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    Default How much lap dance feedback do you want?

    How much feedback do you want as a dancer?

    Would you rather have a hint of what a customer wants in a dance up front? Or would you rather try your normal routine first?
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    Default Re: How much lap dance feedback do you want?

    Hey if you know what you want and it's appropriate for a lapdance, you could let me know and I wouldn't be offended. Better to know what you like so I could work to that angle.

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    Default Re: How much lap dance feedback do you want?

    some basic preferences probably would be okay but acting like a controlling drill sergeant is not okay.

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    Default Re: How much lap dance feedback do you want?

    Constructive criticism is always welcome for me personally. Constructive being the key word though. If it’s not something I can fix easily/quickly then I don’t want to hear it. Like if you don’t like my outfit or certain dance move then by all means tell me, I appreciate it because I want to please my customers. But if you don’t like something about a dancers body part or tattoo or hair color then for the love of god keep that shit to yourself and go talk to a different dancer. You’d be surprised how many dudes like to offer their unsolicited negative opinions on those kinds of things

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    Default Re: How much lap dance feedback do you want?

    Had a dancer once kinda jump sideways onto my lap at the end of the dance and her hip hit a relatively tender area. I politely asked her not to do that again. She was both mortified and amused and so was I. She said she doesn't normally do that but it was a spur of the moment thing, I suggested she continue with not jumping into a lap.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Girl Anachronism View Post
    Constructive criticism is always welcome for me personally. Constructive being the key word though. If it’s not something I can fix easily/quickly then I don’t want to hear it. Like if you don’t like my outfit or certain dance move then by all means tell me, I appreciate it because I want to please my customers. But if you don’t like something about a dancers body part or tattoo or hair color then for the love of god keep that shit to yourself and go talk to a different dancer. You’d be surprised how many dudes like to offer their unsolicited negative opinions on those kinds of things
    I had a dancer say something like this to me recently (in response to my compliment about her tattoo). That some guys say they don't like tattoos or didn't like hers.
    In my wildest imagination I cannot fathom why any a-hole would be critical or negative about a dancer's face, hair, body, etc. Like, you agreed to the dance, dude. If you didn't like it, you could have passed. WTF???

    Granted, nobody is perfect, but so what? You have a beautiful woman in your lap! Think happy thoughts!

    A particular move or touch, that's certainly fair to comment on - but I'm still polite about it.
    Apparently some jerks forget that there's an actual person inside the lingerie.

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    Default Re: How much lap dance feedback do you want?

    If there's a particular body part you'd like more focus on or a favorite move please tell me. So often a guy will buy like, a 15 min VIP and at the end or with 2 mins left he'll be like "so i'm really into *x body part*" and you're like "Why now? why not mention this BEFORE the dance starts?"

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    Default Re: How much lap dance feedback do you want?

    I have a standard dance that I use during privates. I do like to ask the customer if he likes boobs butts or kitty the most and try to show him the most of what he likes during the dance. Obviously if it's a multiple song dance or a VIP that gives me more options for what to do. The standard air dance or butt grind for 15 minutes.

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    If there's a possibility you might buy more dances I totally want some feedback so I can make that dance a great one for you and have you wanting me again for future dances. If you're cheap or broke and set on only getting one dance or you don't plan on coming back to my club often or ever and there's no more earning potential don't bother telling me cuz I already got my money and I don't care I always try to be accomodating since i have no way of knowing if someone is gonna spend more or not but i'm just saying, since you asked lol.

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    Default Re: How much lap dance feedback do you want?

    Quote Originally Posted by Daniellaa View Post
    If there's a possibility you might buy more dances I totally want some feedback so I can make that dance a great one for you and have you wanting me again for future dances. If you're cheap or broke and set on only getting one dance or you don't plan on coming back to my club often or ever and there's no more earning potential don't bother telling me cuz I already got my money and I don't care I always try to be accomodating since i have no way of knowing if someone is gonna spend more or not but i'm just saying, since you asked lol.
    Very much this!

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