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    I was reading through another thread and someone said that women generally don't refer to their vagina as a pussy. What do you call it then in casual conversation (or as casual as it can get on the subject)?

    As a guy, pussy is just sort of what it's always been called amongst folks I know (primarily guys). Vagina just seems so crude, even though it's the legit name.

    I'm not trying to offend anyone, or make anyone eye roll, so if saying pussy is causing that, I want to change the way I talk.

    Thanks in advance!

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    I guess it depends on who I'm talking to and why I'm bringing it up. Around people who are more "sensitive" and who aren't prone to using foul language, I will say vagina. With people around whom I don't need to mince words, I'll say "pussy", or sometimes "cunt" if I'm angry. If I'm trying to be funny, I might say "lady bits" or something else silly.

    It's kind of strange to me to think of "vagina" as being a crude word. As you point out, it is the clinical name. It's what I use if I'm talking to a doctor or other health care worker.

    In my book, "pussy" and "vagina" are just fine. (Although, technically "vagina" is just the inner tubular part. The outside is a vulva.)

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    I was reading through another thread and someone said that women generally don't refer to their vagina as a pussy. What do you call it then in casual conversation (or as casual as it can get on the subject)?

    As a guy, pussy is just sort of what it's always been called amongst folks I know (primarily guys). Vagina just seems so crude, even though it's the legit name.

    I'm not trying to offend anyone, or make anyone eye roll, so if saying pussy is causing that, I want to change the way I talk.

    Thanks in advance!
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    It really just depends on the company I'm keeping at that moment. My doctor is the only person I know who says vagina.

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    Pussy seems much more crude to me than "vagina". I've heard other people refer to their bits as snatch, kitty, vajayjay, and glovebox.

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    Probably depends on the person and the setting

    professional, vanilla setting = vagina/labia/clitoris

    trying to get nasty n freaky or with your lover = pussy, clit, lips

    comedy sketch = pocketbook, twinkie, vajajay, girly bits, cooter, taco, beef curtains, monkey, etc

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    I just call it pussy unless I'm around someone who's easily offended. In that case I will refer to it as lady parts. If I'm trying to be funny I'll call it pink taco. When talking to Star Wars nerd type men, I'll refer to it as my Sarlacc, lol.

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    Pet peeve is when the word vagina is used to describe labia /vulva/clit/mons pubis /everything. I say pussy/kitty. . Lady garden if I'm trying to be funny.
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    Sarlacc literally just made me laugh out loud. Sounds like a variety of different answers depending on the situation.. I know I've seen kitty a lot, which is cute and innocuous. Lends itself to a few double entendres as well, and I've always loved those.

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    i don't really care, personally. i'm not easily offended and like hearing funny new names for it. i think the weirdest one was when a customer asked to see my "flapjack" (in a hardcore texas accent, naturally).

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    99% it's my pussy

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    TWAT. It's my twat.

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    Haha... I only call it pussy during sex or dirty talk. Otherwise I'll refer to it as vagina (In my opinion that's the least sexy way to call it AKA youre just talking without anything sexual involved there).

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    Back when Howard Stern was on regular radio - back when he was relevant - he would call it a hey-nanny-nanny. I refer to it as a mystery zone. (I'm a guy, so maybe my posting is disqualified.)

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    ^ a mystery zone!? Lol thats a new one. Its not all that mystery i promise you. As the owner of one, its not all that great lol.
    In polite circles I would say my private area. I know my mother thinks the word pussy is crude. It wasn’t untill i got older and GUYS started to refer to it as pussy get i get used to it being called that.

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    If I'm around kids who aren't allowed to use specific words for the crotch...I just say something like "crotch" "the holiest of holies" Keeping it vague.

    Other than that any word works. A hallmark of adulthood is understanding the workings and importance of the vagina.
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    This is a ITC topic/conversation starter. Preferably in the vip room.

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    Not a huge concern of mine, what to call it, or anything else.
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    I cannot stand the word pussy, especially not from supposedly grown adults. Why do you need a substitute for vagina? Is vagina a dirty word? And then pussy is so often used as an insult for weakness. Language matters and these things do affect our perception of ourselves (as women) or men's perception of us.
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    It's not something I really use myself, but if I'm going to be honest, I would opt for that over some much less bearable (IMO) ones. I really don't like "hooha", "vajayjay", "bajingo", etc.
    After watching Stranger Things, I've called it "the upside down" a couple times. For the most part, I just stick with vagina. It's not something I really make a regular topic of conversation, though.
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