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    Was in club on Friday eve, it was slow due to weather (Chicago area) and I was talking to a dancer, while I waited for my first drink to arrive. When the drink came I offered for her to have one and she ordered and then as the waitress left, the dancer immediately starting explicitly discussing what and how she liked to perform certain acts. I am not a newb nor am I particularly prudish but I found it off putting for her to go there immediately. I assume it was form of hustle but it didn't do much for me. I changed the subject, paid for her drink and then gave her 10 for her time and told her I wasn't going to get a dance with her. The sad thing was that she was almost exactly my physical type and if not for the graphic discussion I probably would have dropped several hundred with her. Is that sort of hustle effective most times? With little introduction or foreplay if you will, it seemed forced and was uncomfortable for me anyway. BTW I did meet another dancer that I made happy with my donations to her income so overall it was a good night for all.

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    Default Re: Explicit Language by a dancer

    If it was a slow night she might've been super desperate, a newbie, or maybe that's just her hustle. As for the effectiveness of that, I'm not sure because that's not my style. At least you did end up having a better time with another dancer.

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    I could see some guys going for that so maybe it is succesful sometimes. It's not what I would do to sell dances but whatever. Maybe she was new, maybe she's an "extras" girl. Who knows. If that happens again (not that it's a really common thing but just in case) with someone whose look you really like and you're still interested in spending money on her try telling her nicely to tone it down a bit. Tell her you're not really into that kind of thing and you just wanna spend some time with a pretty girl like her without all the sex talk. Most girls will tone it down or try to work with what you're asking for since they want the money.

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    Ya I agree that it sounds desperate. Or she was drunk?? Idk.. but to go there right away without being prompted is totally weird, and I have no prob with a little dirty talk.. but that’s something you have to slowly build up to otherwise it’s just abrasive and awkward. Unless like Dani said you’re just trying to offer services which it doesn’t even sound like she was doing. Strange.

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    OMG a stripper talked dirty, let's all pray for her soul.

    So what, her hustle wasn't to your liking. You could have just told her what you wanted instead of running here like a tattle tell.

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    It is almost certainly a situation where the girl was relatively new and either had a boyfriend who was into that or another customer (or she is just really into that). Nothing wrong with it you two just didn't click.

    I would also caution you on one thing. Many men get into the mental trap of "well she should be sad she isn't getting my money" or another variation on that same theme. Yes you did want to buy time with her. You guys didn't click and it's great that you figured that out right off the bat. If you think of it that way you will have a lot better experience and a healthier one as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    OMG a stripper talked dirty, let's all pray for her soul.

    So what, her hustle wasn't to your liking. You could have just told her what you wanted instead of running here like a tattle tell.

    Stripper's hear stuff they don't want to all night long. Welcome to our world.
    I agree. If you don’t like her hustle just tell her that’s not your style or excuse yourself. Lol...omg yes guys believe or at least they buy dances if I talk like I’m a sexed up cheerleader. Have you seen the porn lately...it’s pretty explicit and unbelievable from the beginning. Some guys just want a girl to act like a dumb slut! Believe it works!

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    I think that when I tried to change the conversation and it didn't seem to impact her that I was simply surprised. I am in sales and you can't really sell someone what they don't want to buy. We justify our decisions after the fact with logic but buy on emotion most of the time. Her hustle was emotionally not working for me and I tried to make that clear that it was not working but she kept it. I hope she is successful but as the customer, I don't necessarily have to listen to her hustle when there are other options. My question was related more to see if this is a successful strategy for those that use it or do you need to be adaptable which would be my thought. I am not interested in "She needs my money" as I don't really care if she does, it is more do we click and if so then I am more than willing to pay for time. If, as the customer, I show no signs of buying then the dancer probably needs to either cut bait or change the approach.

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    To me half the fun is sitting at the bar and hearing the bizarre conversations

    Odds are what came out of her mouth was what was going on in her head, and I think that is some funny shit

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sam38g View Post
    OMG a stripper talked dirty, let's all pray for her soul.

    So what, her hustle wasn't to your liking. You could have just told her what you wanted instead of running here like a tattle tell.

    She said "tattle tell!" LOL!

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