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    So the big $$$ is obviously in selling VIP rooms, but how do you deal with the threat of rape? I'm assuming there wouldn't be a bouncer in the room.

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    Default Re: Scared of rape in VIP room?

    use the search bar. read some threads. don't ask about such sensitive topics without any posts because they will not be received well as we get a lot of trolls and all you've asked about so far is "OTC" and rape.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sweet_Kimberly View Post
    So the big $$$ is obviously in selling VIP rooms, but how do you deal with the threat of rape? I'm assuming there wouldn't be a bouncer in the room.
    You are asking a smart question...It really is the million dollar question....We can't tell who is a rapist.All I can tell you is this...use your intuition and your common sense.If someone looks creepy then decline going to the room with him no matter the amount of money he offers.Be clear on what you can offer and what the other person wants for example.IS HE EXCPECTING to have sex with you or just have a good time?you gotta know how to ask the right questions.Good luck.

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    Default Re: Scared of rape in VIP room?

    You should work at a club where you safe from the threat of being raped. You could also bring another girl along to your room or ask a bouncer to check in on your room every so often. It's not something I am really ever worried about.

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    Default Re: Scared of rape in VIP room?

    Attacking a girl in a vip room would be pretty brazen. It's not like you're locked in a room with a guy for an hour. Obviously if you were gtfo of that club.

    But most places there's gonna be some combination of vip hosts/bouncers doing checks, cameras, one way glass/see through curtains, a "panic button", waitresses popping in to check if you need more drinks/champagne, etc.

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    In another post did I not read that you have never stripped before?

    Why would you choose a job where you assume you will be raped there?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    In another post did I not read that you have never stripped before?

    Why would you choose a job where you assume you will be raped there?
    good point.There are many jobs out there that might be suitable for you.I suggest looking into that....No point in risking your physical and mental well being.

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    I just read your posts.Are you bored?...how did you in one day manage to want to be a stripper?become a stripper and want to sell a vip room but you are afraid of getting raped?...What?get a life

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    ^ Excuse me, aren't YOU brand new yourself? The kind of brand new that also asked a lot of semi-absurd questions?

    So you've been dancing 2 months (and probably gleaning most of your 'knowledge' from this board) and now you're not only dispensing advice, but telling even newer girls to 'get a life'... Right.
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    OP, I have never once been afraid of being raped. Any club worth a damn has either cameras or beaded/sheer type of curtains that can be seen through. State law here is that managers have to be able to see inside all areas, either via direct sight or a camera. If you screamed, SOMEONE would hear it.

    There are really not that many customers that are truly scary. Lots of weirdos, lots of awkward guys, some very pushy and handsy ones, but in 5+ years I can't remember ever thinking someone might try to rape me.
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    You ll be fine if you pick a club with cameras in the room, and try to ask questions when you audition of what they do there to protect their girls. It’s usually easy to spot a shady manager. Or try a club with no rooms everything is in the open. There was one club I worked at where girl was raped but there were no cameras in the room and closed curtains, now I wouldn’t risk working in a place like that.
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    Any reputable club is going to have cameras in each dance area, plenty of bouncers, and a roaming manager. I’ve never seen a VIP room with a closed door, and bouncers and waitresses will check on you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    ^ Excuse me, aren't YOU brand new yourself? The kind of brand new that also asked a lot of semi-absurd questions?

    So you've been dancing 2 months (and probably gleaning most of your 'knowledge' from this board) and now you're not only dispensing advice, but telling even newer girls to 'get a life'... Right.
    Thank you. I'm new to this board, and have heard prior to joining that there is quite a bit of unnecessary bullying that goes on here and that was a good example, sadly. :-(
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    Default Re: Scared of rape in VIP room?

    I would not work somewhere that could happen. Cameras are a must! It has happened where a man tried to force himself on a friend, thank god it was an open room.

    I’m not afraid to kick a guy in his balls. One time this guy pulled his dick out and I grabbed it and twisted it as hard as I could!!! He had it out and covered it with his shirt-sicko and then I punched him in the face. I’m not afraid to beat the shit out a guy the first time he tests me!

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    I always KNOW! You just know which guys is gonna be a problem. If you get a funny feeling don’t!!! I don’t care how much money it is just walk away! It’s not worth it!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Anyaoscar123 View Post
    I just read your posts.Are you bored?...how did you in one day manage to want to be a stripper?become a stripper and want to sell a vip room but you are afraid of getting raped?...What?get a life
    What crawled up your butt and died? Relax lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    ^ Excuse me, aren't YOU brand new yourself? The kind of brand new that also asked a lot of semi-absurd questions?

    So you've been dancing 2 months (and probably gleaning most of your 'knowledge' from this board) and now you're not only dispensing advice, but telling even newer girls to 'get a life'... Right.
    Selina get your facts straight before making you assumption.I have been a dancer since 2012 on and off but started dancing after 2 years about 5 months ago.Yes I had a problem with my previous ghetto club before but now that I am in high end club and girls are a bit more classy I don't have that problem anymore.So before you go on with your big mouth because that's what you do best do some research ,gather evidence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IvoryDoll View Post
    What crawled up your butt and died? Relax lol
    Lol I had to.she said she didn't dance and that she has problems with customers so it's obviously a lie

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    And by the way Selina.Yes i am giving advice and will keep giving advice.Just because I was struggling on one aspect doesn't mean that I don't have knowledge in another aspect.Beside the fact that I had problems with some girls at the ex ghetto club I worked at I am a pretty high earner on most days.I read a posts of yours where you constantly complain and look for validation but when someone doesn't agree with you, you snap like a child.Real Mature!!!!!

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    ^ Hahaha I know you're banned but I'm sure you'll come back to read... "off and on" means nothing, you could have popped into a club and attempted to work for 3 days, then claimed you've technically been dancing since then. Judging by the questions you ask and constant need for reassurance, there is no way in hell you were a successful dancer. If you can't handle my 'big mouth' and 'criticism' there is also NO WAY you can handle a club.

    I don't believe for one second you are a high earner.

    Btw, this board is partially FOR complaining. Just because someone is complaining doesn't mean they're looking for validation. I don't know where in the world you got that. With my 'big mouth' I am the last person that gives a fuck about other people 'validating' my opinions

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    Quote Originally Posted by BondGirl007 View Post
    Thank you. I'm new to this board, and have heard prior to joining that there is quite a bit of unnecessary bullying that goes on here and that was a good example, sadly. :-(
    I wouldn't say it's 'bullying' that goes on here. We are strippers/cam girls/escorts and as such are often really blunt and don't have much patience. There's several members - myself, Sam, Tempest, Gia to some degree - that definitely do not sugar coat anything. That's just how we are, don't take it personally! The other girls are usually politer but still not willing to entertain dumb stuff.

    There's newbies that get along just fine & stay for years because they don't ask a bazillion asinine questions or need their hand held. Then there's newbies like our banned friend up there who piss off the whole board for a month, then cop an attitude because people are tired of it.
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    i wasn't trying to be a dick, i just get on the defense when total strangers want to get into the topic of rape and assault in VIP because a lot of weirdos out there get off on it. since i started camming i noticed it a lot bc people are more bold and sneaky on the internet. in the club they usually just ask something like "so what's the most fucked up thing that happens in vip? do creepy guys try to rape you? does the bouncer go back there?. yaaah people really ask that shit sometimes ew

    but if op is genuinely concerned i'd say again to read through the forums on security and safety precautions. since they were using certain terms it sounded like they have either been on here or tuscl for a bit, but either way. i feel like the threat of full-on rape isn't any worse than a girl going out to a nightclub in a revealing outfit. usually it's safer because security is nearby. assault (rough grabbing, slapping, biting) is the main thing we deal with and it varies by club

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    Quote Originally Posted by Selina M View Post
    I wouldn't say it's 'bullying' that goes on here. We are strippers/cam girls/escorts and as such are often really blunt and don't have much patience. There's several members - myself, Sam, Tempest, Gia to some degree - that definitely do not sugar coat anything. That's just how we are, don't take it personally! The other girls are usually politer but still not willing to entertain dumb stuff.

    There's newbies that get along just fine & stay for years because they don't ask a bazillion asinine questions or need their hand held. Then there's newbies like our banned friend up there who piss off the whole board for a month, then cop an attitude because people are tired of it.
    Understood. The info garnered on this site, it's invaluable, and I imagine a vast number of lurkers reading this posting's thread will now know how to stay safe in the rooms. Thanks to all of you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    i wasn't trying to be a dick, i just get on the defense when total strangers want to get into the topic of rape and assault in VIP because a lot of weirdos out there get off on it. since i started camming i noticed it a lot bc people are more bold and sneaky on the internet. in the club they usually just ask something like "so what's the most fucked up thing that happens in vip? do creepy guys try to rape you? does the bouncer go back there?. yaaah people really ask that shit sometimes ew

    but if op is genuinely concerned i'd say again to read through the forums on security and safety precautions. since they were using certain terms it sounded like they have either been on here or tuscl for a bit, but either way. i feel like the threat of full-on rape isn't any worse than a girl going out to a nightclub in a revealing outfit. usually it's safer because security is nearby. assault (rough grabbing, slapping, biting) is the main thing we deal with and it varies by club
    Understood. Yeah, that makes sense about the freaks getting off on posting/reading comments to an important question such as posted, and that's some of the dark side to the human condition. :-(
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    Oh wow, what a thread!

    Just wanted to add my advice for any other baby strippers reading this that might be scared of the VIP since it really does have a lore around it - when I was a baby stripper I was SO nervous about what went on up there, and some dickhead customer who knew it would scare me told me if I went to the VIP room I would HAVE to have sex. Even though I was terrified, I did two VIPs that night - in the first, we sat and talked about cities in Japan we wanted to visit for the whole hour. In the second, the guy was basically drunk and wanted me to lip sync the words to Gotye's "Somebody that I used to know" while he made it rain 20s on me. There was not even a mention of sex.

    In terms of the safety aspect, most clubs should have thought of this. If you work in a club and you feel they are genuinely not concerned about your safety, you should switch clubs if possible. In this first club they had 1)Sheer curtains that you could see through the other rooms to 2) a VIP hostess that would come in every so often to top up drinks etc 3) a bartender that would pop his head in the door at least once per VIP session and verbally confirm that you were ok 4) a bouncer that would walk through the halls between the VIP rooms, peeking through the curtains. Plus, as a rule, if a client were to buy a VIP room session, he had to give his credit card to the bouncer until he was done. So if someone tried anything, their card was on file.

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