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    Default How do exs know when you moved on!

    Seriously, why is it when you move on from an ex-they pop up out of no where? I went months without talking to him. I starting talking to a guy and he all of a sudden I get an e-mail from him like THE NIGHT I’m hanging out with this guy. The same thing happened to a girl at work. She hooked up with this guy and her ex FWB shows up the SAME NIGHT!
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    Default Re: How do exs know when you moved on!

    Oh my god, I know! Exes always come back. I think it's because when you move on, you're no longer in contact with them and they get curious. I feel like this is especially true if you weren't handling the breakup well and were trying to get back together with him but he ignored you and faded away. I think in those cases when they contact you it's only for an ego boost to see if they still have an effect on you. If they do, they'll have their ego boosted and probably disappear off of the face of the Earth until they're in need of another ego boost. Some of them contact you again because they're lonely/horny, can't find anything else at the moment, and think that if you were head over heels for them before, you'll jump at the opportunity to be with him again, even if it's just for sex. I have exes who will randomly contact me on or around holidays and pretend to be all friendly, as if they really care about me or how I'm doing, and then try to get some booty or nude pictures. I ignore them and they go away only to reappear and try again. It's annoying. I've heard the same story from female friends.
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    Default Re: How do exs know when you moved on!

    It’s a crazy sixth sense. I’m such a nerd. I just wondered if there was some type of soul tie or supernatural explanation. It’s probably not that deep-they just get bored/lonely.

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    When the possibility of getting no strings attached sex because there is a new guy in the pic is overwhelming. Despite being broken up, in their minds that door is still open, a new guy in the pic makes them contact you to reassure themselves there is still an open door there.

    They are watching the entire time & keeping tabs, even if they are having sex with 10 other ladies or in a new relationship themselves. They need to keep you mentally connected so one day they can fuck you again. It is just pure selfishness.

    Delete, block don't answer back. You don't owe them a response because you have moved on. And if he cheated on you, left you when you needed him the most. Write back "Sorry, to busy sucking the biggest most perfect dick in the world."
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    Default Re: How do exs know when you moved on!

    Well if you think about someone a lot, then it is possible they pickup on that and think about you as well.

    Also cause they stalk your social media

    And it is an ego boost to them to disrupt your relationships with other men. - most times they could care less about really trying to get you back its more ego for them to disturb you if they see you being happy with someone else. In their simple minds only them/their dick can make you happy and you are supposed to be miserable without them.

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    Haha mine's the exact opposite. As soon as my new bf and I started kicking it, my ex stopped texting me when him and his toothless hag would fight. I'm sure he will surface at some point, but I make damn sure I tell the grapevine how happy I am and sexually fulfilled I am currently
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxGothBarbie View Post
    I make damn sure I tell the grapevine how happy I am and sexually fulfilled I am currently
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    Default Re: How do exs know when you moved on!

    The abusive exes in particular always circle back. I swear they send the same email to all of their exes- I know in the case of my ex husband I certainly wasn't special. Haha. It's when they are lonely and need validation...or even just want to see if they still have an in. To ex hubs I will always be his property. ::eyeroll::

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    Coming back around, orbiting, revolving door, whatever it's called = Common trait of narcissists

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    ^ Hoovering , what ALL narcissists master at ... or at least try to LOL
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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxGothBarbie View Post
    ^ Hoovering , what ALL narcissists master at ... or at least try to LOL
    Yup. As I've aged I've come to see the most parasitic people are geniuses of emotional manipulation and having zero self-respect
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    Default Re: How do exs know when you moved on!

    Now I just find it funny.

    One use to call me every year on my birthday. the other one will just messenger me or what's app. the other one has been getting creative trying to ask me questions of how my work is doing , and "impressed" I am still webcamming. I am almost at the point where he should pay to see me and my new man together. More because I know he won't do it, but it's a nice way to see me squirm.
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    The funny/gross truth is...heterosexual males don't feel bad about caressing their egos by annoying their former partners. "Let go of my Ego" indeed lol

    These guys need to feel in demand & always wanted by women. Pestering you is a way to get an ego boost without any effort other than a text, a phone call or an unwanted visit to your workplace or home.

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    They probably be stalking your Facebook page, and checking to see what your relationship status is, and if you have photos of you with a dude. Haha.

    I used to chuckle when the asshole who had stood me up all those years ago (not once...but TWICE) had started texting me "What's up?" again out of the blue. Lmfao. NOT INTERESTED, Shrimp Dick!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Ifyouseekamy View Post
    It’s a crazy sixth sense. I’m such a nerd. I just wondered if there was some type of soul tie or supernatural explanation. It’s probably not that deep-they just get bored/lonely.
    I do wonder if there's some sort of psychic connection between exes! sometimes the timing is just too freaky. I think though it has more to do with the fact that men and women handle breakups very differently. women tend to be more in touch with their emotions so we'll cry and vent to our friends whereas guys try to move on as quickly as possible.

    in the same exact time frame a woman will move on finally and start exploring other dating options and the man will realize how much he misses his ex because he never gave himself time to process the breakup.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Litch View Post
    I do wonder if there's some sort of psychic connection between exes!
    I think it's possible. (I've had odd dreams before major events that happen to relatives or friends.) The Universe is mysterious.


    Due to human nature it's dangerous to use "Magical Thinking" to excuse the shortcomings/evil deeds of romantic partners. Humans are social beings who need touch and belonging.......but someone who knows you well & does not have your best interests at heart can get close enough to hurt you badly. There's the curse of romance. It will always cut close enough to leave marks......
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    Default Re: How do exs know when you moved on!

    Humans exchange DNA when they sleep/kiss with 1 person, 1 time. If your ex and you exchanged bodily fluids over a longer period of time, your DNA (and his) is still inside of him/you and will be forever. So chemically, he probably feels and senses 'something' aka another man's DNA (maybe you kissed/fucked said new guy?). Also, those who mentioned 6th sense are correct. I call them premonitions and have them myself. Dreams and visions that come true within the same or next day. Perhaps he's 'felt' you move on. Weird, but mostly trueeee.


    I read that this was a myth...but, at least it might make you think a bit, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    Humans exchange DNA when they sleep/kiss with 1 person, 1 time. If your ex and you exchanged bodily fluids over a longer period of time, your DNA (and his) is still inside of him/you and will be forever. So chemically, he probably feels and senses 'something' aka another man's DNA (maybe you kissed/fucked said new guy?). Also, those who mentioned 6th sense are correct. I call them premonitions and have them myself. Dreams and visions that come true within the same or next day. Perhaps he's 'felt' you move on. Weird, but mostly trueeee.
    Ughhh I hate admitting it but I've had these "spidey sense" moments with certain lovers.

    Honestly I could have done without all of it. At the time it just seemed like salt being rubbed in the wound.

    I guess the only upshot of our Tinder-age dating scene is it's not fashionable to waste away with carrying a torch for a old affair. It used to be a cute thing, now it seems out dated.
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    Fuck Tinder. I will still carry along being old fashioned if I want LOL . I have never been one to follow the current shit.
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    I hate saying this but due to social media a lot of people in your life can get detailed info that you didn't want to share.

    FB shares location on Messenger (I didn't know this) and FB's privacy controls don't work if someone who is not you is tagging you in pics/pages or discussing your life on pages/groups.

    Honestly if you have a bad breakup or divorce, delete your social media & ask friends/family not to share info on social media. Like, insist.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    Humans exchange DNA when they sleep/kiss with 1 person, 1 time. If your ex and you exchanged bodily fluids over a longer period of time, your DNA (and his) is still inside of him/you and will be forever. So chemically, he probably feels and senses 'something' aka another man's DNA (maybe you kissed/fucked said new guy?). Also, those who mentioned 6th sense are correct. I call them premonitions and have them myself. Dreams and visions that come true within the same or next day. Perhaps he's 'felt' you move on. Weird, but mostly trueeee.
    Is that true? I've heard of that with men having cum inside a woman but it was from a bible thumper so I didn't put much stock into it when I first heard it. I've heard that once a man cums inside without a rubber his DNA stays inside you forever and can even get into your brain and store there. That would certainly explain why a select few exes have been able to make me so damn crazy. I can't have sex right now anyways for medical reasons but dang it, I don't want any more damn men's DNA inside me making me psychotic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WendiStarr View Post
    Is that true? I've heard of that with men having cum inside a woman but it was from a bible thumper so I didn't put much stock into it when I first heard it. I've heard that once a man cums inside without a rubber his DNA stays inside you forever and can even get into your brain and store there. That would certainly explain why a select few exes have been able to make me so damn crazy. I can't have sex right now anyways for medical reasons but dang it, I don't want any more damn men's DNA inside me making me psychotic.
    The sperm part is true. It has one job and they swim to do it, doesn't matter if they don't know where they are, lol. They are looking for the egg and act the way nature intended by burring themselves, even behind your eyeballs when you swallow cum, each, and every time. It's also why it hurts like a bitch when you get nut in your eye because those fuckers are literally digging in!

    I thought that we retained ALL male DNA but it's a myth apparently.

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