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    ^ I'm trying to figure you out. You seem to enjoy the sexual frustration or the tease of being very close to a woman that you are very attracted to, but, that rejects you sexually. It seems like you have some kind of tease or humiliation fetish, or maybe, femworship fetish. Have you ever tried a dominatrix?

    How about a story of a stripper-dominatrix?
    No interest in being dominated, in fact I'm the Dominant personality in the D/s relationships I've had. I just have different views on what that means.

    I'm happy when the woman is happy. Break down a D/s relationship or other power play, and you often find the true power lies in an unexpected spot. Who sets limits? Who has the safeword to stop all play? Who gets teased and tortured to orgasm after orgasm? It's the sub. As a Dom, I believe my responsibility is to help a sub enjoy themselves through sexual exploration to the maximum possible extent.

    Take the analogy to a club with a dancer. I do myself up to be the best possible me when I go there. Dress well, smell nice, always chewing gum, and a big tipper. I get it, it's a fantasy and most women don't want to be with me but for my money.

    Ideally though, I want to find some way to make our mutual experience as enjoyable as possible for the dancer, because her enjoyment, her happiness, makes me feel better and helps me have fun.

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    ^ All that is good and fine, but, if you were my bud, I would take you to Costa Rica, and for the same $2,000 you spent on mere lap dances, you would have 2 or 3 gorgeous Latina ladies cuddling with you in bed, giving you all the emotional nurturing you need, saying sweet little things to you in Spanish, and then, giving you such a good rough screw between them that you would not walk straight for two weeks... Just saying.
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    ^ All that is good and fine, but, if you were my bud, I would take you to Costa Rica, and for the same $2,000 you spent on mere lap dances, you would have 2 or 3 gorgeous Latina ladies cuddling with you in bed, giving you all the emotional nurturing you need, saying sweet little things to you in Spanish, and then, giving you such a good rough screw between them that you would not walk straight for two weeks... Just saying.
    Well, I don't have friends like that, nor do I have the resources/time lol.

    I don't mind giving my money to dancers. I hope it's going to a good cause and not to drugs or some lame boyfriend who does Jack and shit all day.

    In the end, it's worth it to me, and I don't mind spending big because it's fun to be "popular" for a weekend, even if it's all a sham.

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    ^ All that is good and fine, but, if you were my bud, I would take you to Costa Rica, and for the same $2,000 you spent on mere lap dances, you would have 2 or 3 gorgeous Latina ladies cuddling with you in bed, giving you all the emotional nurturing you need, saying sweet little things to you in Spanish, and then, giving you such a good rough screw between them that you would not walk straight for two weeks... Just saying.
    Sure, he can go to countries or towns within America where that kind of thing is legal, but he doesn't like it. There is nothing wrong with him. Just because you don't spend decently at clubs doesn't mean there is something wrong or amiss with those who do. He seems like a sweetheart who has the means to show that he enjoys this woman's work. Good on him.

    I can spend a few grand getting the best tickets to the Superbowl, or I can just gather together some friends and play football at the park (and fuck some of them, too!) - just not the same experience.

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    Of course you are right, PinkPopcorn... Nothing wrong with Titus, he seems like a cool dude, and I won't put him down for blowing 1 grand a week in the club... Maybe he earns more than $20,000/month and spending $1,000 a week is less than 20% of his monthly income... and maybe, he doesn't need to save that money for his retirement.

    The benefit of 'sex touring' in Costa Rica or Amsterdam, etc., is that, you've got other great sights to see while you're there. Nice jungles and beaches in Costa Rica, and beautiful canals, shops, and museums in Amsterdam, etc. But, blowing several grand in a local club,... there are no interesting sights to see afterwards, at least none that you haven't seen a million times already.

    Are you saying that spending less than one grand per week at a club is being cheap? I usually only buy 3 to 4 dances. I don't go there looking for a long extended date or a happy ending. All I need is about 1 hour total: half an hour to watch the stage dances (yes, I do tip stage dancers) and the other half hour with my favorite dancer to enjoy a few erotic lap dances. But, I don't see the point in more than four dances. Thirty minutes is enough of a tease and it is enough to create a nice erotic memory to store for later.

    My concern for my new bud Titus is that he not spend irresponsibly, become too emotionally attached or become a strip club addict. He is a newbie (refer to title of this thread). If he can navigate around those pitfalls and have a great time, more power to him.
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    Not sure where you got 1K per week. I've been to a club twice now, over the course of two months. So, if we're averaging, it's 1k per month.

    If we want to get into investments, I'm maxing two Roth IRAs and have 700 a month going into various insurance policies. Currently sitting at $60K in investment assets saved up since I was 22.

    Current plan is to spend about $1500 each weekend I go to the club. I'm a bit of a stat junkie, so I've planned out what that gets me (exactly what I'm looking for). My tax refund is about $6500, so without touching any savings, I've funded about 4 months of clubbing before I even have to look at moving anything around.

    Money's good for me. My family wants for nothing, and hey, if I really get strapped for cash, my comic collection is valued at about $150K.

    I appreciate you looking out for me Jack, but I'll be alright.

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    ^ Glad to hear, Titus. Enjoy.
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    I loved your story. It is fantastic to hear about men having positive experiences that extend beyond their sexual fantasies. I'm glad you found a friend. I wish I had people like you come to my club. Wanna visit Dallas?

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    I loved your story. It is fantastic to hear about men having positive experiences that extend beyond their sexual fantasies. I'm glad you found a friend. I wish I had people like you come to my club. Wanna visit Dallas?
    Funny you mention that! I'm working on a DFW vacation sometime in the next few months. Came through there on new years and want to actually visit for real.

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    So, I've been talking to the woman in my story quite a bit lately. We've made plans this weekend to have a nice dinner date, followed by drinks and brunch the next morning. She seems pretty excited and is going all out on the prep. Hair, nails, makeover, etc lol. She says she doesn't date much, and that she can't wait for the weekend.

    She doesn't know the whole plan yet, but I'm going to take her to a few shopping centers, offer to get her whatever she wants, then off to a barcade for drinks, a short walk to a nice restaurant for dinner, followed by more drinks and music. I've offered to drive her home for the night, or she can crash in my hotel room (no expectations, just offering a room), and then in the morning, I found a place with bottomless mimosas for Sunday brunch.

    I haven't been on a date in ages, and I can't wait for this one. It'll be great to see her again, and even better to get to know her a bit.

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    Update, and probably last one about her. She's amazing. We spent the last 36 hours together, and are meeting up one last time tomorrow so she can pay me back for something I loaned her.

    Who knew my first time in a gentlemans club would result in a real relationship with a beautiful woman. Thanks all, as always, for listening.

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