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    Default How to turn your date into a sugar daddy

    I have a second date with a doctor. I want him to be my sugar daddy type of relationship. Should I tell him right away what I want or try to vibe with him on a deeper connection and then ask for what I want? He seems well connected and all of that but I don’t know if being too straight forward right away would be a turn off and then I don’t end up getting what I want.

    What should I do?

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    Blue advice - be straightforward. Tell him what you want. If he ghosts or gets "angry" then he thought you'd have sex for free, and you weren't going to get anything. Real SDs appreciate directness, and in fact pay partly for that.

    If he's married or has other relationships, SB is the only way to get anything. If he's truly single you might could be a GF but in many cases men who know their worth, such as doctors, feel they can pay very little and you'll stay because you want the wife spot.

    If he wants you long term (or even for months) he'll be happy to get the particulars out of the way. Anything else, you're not getting much. I hope this helps.
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    i think being blunt with him is the best thing to do so that he knows the deal instead of making him feel used as well be sure to call him daddy a lot that will increase the chances of him not minding !! i'm a guy i know these things !!

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    Hmm... I say don't tell him. Feel him out and see where that can go. Meh, doctors have a reputation of being players...

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    Default Re: How to turn your date into a sugar daddy

    Direct or indirect.

    Waste less time being direct but face more rejection.

    If you go the indirect route you will have to treat him like a sugar daddy and hopefully he will understand and fill the role. If not you gotta bounce.....
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    Not to sound cynical, but... I feel like when you want something that's not commitment/emotional, you don't say anything.

    It's like when a certain man doesn't want commitment, but strings along that naive chic just to get laid until something else better comes up.

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    Read G.L. Lamberts Ho Tactics.

    I with the school of though of up front but honestly I think a doctor will jump cause doctors are like that unless they are old and tied into a sexless marriage. Then he will appreciate the honesty. Guy with strings attached want you bc SB means your not gonna ring up his wife one day or start expecting him to get a divorce so he can marry you!

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    Kinda depends how you met?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    Hmm... I say don't tell him. Feel him out and see where that can go. Meh, doctors have a reputation of being players...
    agree. if he's moderately attractive and a doctor he's got chicks throwing themselves at him left and right.

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    It depends. Doctors are tough to score as an SD unless he's married and physically unattractive or very overweight. If he's married he might be willing to be an SD because you'd be a side dish so he'd be more willing to pay for discretion. Hot doctors can easily get pussy for free so they'd not bother with wanting to be an SD.

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