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    I'm looking for some help on ways in improving my hustle and being more appealing. I took a break from dancing for a few years, and being that I was never the best at hustling, I'm definitely on the rusty side.

    I've noticed that a good number of dancers are fully comfortable playing up their appearance, which I wish I was better at, but I'd love to get some tips on how I can approve. Being an Asian girl, I've had a few customers that felt I was their type, but it was usually something that they were pretty open with. I'm looking for a way to open with guys who are a bit shy and that I can hustle by playing up my appearance more. It's not something I'm comfortable with outside of work, and being the type of person I am, I'm not good at it either.

    Have any of you had experience with this? How do you usually play up your appearance and does it work?

    Obviously, responses from any ethnicity are welcome.

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    Honestly Asian fetish guys were my bread and butter. However if you get in too deep with some regs they can become stalkerish and obsessive. The Internet term for these sorts is "weebs." They fetishize Asian cultures without getting to learn everything. It's common now that anime is a mainstream entertainment thing. (Sadly Asia fetish used to be more complex and exciting. Now it's all Sailor Moon memes and Internet denizen white men.)

    I would always have clean long hair, minimal makeup, no eyeshadow (with Occidental eyes you can look like a raccoon in the club lights with too much eye makeup) light lip color and dewy clean skin. No blush.

    Be polite and femme with these customers. A good book to read about the proper mindset is "Memoirs Of A Geisha." Women are creatures of grace and family in Asian culture, not loudmouths, drunks or tacky. (That's the mama san's day job, lol.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by SnuffleUffleGrass View Post
    Honestly Asian fetish guys were my bread and butter. However if you get in too deep with some regs they can become stalkerish and obsessive. The Internet term for these sorts is "weebs." They fetishize Asian cultures without getting to learn everything. It's common now that anime is a mainstream entertainment thing. (Sadly Asia fetish used to be more complex and exciting. Now it's all Sailor Moon memes and Internet denizen white men.)

    I would always have clean long hair, minimal makeup, no eyeshadow (with Occidental eyes you can look like a raccoon in the club lights with too much eye makeup) light lip color and dewy clean skin. No blush.

    Be polite and femme with these customers. A good book to read about the proper mindset is "Memoirs Of A Geisha." Women are creatures of grace and family in Asian culture, not loudmouths, drunks or tacky. (That's the mama san's day job, lol.)
    Thanks for the response!

    I never play up this type of thing in my regular life so it doesn't come naturally to me when dancing. However, I've seen girls in the past make a killing on this type of thing, so I definitely want to get better at it.

    Thanks for the tips, I really appreciate it. I'm quite femme naturally and I also have trouble playing up a more 'domme' role, so that works for me. Do you typically try to accentuate anything specifically or have a particular conversation starter that works well? I do have straight hair and am very petite, so I differ from most dancers at my club. I don't wear too much makeup most of the time, so I don't think I overdo that. Have you had luck with specific type of customers? I usually try to find middle-aged or older men in particular.

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    In general middle aged consumers both male and female are more desirable to work with....

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    I have a Korean friend who works as a duo with a Chinese girl sometimes and they tell guys who aren't Asian that they're sisters. They've only been caught in the lie once to my knowledge, Lol. I play up being French Canadian with the Americans, whisper in French in their ear. It's good to be memorable. Any Identity, from southern belle to Persian princess can bring $. Makes them feel they're getting something special and singular.

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    I'm Eurasian, and whenever the white men hear that it seems to interest them . Sometimes without saying anything guys will ask if I'm Russian. Guys seem to think I'm foreign born and it works in my favor. It's the "exotic" woman appeal. You said that you are Asian. You can use that to your advantage, too. Honestly just be warm and friendly and guys will flock to you. There is a clientele for every race of girl, whether Asian, white, black, latina, etc.

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    Thanks so much for all of your responses!

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