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Last edited by Sugar6996; 02-25-2018 at 12:51 PM.





You don't have to ask permission, she's being stupid. 3/4 of the time there will be a girl chatting with my regular when I come in, and you'd better believe I walk right up and make it obvious he's here to see me. If they're smart, they leave graciously... Which is what she should have done. I don't see how it benefits her to keep sitting on their lap when they've come to see you. She's wasting her own time.
Nobody owns a customer in the club, period. There's etiquette to a degree though. If it's not your regular that's there to see you specifically, don't bother him if he's with a girl. If it IS your regular there to see you specifically, go right on up regardless of who he's talking to.
Just ignore her nonsense, don't yell or fight with her. Maybe privately ask your customers to say something on their own next time - "It was nice chatting with you, but I was waiting for Sugar & she just walked in". They could also let the girl know right away that they're waiting for you & she's welcome to chat if she's bored, but they'll be going for dances as soon as you get there.
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Unprofessional to yell & fight in front of customers or to ask the manager if you can physically assault another stripper.
You showed how weak your game is to everyone there. A confident person would just laugh & make more off of the guy. It is his money to spend & nobody owns any one. If he spends on another gal, doesn't mean he wont spend the same or more on you. So she was the opening act and you are the main show. Pull her in to do a 2 girl dance & charge him even more money than normal.
You think your bills & responsibilities are more important than everyone else's? Wow If a guy has been a regular that long you think another can easily steal him a way shows that they can.
Now the club sees you as a liability. Customers don't come back for screaming violent banshees and management doesn't like that kind of shit going down on the floor. Happy, sexy gals who wants everyone to have a good time & spend way more than they thought before walking in the door is the goal. Now your regular is going to think twice about coming in & seeing a fight go down in front of him. He may not tell you, but going to another club without stress is the alternative.
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You sound a bit too emotional. You can't control how other girls will act, you can only control yourself. If someone wants to spend money on you they will, no matter what other girls try or do. And don't ask the managers questions like that, it puts you in a bad light.
Guys don't like drama. Once I was talking to a customer and another girl sat on his lap and tried to get him to get dances from her, I just started browsing on my phone. After a couple of minutes he told her no and got dances from me, spending a lot. He said he wasn't initially sure whether he will get dances from me or not but when he saw how calmly I handled the situation he made up his mind.

I didn't see a girl talk to a customer and start screaming. When we sat and she went to sit on his lap as I was sitting there and I kept my cool and said please excuse yourself. Then she started screaming my real name half way through the bar. That's when I calmly asked why she's so mad. She started screaming and lying that's when I lost my shit. I'm not perfect by any means I have a short temper and I won't allow anyone to think I'm a bitch or doormat. My manager is my friend it was a private conversation and us laughing. No I don't own anyone you're right but he text me saying that he's there so I went up to him. Proper club etiquette don't sit with other girls regulars. If a regular asks a girl to dance or gang whatever idc I have some do that when I'm busy. He spent an hour and a half in the back so my customer didn't care I just don't tolerate disrespect it's the 3rd time with same girl.

Yes I'm extremely emotional. Very stressed about complications with my implants and pain I'm in. Extremely stressed to the point of weeks of migraines. Trying to move. Many other things as well. I've been dancing on and off for almost 5 years now and that's the second time I lost my shit. Ppl go through things and sometimes react differently than they normally would. This isn't the first time with this person the first few times she walked in on me sitting with customers I sat patiently until we did our dances. I also don't care if my regulars dance with other ppl the disrespect is what gets me.





The only other thing I will add is tha other girls probably do not know who your regulars are. I’m not saying this to be critical, one of my really good friends danced at the same club as me for 3 years and sometimes she’ll talk about old regulars of hers - she even sent me a photo of one of them because she ran into him recently. I don’t remember who he is. I would only know my regulars
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i defiantly get what you're saying but i work day shift we have 5-10 girls max working. It's pretty tight niche I know other girls regulars but maybe you're both right maybe she didn't know. Either way we could of talked it out like I tried. Whatever now I'm sure we'll be more conscious of staying out of each other's way I know I will.
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