Was in club on Friday eve, it was slow due to weather (Chicago area) and I was talking to a dancer, while I waited for my first drink to arrive. When the drink came I offered for her to have one and she ordered and then as the waitress left, the dancer immediately starting explicitly discussing what and how she liked to perform certain acts. I am not a newb nor am I particularly prudish but I found it off putting for her to go there immediately. I assume it was form of hustle but it didn't do much for me. I changed the subject, paid for her drink and then gave her 10 for her time and told her I wasn't going to get a dance with her. The sad thing was that she was almost exactly my physical type and if not for the graphic discussion I probably would have dropped several hundred with her. Is that sort of hustle effective most times? With little introduction or foreplay if you will, it seemed forced and was uncomfortable for me anyway. BTW I did meet another dancer that I made happy with my donations to her income so overall it was a good night for all.



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