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    Sad Newbie....should I be grinding on them or no?



    So I started at my club (and to dancing) two weeks ago and its a fully nude, only touching above the waist club.

    Its a small friendly club and Ive been watching the other girls give lapdances and a lot of them seem to be grinding on the customers crotches.

    So I started doing it a bit too since I needed to make money but it makes me uncomfortable because I'm scared of like, their jizz or catching a disease OR SOMETHING, I don't know, I'm just panicking a little.

    I know I probably sound really dumb but I've seen some posts from girls on here who say they never grind or anything so now I'm just worried I'm doing too far when I don't have to. I know it depends on the club but....what would you do in this situation? x

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    Default Re: Newbie....should I be grinding on them or no?

    There's no disease that's transmitted by pants, so you should be fine in that regard.

    Generally when girls grind on customers you're using your buttcheeks or tailbone, you absolutely don't want to be snail trailing on a guy because ouch.

    The point of grinding is NOT to get a customer off... if that is the goal at your particular club I would suggest a different one, but in most places where "friction dances" are expected you'd grind a little, then turn around and stick your boobs in his face, shake your butt, etc. You change positions, it's not just grinding the whole time. If a customer requests that you'd probably want to avoid them tbh

    You don't have to do anything you're not comfortable with in order to make money, just understand that if you dance below the expected contact level at your club, you'll likely have to deal with comments from customers and probably missing out on some continues, but if you are fine with that and are good enough at building rapport with the customers who aren't just looking for a grindy dance then you'll still make money.

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    Default Re: Newbie....should I be grinding on them or no?

    i've seen some dancers bring a bandana around with them and place it on the guys laps during dances so they don't have to grind directly on their pants. that's what i would do. i'd probably get a cute little pink one and carry it with my purse. some girls won't even sit down in the club chairs without their cloth thingy


    you don't have to do anything you're uncomfortable with but if grinding is standard practice at your club it will be hard to make money without doing it. it's not that big of a deal in my opinion, most places i've worked that's just how you give a lapdance. i don't sit and grind the whole time because i'm not trying to make dudes jizz their pants but a little grind here and there in-between changing positions is how you get them to want more.

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    Default Re: Newbie....should I be grinding on them or no?

    Depending on your state will depend on the laws of the dances. YES, you'll see some girls grind on guys (there's one club near by that girls do that, EVEN THOUGH it's a no contact state), but I would look up the laws regarding this.
    Undercovers will come in the clubs and will see whom breaks the laws.

    I would research and make sure you can even make contact during dances.

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    Default Re: Newbie....should I be grinding on them or no?

    I dance in a full nude club with grinding expected. I don’t grind hard or fast and only so it with my booty cheeks or thighs. I don’t straddle facing them naked, the thought of grinding coochie on pants makes me cringe lol. I keep a foot on the floor with boobs in face. You’ll eventually get the swing of a lap dance routine you’re comfortable with. And no, you won’t get diseases, however I have got some friction burn on my booty from doing TONS of dances in a night lol.

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