Last weekend I went to a club in a city a few hours from me. I met a beautiful dancer there and felt an instant connection. It was a slow night, and we ended up just sitting together for 20 minutes or so before she even mentioned a dance. We shared several that night, and even more the next before I had to leave town. In total, I gladly gave her $500 over the course of the weekend. As I left, she gave me her info and told me to come back soon.
I'm married with a son, and since my son was born, my wife has been unable to provide any semblance of intimacy. It's not that we don't love eachother, she is just, as she puts it, asexual now. She's been telling me to find someone to spend my time with, and after I told her about the woman I met at the club, she's constantly telling me I need to get back there. The intimacy of just sitting there and holding her while we watched the other dancers, the whispered conversations, every bit of our time together was exactly what I've been missing in my life. It was a fantasy, but this woman sculpted it to perfection for me.
I'm planning to head out again on my Birthday. My wife insists that I go and have a good time, considering this is the first time my birthday has fallen on a weekend that I've been around in a very long time (since I was in high school). I'm limiting myself to $1000 for the weekend, and a friend is letting me crash at her place to save money. Now, to the root of my question:
I want to spend as much time as possible with the woman I met, but I also understand she has a job to do. Of course, I'll pay for her attention, that's not a problem, but I'm curious how much would be too much. I don't want her to lose business from folks that might be able to visit more frequently than me just because I've got the cash to keep her occupied. If you were in her shoes, what would you prefer?



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