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    Mind Blowing Facial features deflating!!! HELP

    OMG you guys I am only 35, wtf??

    My cheeks have become so flat and deflated. I look gaunt. I have been working out a ton at my pole classes so though I haven't "lost weight" I have definitey been changing fat to muscle.

    I thought maybe I lost too much fat so I have been eating like a little piggy and managed to gain 3 lbs but my cheeks still look deflated. I feel like it makes me look OLD and frail. I am much too young for this!!! I'm not ready!!!

    I don't smoke ever. I drink very moderately, maybe a glass of wine at dinner a few days a week. I have always been quite slender and have a hard time keeping a healthy weight, and already have a bit of a narrow face with those white girl small cheekbones... but at least I had cheeks!

    Fuck. I never considered facial injections, fillers, or plastic surgery but now I am.

    I am going to keep trying to eat more but honestly it seems to be all landing in my waist and abdomen.

    Thoughts? Ideas? Supplements? Isn't 35 too young for this, or is this when it all goes to shit??

    Thank you!!

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    Default Re: Facial features deflating!!! HELP

    Are you getting sick? I had a major bout with (hereditary) illness in my mid twenties- my muscle wasted away rapidly & I put on a lot of bloat weight. I looked visibly .....sick. If I had quit eating I would have looked gaunt.

    Beef up your diet & lay off the cardio? You might be better off getting a checkup. Peace of mind.
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    Default Re: Facial features deflating!!! HELP

    Get pregnant and eat more (steak and potatoes) lol

    just kidding .......

    well on the pregnancy bit

    Maybe take some collagen pills, stay hydrated, get facial massages, hyaluronic acid, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    Are you getting sick? I had a major bout with (hereditary) illness in my mid twenties- my muscle wasted away rapidly & I put on a lot of bloat weight. I looked visibly .....sick. If I had quit eating I would have looked gaunt.

    Beef up your diet & lay off the cardio? You might be better off getting a checkup. Peace of mind.
    Hi! Nope not getting sick, super healthy and strong lately. Been taking two 2-hour pole classes per week and it's kicking my ass in a good way... except the losing my curves thing!!

    I probably do need to improve my hydration a bit and I like the collagen and hyaluronic acid pills idea. Facial massages I am feeling too broke for at the moment but I suppose I could rub my own face

    I am eating so much it's almost making me sick, and I still haven't put on any weight. I thought I had but it was PMS bloating, it's gone now. It must be connective tissue in my face. I'm getting oooooold

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    I also have a gaunt face naturally, super skinny, And lately it’s been getting worse after a bad yo-yo weight gain and loss thanks to these shitty meds I was on.

    Stay at a healthy weight, don’t try and gain a bunch thinking it’ll primarily go to your face cause that’s usually the last place to gain/first place to lose. It’ll show in your body before your face probably. I mean don’t get TOO skinny either tho.

    Sorry to say fillers are the answer ..maybe fat transfer.
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    Also google makeup tricks to make your face look fuller. Basically backwards of the usual sharpening your features via contouring.

    Facial massages are a great idea, also work on geneally reducing your stress levels, you may be pulling your face tighter as a response and not realizing it.

    Keep your skin well moisturized and make sure you're consuming good healthy fats. Not witj the intent to gain fat but to make sure your skin is getting what it needs.

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    I don’t like to give advice usually, but I think you would love sculptra. Stay away from bellafill or at least learn the risks before using it. Sculptra does have risks, but I’ve been using it since I was 27 and it’s amazing. Instead of just being a filler it actually makes your face produce it’s own collagen.

    That’s the only thing that truly works, as far as I know.

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    Ive had deflated cheeks since I was 27/28 which unless you have amazing cheek genes is usually when you begin to lose facial fat. Get filler to replace some of the loss. Do not overfill just replace. Realself is a good site for filler reviews
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ifyouseekamy View Post
    I don’t like to give advice usually, but I think you would love sculptra. Stay away from bellafill or at least learn the risks before using it. Sculptra does have risks, but I’ve been using it since I was 27 and it’s amazing. Instead of just being a filler it actually makes your face produce it’s own collagen.

    That’s the only thing that truly works, as far as I know.
    What's the price range? I heard it lasts 2 years, or at least twice as long as juvaderm. I'm really interested in investing in some, I think it would make a huge difference but I wasn't impressed with juvaderm
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    Thanks all!! Definitely been reseasrching Sculptra; that or fat transfer seems ideal if I am gonna go that route. I always thought i was too much of a hippie to go for injections etc but I guess you never really know until it starts happening to YOU and you start feeling like a wilting flower hahaha. Oh man... I will keep up with eating healthy fats but I'm just gonna embrace my slender frame and start looking at awesome Portland plastic surgeons. Blaaaa aging sucks.

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    Fillers, laser light therapies help. Eat more fat in your diet.
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    Drink more water. Water hydrates the body and plumps us up. Also, perhaps add a little more sodium to your diet, healthy sodium, like Himalayan pink sea salt, and this will also help your body to hold good healthy water and minerals, making your skin look fantastic with those extra nutrients. Your skin, your hair, and your nails will all benefit from the minerals in the Himalayan salt. Be careful on eating more as you had mentioned that it goes to your abdomen, which is what begins to happen as we start to get a little bit older and our hormones begin to change. As the changes begin, that is exactly where the fat begins to go, right to that abdomen, where generally we do not want it. Notice how postmenopausal women tend to be thicker in the abdomen. Our body composition begins to change as we begin to age.
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    ooh that's a tough one. cheek fillers can be scary and look very obviously fake, especially since you say you don't really have any cheeks to cover the filler. I had Voluma done a few years ago, the doctor basically talked me into it. Cost me $2000 and I can't say that I even really saw a change.. I would say do very good research on the doctor if you get it done, cause obvious fillers are the worst and make you look even older.

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