He fucking talked down to me, invalidated my feelings when I wanted to talk about how stressful it was looking after a small child months straight without going outside. Fuck! I just want you to agree and share your feelings, not brush it off and tell me it's not a big deal! Don't actually treat me like a moron, unless I ask you to!
He fucking puts incriminating shit around the house so I can see and flip out on him for possibly doing things (cheating) behind my back. He's sweet overall, but damn had two times where I nearly left b/c of his habits.
BTW, he's a lovely, special kind of SD-bf... I wouldn't RedPill him full force, but I'm starting to have to play games with him. I call him SD-bf not only because he gives me whatever I want and I love him, he's also just another SD 'cuz he's starting to act like one.
After nearly a year of observing him and snooping, I sense he has Capt'n Saveahoe syndrome. He seems to be combining the power of money and RedPilling to get what he wants.
He likes to help people financially not because it's a good thing to do, he does it to feel good about himself and show people how good of a person he is. He will even help out other rogue women to prove he's a helper... sometimes in turn for sexual favors, online or not. If you look at this Karmatically, most of the time his merits aren't worth it, even for me; he'll save a scheming bitch to "help her get back on her feet" when it's obvious she won't, he'll give me money and say "I need you, I hope you will not leave me. I love helping you and having you around. Don't take advantage of me." Dude. Money....intimacy....mindblowing sex....comfort....your ego being polished. Dude. I love you I like being with both you and your money, but PLEASE do not lump statements like those together.
We talk and we share our deepest concerns... sometimes it feels like we're missing tiny but imperative pieces of info from each other, leaving holes in whatever idea we have of our relationship.
After another cringey attempt to RedPill me today, I just had to go back to that subreddit, which I promised myself to never visit ever again, because I sensed he was trying harder to RedPill me overtime. Lo and behold, his moves were categorized, analyzed, exemplified in single posts. After getting over the nausea from looking at it's main page, I chose a post that seem the most interesting and the least disgusting ("How to tease your bitches") and things started clicking in my head. He's starting doing this recently. He did this, that, this, and that..... waitaminute.... this tactic is also in this strippaho book, that other one in the empowering pussy book.... lolwut.
Going back to when I had a gajillion men's phone numbers on my contact list and I coudn't keep up with all of them, I had to learn how to value my time and grace the hard way. RedPill is a "how to value yourself" for guys, and my idea of a RedPill reversal-swap is a "how to value yourself" to badgirls. If I had valued myself more and managed whomever was seeing me, I probably would have had slightly better numbers in the bank and more quality male friends.
Have any of you all seen any parallels with sex worker game and RedPill game? I'm fairly young, I was a quiet, geeky child and my parents never taught me any social games, so this is a big mind explosion for me.


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Not sure if the same thing happens with google or not, but it wouldn't surprise me.

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