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    Default Revelation: Managing SDs, Splendas, Johns... RedPill

    Short post - jk, potentially longer post

    The itch

    This constant itch to revisit the male RedPill subreddit led me to this conclusion: RedPill, if it's reframed by replacing the words "Women" with "SDs and others," "Alpha" with "you, the hottest goddess in whatever city you're in atm," and remove all of the obscuring filler text and focus on the theory posts as "how to respect yourself and set boundaries, excluding any negative bias you have against the people who you want to give you things," it tells you how to keep yourself cool and confident as you are playing the dating game/ your game.

    After realizing this, RedPill reminds me of The Power of Pussy - it's a game; never settle until you have found the game-changer.
    *game-changer = the ultimate SD/lover that you want to keep forever.

    Realization
    In u/sockpuppet's Women are Children post, he states that women behave like children around men by following his lead (taking cues on how to act, which of his rules to follow) and by showing overt emotion (giggling, OMGing, being cutesy, sadface). When my mind puts the reversals in place, the people you manage (SDs, johns on speeddial lol) are, in some ways, stunted emotionally and they need you to help them enjoy themselves OR they follow your cues, knowing what is acceptable with you and eagerly trying to win your favor.

    Yesterday, my SD-bf tried some stupid RedPill shit on me. This hasn't been the first time he's tested me.
    He fucking talked down to me, invalidated my feelings when I wanted to talk about how stressful it was looking after a small child months straight without going outside. Fuck! I just want you to agree and share your feelings, not brush it off and tell me it's not a big deal! Don't actually treat me like a moron, unless I ask you to!
    He fucking puts incriminating shit around the house so I can see and flip out on him for possibly doing things (cheating) behind my back. He's sweet overall, but damn had two times where I nearly left b/c of his habits.
    BTW, he's a lovely, special kind of SD-bf... I wouldn't RedPill him full force, but I'm starting to have to play games with him. I call him SD-bf not only because he gives me whatever I want and I love him, he's also just another SD 'cuz he's starting to act like one.

    After nearly a year of observing him and snooping, I sense he has Capt'n Saveahoe syndrome. He seems to be combining the power of money and RedPilling to get what he wants.
    He likes to help people financially not because it's a good thing to do, he does it to feel good about himself and show people how good of a person he is. He will even help out other rogue women to prove he's a helper... sometimes in turn for sexual favors, online or not. If you look at this Karmatically, most of the time his merits aren't worth it, even for me; he'll save a scheming bitch to "help her get back on her feet" when it's obvious she won't, he'll give me money and say "I need you, I hope you will not leave me. I love helping you and having you around. Don't take advantage of me." Dude. Money....intimacy....mindblowing sex....comfort....your ego being polished. Dude. I love you I like being with both you and your money, but PLEASE do not lump statements like those together.
    We talk and we share our deepest concerns... sometimes it feels like we're missing tiny but imperative pieces of info from each other, leaving holes in whatever idea we have of our relationship.

    After another cringey attempt to RedPill me today, I just had to go back to that subreddit, which I promised myself to never visit ever again, because I sensed he was trying harder to RedPill me overtime. Lo and behold, his moves were categorized, analyzed, exemplified in single posts. After getting over the nausea from looking at it's main page, I chose a post that seem the most interesting and the least disgusting ("How to tease your bitches") and things started clicking in my head. He's starting doing this recently. He did this, that, this, and that..... waitaminute.... this tactic is also in this strippaho book, that other one in the empowering pussy book.... lolwut.

    Going back to when I had a gajillion men's phone numbers on my contact list and I coudn't keep up with all of them, I had to learn how to value my time and grace the hard way. RedPill is a "how to value yourself" for guys, and my idea of a RedPill reversal-swap is a "how to value yourself" to badgirls. If I had valued myself more and managed whomever was seeing me, I probably would have had slightly better numbers in the bank and more quality male friends.

    Have any of you all seen any parallels with sex worker game and RedPill game? I'm fairly young, I was a quiet, geeky child and my parents never taught me any social games, so this is a big mind explosion for me.

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    Default Re: Revelation: Managing SDs, Splendas, Johns... RedPill

    Really, I think it's ridiculous that people have resorted to these stupid mind fuck games and post manuals and how to's on the internet. The other day I read a post on Red pill basically telling men that they should reject, ignore, and play mind games with pretty women to put them in their place. I see guys who play that game because they think that'll get women to want them more. For the women who do not value or respect themselves unfortunately they will fall for the games. Captain Save a Ho syndrome is common among SD's. They more often than not work on a sex for help model and in reality are rarely different than an escorting client.

    Fwiw, I was a quiet, geeky kid, too.

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    Default Re: Revelation: Managing SDs, Splendas, Johns... RedPill

    I'm blue but cannot refrain from commenting. You see a lot of these "red pill" dorks in NYC. In general, real hustlers dissect them like frogs in 5 minutes. Many red pill guys exaggerate wildly, and their followers are people who have issues connecting, and so like addicts chase a life of empty pleasure which is ultimately just as unrewarding as smoking crack or hoarding magazines.

    There is a real value in connecting to people rather than always seeing them as the other. The red pill method is exactly the same in principle as calling enemy soldiers "gooks" or calling sex workers "hookers" or calling a woman a "piece". It allows someone to devalue and dehumanize them.

    We can choose to leave all that aside, and let those people play their games going after scraps like the rats in central park. I won't presume to speak for sex workers or dancers, but I would hope the example of many successful members on this board would let people see there are other ways to go about your life and be happy.
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    Default Re: Revelation: Managing SDs, Splendas, Johns... RedPill

    This has been trendy for decades...it used to be "Macho Man" behavior. Now it's Red Pill.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    The other day I read a post on Red pill basically telling men that they should reject, ignore, and play mind games with pretty women to put them in their place. I see guys who play that game because they think that'll get women to want them more. For the women who do not value or respect themselves unfortunately they will fall for the games.
    EXACTLY.

    And there are just as many dumb guys who will fall for the classic female manipulation as well. That's why we see these stupid fucking books coming out year after year, teaching the dumb fucks how to manipulate each other. The stupid ones tend to breed fast, so there's always a fresh new crop of 'players' of both sexes.

    And I've seen this so many times: the women who claim to be 'playing' the Players, following along with the games in order to somehow beat them in the end or laugh at them, are quite often still getting fucking played. So many of the guys who are actually really good at it, simply don't care what the women think of them, or why they are continuing to trade contrived repartee. They want to monopolize* the woman's time, above all--so playing along in order to have the last laugh is meaningless to these jagoffs.

    Unfortunately, in the setting of stripclubs and singles bars, where the emphasis is on the superficial, the games tend to get hyped to the max.

    And it's pathetic seeing either sex attempting to claim some inherent superiority 'Women/Men are such idiots/fools/worthless' etc., etc., over and over again. Worthless evasion of the real issues, blaming it all on whoever as a group. Best to rise above the petty bullshit.

    *christ I just woke up, and this word was in the back of my mind but stuck. So I did a yahoo search for 'dominate manipulate' and wow try it, just look at the results! Not sure if the same thing happens with google or not, but it wouldn't surprise me.
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