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    Quote Originally Posted by Raziel View Post
    I once knew a girl that was a Dancer (this was a long time ago, I was a kid, well not a Kid Kid, but a Teenager) she was a bit older than me (I don't remember how much). She didn't do anything with Customers, but she liked Nerds. That was her thing. I couldn't figure it out, but she was ALL OVER them. Normally you expect a hot girl to fawn all over some Football player, but she just dropped them all (and sometimes they got pissed about it). Honestly some dude that's gonna peak in College, and then I find him BAGGING MY GROCERIES, he has no place next to a guy that will actually be able to take care of her. She was smart. Nerds are actually better able. They have a future. And understand how lucky they are to have her.

    Now, I'm not harshing on Football players (a lot of these dudes are actually pretty cool) but a lot of these people were someone you might want to have a dalliance with, but not a long term relationship. Most of them are not going anywhere. For many of them, this is the top of their life. It's all downhill from there.
    That girl had it figured out. The best guys come in strange packages...

    Reminds me of that bit in Revenge of the Nerds where the cheerleader asks the lead nerd "How are you so good at sex?" and he goes "All jocks think about is sports, all we think about is sex". I know that movie gets trashed for that scene nowadays, but it's pretty true. Every 'cool' guy I've dated has sucked in the sack. The nerds are FAR superior.

    My ex was exactly what you're talking about, the cool 'preppy' stereotype back in high school. I liked him because he had some cute dorky qualities that he hid from everyone else, but he was majorly preoccupied with being Mr. Popular (Asshole) Football Player. It was all downhill for him after graduation. He tried to continue being cool by selling pot and hanging out with 'actual' drug dealers, which bit him in the ass and landed him a felony charge.
    Now he's 32 & still working a shitty hourly job, renting a room from a friend & driving the same beat up truck. My friends have found him on dating apps, lying about being a doctor or in pilot training Definitely glad I did not hitch my wagon to him when I was still young and optimistic!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    That girl had it figured out. The best guys come in strange packages...

    Reminds me of that bit in Revenge of the Nerds where the cheerleader asks the lead nerd "How are you so good at sex?" and he goes "All jocks think about is sports, all we think about is sex". I know that movie gets trashed for that scene nowadays, but it's pretty true. Every 'cool' guy I've dated has sucked in the sack. The nerds are FAR superior.

    My ex was exactly what you're talking about, the cool 'preppy' stereotype back in high school. I liked him because he had some cute dorky qualities that he hid from everyone else, but he was majorly preoccupied with being Mr. Popular (Asshole) Football Player. It was all downhill for him after graduation. He tried to continue being cool by selling pot and hanging out with 'actual' drug dealers, which bit him in the ass and landed him a felony charge.
    Now he's 32 & still working a shitty hourly job, renting a room from a friend & driving the same beat up truck. My friends have found him on dating apps, lying about being a doctor or in pilot training Definitely glad I did not hitch my wagon to him when I was still young and optimistic!
    Yeah, you need to actually get a fucking Education. Do the shit young people do, that's fine. But it can't be only a party and chasing girls. You have to actually get your nose on that Grindstone. Make something of yourself. But the problem is (and forgive me for this) pussy is all they care about. And that ruins their lives.

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    I've been to this question before. Based on a current relationship I have... Everybody has work they want or have to do. I'm thinking that a marriage especially must be based on trust and helping the partner be the best they can be, making the partner's happiness a high priority. Given that, maybe every marriage would have better chance of success, including any kinds of 'sex' workers.

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    Really it just depends. I mean, is she marriage material? Is she faithful? I mean, you're not marrying a Stripper or Porn Star or whatever. You're marrying a Woman. Because that's what she is. You have to think about it that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    That girl had it figured out. The best guys come in strange packages...

    Reminds me of that bit in Revenge of the Nerds where the cheerleader asks the lead nerd "How are you so good at sex?" and he goes "All jocks think about is sports, all we think about is sex". I know that movie gets trashed for that scene nowadays, but it's pretty true. Every 'cool' guy I've dated has sucked in the sack. The nerds are FAR superior.
    I think that's because jocks are used to being there. Nerds are just happy to be invited lol. They may not have the looks to fall back on so they have to make up for it with their "work ethic."

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    Definitely just depends on the actual person if you love someone enough you should be able to look past it. Not sure if I would marry a politician though.

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    I wouldn't touch a politician with a ten foot pole!
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    I don't think jocks vs nerds is a fair comparison, I have seen plenty of nerds that only care about hacking machines and not the human body. But to be fair they are not interested in a relationship in the first place.

    As for the topic at hand the issue would be hacking relationships, from my observation is two-fold problem

    A) societal stigma
    B) Insecurity born from jealousy.

    If the man is part of conservative social circles the first is probably an insurmountable problem, so I would definitely 100% avoid anybody that belongs to a sex negative culture.

    While insecurity is a personality attribute so probing for this is important.

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    Didn't read the whole thread. No I would not consider marrying somebody in the adult industry.

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    I like to think Im secure enough to handle a marriage with a sex industry worker.

    In my view, if I fall for someone, their line of work isnt going to change my feelings.

    That being said, theory and practice can be different.

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    That being said, theory and practice can be different.
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    I agree. I think thats when it can become difficult for many partners (of sex industry workers).

    Trust is key. Its either there and very strong - or its going to be very difficult.

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    I definitely would be comfortable with that, and yet I don't know how many Adult industry females would be into Marriage, or even a sustainable relationship with a Man who would be supportive and enthusiastic about her success.

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    I think it depends how you love a person without looking at their past, without judgement at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by peculiarprofessionalellow View Post
    I definitely would be comfortable with that, and yet I don't know how many Adult industry females would be into Marriage, or even a sustainable relationship with a Man who would be supportive and enthusiastic about her success.
    Why would someone in the adult industry be less into marriage or a long term relationship than anyone else? Especially if according to you the partner was supportive?
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    I definitely would be comfortable with that, and yet I don't know how many Adult industry females would be into Marriage, or even a sustainable relationship with a Man who would be supportive and enthusiastic about her success.
    That makes zero sense. wtf.


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    I would expect an adult worker to experience more bouts of jealousy, and drama from a partner, and be more avoidant to seek long term relationships. Not that I assume they are less likely to want them. I don't know, obviously if anyone read that I was implying otherwise it was a miscommunication.
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    I would expect an adult worker to experience more bouts of jealousy, and drama from a partner, and be more avoidant to seek long term relationships. Not that I assume they are less likely to want them. I don't know, obviously if anyone read that I was implying otherwise it was a miscommunication.
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    Quote Originally Posted by peculiarprofessionalellow View Post
    I would expect an adult worker to experience more bouts of jealousy, and drama from a partner, and be more avoidant to seek long term relationships. Not that I assume they are less likely to want them. I don't know, obviously if anyone read that I was implying otherwise it was a miscommunication.
    But if the person was supportive like you said, there's no reason to be avoidant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by naomi_doll View Post
    But if the person was supportive like you said, there's no reason to be avoidant.

    Oh, and if you reply with the "reply with quote" button on my post, it replies to me.
    Thanks.

    How does finding,or meeting that supportive s/o when not already in a relationship with a supportive and understanding Gentleman look? Like through chance encounter via learning about some like minded passion, let say an Astrology forum for example astro-seek.com do you, as an adult worker take a chance and reach out, or perhaps you are waiting to be approached until the attraction begins? How many Adult industry females are single and hoping for romance?

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    Quote Originally Posted by peculiarprofessionalellow View Post
    Thanks.

    How does finding,or meeting that supportive s/o when not already in a relationship with a supportive and understanding Gentleman look? Like through chance encounter via learning about some like minded passion, let say an Astrology forum for example astro-seek.com do you, as an adult worker take a chance and reach out, or perhaps you are waiting to be approached until the attraction begins? How many Adult industry females are single and hoping for romance?
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    Quote Originally Posted by peculiarprofessionalellow View Post
    Thanks.

    How does finding,or meeting that supportive s/o when not already in a relationship with a supportive and understanding Gentleman look? Like through chance encounter via learning about some like minded passion, let say an Astrology forum for example astro-seek.com do you, as an adult worker take a chance and reach out, or perhaps you are waiting to be approached until the attraction begins? How many Adult industry females are single and hoping for romance?
    Your questions make no sense. It's no different than any other group of people. It's a job and has nothing to do with how we might meet someone.


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    My view is very simple. We dont control who we fall for. We have some control with where we choose to go - to meet people. Its a very simple thing - and it must happen organically - to work. Thats the easy part - falling for someone.

    The tricky part happens when you begin to learn more about that person - as we all make judgements in our minds. It can be a challenge when you are falling for someone - to accept them as they are today. To put judgements aside and open both your mind and heart to that person.

    A sex worker, a fry cook, a banker, an electrician - hearing those occupations can create judgements about the person who performs those jobs. Those assumptions are important to put aside, so you can get to know the person (and not the persona).

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    LMAO Men are worried about if we will cheat.. while we are worried about them beating and killing us. We worry about mental, physical, sexual & financial abuse. Which we have seen so many women in this biz reach out on this site to escape those nightmares.

    I am not worried about whether or not a man wants to marry me, more like why would I ever want them!!!! Do men have any redeemable qualities? Can any of you hold down a good job? Can any of you weather an economic downturn without getting all depressed and becoming totally useless? Can any of ya'll manage not to hit & murder women? Not go on murdering rampages when a woman leaves you? How about just handle rejection in a normal way without name calling or getting violent? Can any of you manage to keep your underwear from having brown streaks in them? Or do your own laundy? Cook a meal?

    So worried about our history, when men's history of mistreating & abusing women for centuries. Treating us like we are chattle and thinking our sexual history or jobs in this industry like a negative makes any of you desirable is laughable.

    Ya'll act like you are in control and determine who is marriage material and who isn't. Which is laughable since women(from all backgrounds) with any kind of financial freedom are choosing NOT to marry and are happier for it.
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