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    Default How big of a deal is it to you if your real name got out?

    Whether from social media or loud mouths, how would you feel about everyone knowing your government name? For me I have a pretty generic “John Smith” name and tbh this wouldn’t be the end of the world for me. But a lot of sex workers are very closed off about their personal info. What do you think?

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    Default Re: How big of a deal is it to you if your real name got out?

    I wouldn't be thrilled.

    If this is important to you I recommend not friending ANYONE from SW on your social media accounts that use your real name. Even a fake name will probably reveal more than you would want someone to kow.
    I have had a customer find me this way on FB because we had mutual friends.

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    Default Re: How big of a deal is it to you if your real name got out?

    It makes it much easier for stalkers to find you.

    Used to be on a BBW forum for years. A new bbw shows up on the it,she gets hired to do a movie with me & another well know BBW. She post the time & date of the shooting first day, now the address for that company was on every DVD, in every magazine. I threw a fit over it.

    She didn't see the big deal, the fans loved us and they all could be trusted. She got dropped from that shoot. She held a grudge against me, stated how I over reacted. She often met with members of that site, told them her real name.

    Two years later she quit the biz & was extremely upset. One of those dear lovely trust worthy fans mailed her porn to her house, neighbors, parents & younger brother's high school. She lost her day job.

    As someone who has dealt with many stalkers, including one who would knock on my bedroom windows at 3 AM, pound on my back door. It can be extremely dangerous. Performers houses have been broken into & they were brutally raped, kidnapped & rape and worse.

    If you think that it is no big deal, I can tell you it can only take one stalker to change your mind. My stalker put me deeply into debt.

    Your personal information is sacred & do NOT trust men who insist you can trust them & need to know it.
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    Default Re: How big of a deal is it to you if your real name got out?

    Do you know how much a personal body guard cost a week?

    New security systems?

    Having to move for safety reason?

    Major health problems from stress a stalker who is obsessed with you can cause.
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    Default Re: How big of a deal is it to you if your real name got out?

    Yes. I agree with Sam. I also had a stalker and he figured out where I lived very quickly.

    It’s not the end of the world most of the time if people find out your real name but you can’t have everyone under the sun knowing it because all it takes is a minor slip up or one obsessed person.
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    Default Re: How big of a deal is it to you if your real name got out?

    I get annoyed if someone uses my real first name (a few DJs and managers have done this in the past), mostly because when I'm at work I'm answering to my stage name and hearing my real name jars me out of that world.

    I would be pretty pissed if my entire name got out ITC because there's no reason for it. Now, it's not like anyone could do much with it - I don't talk to hardly any girls except a few long-timers about my real life & my social media is all under a different name & I've gone through all the online databases and had them remove my address and phone number.
    But I would be peeved at the club for allowing it to happen.
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    True story...this disgusting crackhead bitch at work found out my name & tried telling everyone. No one cared because she was so ratchet/ crazy that they weren't sure she was truthful.

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    Default Re: How big of a deal is it to you if your real name got out?

    I would have a big problem with my name getting out. Yes, I dance at a club that is in my home city but Dallas is pretty big. I usually give out my Snapchat so I can establish regulars but you already know what my face looks like and this Snapchat was created just for work. My parents don't know I dance nor do any friends except one. I try to get my dancer persona as separate from my real life as possible. I have a totally different personality ITC than OTC.

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